KillerMuffin
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So lavy won't get pissed off because I'm "going after" Marxist on another thread
I'm not "going after" Marxist on that thread. In fact, I did try to defend him by explaining a little of what people who think negatively of online love is like. I didn't call him dirty names. I didn't invalidate his opinion. I didn't rip him a new asshole. I didn't say he was even wrong. I didn't disagree with him. I called him what his is. Cold. Marxist is an extremely insensitive man. I'm not going to lie, particularly when his own atrocious behavior on this thread proves that particular sentiment beyond a shadow of a doubt. The man either hides or lacks human compassion.
I don't like Marxist in the least. I don't feel warm fuzzies for him like you do. I think it's in piss poor taste that Marxist even posted the way he did. He attacked every person out there that doesn't agree with him and belittled them and their feelings with one single sentiment. "You don't feel heartbreak. You feel disappointment."
If I'd done it my usual style, I would have ripped straight through him up one side and down the other. Not in defense of a cold hearted asshole, but in defense of the people he's hurting. No one, including me, has the right to hurt other people so callously.
None of the people who posted about their online heartbreak in this thread deserved what Marxist told them. They don't deserve to have their feelings treated like they don't exist because he doesn't think those feelings are valid. They do not deserve to have their pain devalued because he's a jerk.
Marxist is your friend. That's fine. But do you honestly believe that a single human being who posted about their pain on that thread deserved "You don't feel heartbreak. You feel disappointment?" Do you think that these people deserved to have their pain mocked? That's not expressing an opinion, that condescending to tell other people what they can or cannot feel. That's having the unmitigated audacity to callously tell another person that they are not feeling pain. He ridicules the very idea that they even felt that pain. Marxist looks exactly like KidRock from my high horse.
So, lavy, think what you will. You know me and you know I have a misguided and perfectly rabid loyalty. I feel that to my friends and I feel that to people who I've get the notion that are being unfairly attacked. It's why I stuck up for Marxist in the first place and it's why I'm not buying his brand of bullshit in the second place. You think whatever you like. In this particular instance, I do not think that I am wrong in anything that I've said and your accusations have no support and have not swayed me to rethink my position. Believe it or not, I'm relatively reasonable.
In case you missed it, here's what the soul of intense emotion and love has to say. Read this: "If you knew him and really were trying to see what the bloody man was saying, you would realize it's because his love is more intense than probably 90% of the online world." Then read what Mr. sacrificial loving has to say:
And this is unadulterated Marxist. You have a context to interact with him with. I do not. From what he's said here, I don't care to. The man is cold. To paraphrase a lovely lady, if you were really trying to see what the bloody man was saying, you would realize he's an asshole.
I'm not "going after" Marxist on that thread. In fact, I did try to defend him by explaining a little of what people who think negatively of online love is like. I didn't call him dirty names. I didn't invalidate his opinion. I didn't rip him a new asshole. I didn't say he was even wrong. I didn't disagree with him. I called him what his is. Cold. Marxist is an extremely insensitive man. I'm not going to lie, particularly when his own atrocious behavior on this thread proves that particular sentiment beyond a shadow of a doubt. The man either hides or lacks human compassion.
I don't like Marxist in the least. I don't feel warm fuzzies for him like you do. I think it's in piss poor taste that Marxist even posted the way he did. He attacked every person out there that doesn't agree with him and belittled them and their feelings with one single sentiment. "You don't feel heartbreak. You feel disappointment."
If I'd done it my usual style, I would have ripped straight through him up one side and down the other. Not in defense of a cold hearted asshole, but in defense of the people he's hurting. No one, including me, has the right to hurt other people so callously.
None of the people who posted about their online heartbreak in this thread deserved what Marxist told them. They don't deserve to have their feelings treated like they don't exist because he doesn't think those feelings are valid. They do not deserve to have their pain devalued because he's a jerk.
Marxist is your friend. That's fine. But do you honestly believe that a single human being who posted about their pain on that thread deserved "You don't feel heartbreak. You feel disappointment?" Do you think that these people deserved to have their pain mocked? That's not expressing an opinion, that condescending to tell other people what they can or cannot feel. That's having the unmitigated audacity to callously tell another person that they are not feeling pain. He ridicules the very idea that they even felt that pain. Marxist looks exactly like KidRock from my high horse.
So, lavy, think what you will. You know me and you know I have a misguided and perfectly rabid loyalty. I feel that to my friends and I feel that to people who I've get the notion that are being unfairly attacked. It's why I stuck up for Marxist in the first place and it's why I'm not buying his brand of bullshit in the second place. You think whatever you like. In this particular instance, I do not think that I am wrong in anything that I've said and your accusations have no support and have not swayed me to rethink my position. Believe it or not, I'm relatively reasonable.
In case you missed it, here's what the soul of intense emotion and love has to say. Read this: "If you knew him and really were trying to see what the bloody man was saying, you would realize it's because his love is more intense than probably 90% of the online world." Then read what Mr. sacrificial loving has to say:
And this is unadulterated Marxist. You have a context to interact with him with. I do not. From what he's said here, I don't care to. The man is cold. To paraphrase a lovely lady, if you were really trying to see what the bloody man was saying, you would realize he's an asshole.
