So I put my finger in my bf's ass last night...
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overthebow
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The Divining Rod also looks like it would do the job.
Asking a lot...
A pic of the nexus (or feeldoe) in action would do more that many words. A testamonial would be great though. Perhaps worthy of a story?
I guess I understand why the manufacturer doesn't have pictures of their product being modeled, but it's still odd.
I don't think I've ever cum harder than being fingered anally and sucked. To have my lover pleasuring herself as she fucks me with a dildo making her feel everything she was doint to me.. and stroking me off would be heaven.
A pic of the nexus (or feeldoe) in action would do more that many words. A testamonial would be great though. Perhaps worthy of a story?
I guess I understand why the manufacturer doesn't have pictures of their product being modeled, but it's still odd.
I don't think I've ever cum harder than being fingered anally and sucked. To have my lover pleasuring herself as she fucks me with a dildo making her feel everything she was doint to me.. and stroking me off would be heaven.
flyindolphine
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my boy freaks out when my hand is anywhere near that area, i tried nice soft approach but damn it he just doesn’t want it! and i heard that for guys especially it should feel very good, right before the orgasm if you stimulate there people say it feels incredibly.
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This thread has given me lots of food for thought. My SO has made it clear he loves his ass played with not even going so far as anal and I have yet to be able to bring myself to do it. God knows I wan't to....expeciailly since I know he would love it. Not sure why I can't just seems so umm.. unsanitary? Guess thats the nurse in me....lol
If you man is interested in your ass...
I like to believe that anything I like my wife might like.... and vica versa. So, if you like anal play, it's almost not fair to return the favor. And, likewise, if he enjoys pleasing you that way.... turn about is fair. I guess strap-ons take this to the extreme, but I'm really only interested if she is really getting all the pleasure she can from the act.
(This turnabout is also why I'm keen on the idea of experiencing my wife squirting up close and personal.... using all my senses! Not sure if it indicates that she has had a better orgasm... but I won't be left wondering.)
I like to believe that anything I like my wife might like.... and vica versa. So, if you like anal play, it's almost not fair to return the favor. And, likewise, if he enjoys pleasing you that way.... turn about is fair. I guess strap-ons take this to the extreme, but I'm really only interested if she is really getting all the pleasure she can from the act.
(This turnabout is also why I'm keen on the idea of experiencing my wife squirting up close and personal.... using all my senses! Not sure if it indicates that she has had a better orgasm... but I won't be left wondering.)
buttmaninohio
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Personally, I love having my ass played with. Problem is, finding a woman willing to do it without thinking you are gross, wierd, or even gay. My gf stickes her finger into my ass while she gives me head. The prostate massage I get from that makes me cum harder than I ever have. I bought her a strap-on (that I chose because of the comfortable size) but she has yet to use it on me. No biggie, she will someday. As with women and anal, the key is patience and plenty of lube. Start with a finger and work your way up. The finger will cause the anal ring to relax a bit and make it easier to try bigger things or more fingers. As with anal and women, if you just plow right in like the Marines charging a beach, the muscles tense up and it is painful rather than pleasurable. I for one, do not have fears that I am secretly gay, and have pleasured myself for many years this way. However, not all women are into it. For those of you who are, let your SO's know. You may be surprised at their willingness to indulge.
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I am a man and I've found out that I love anal play and especially anything that stimulates my prostate. The comments about how prostate massage makes the precum flow are right on the money. I use a device (not a toy) called the Aneros (www.aneros.com) for prostate stimulation and I would highly recommend it to any man secure enough to experiment. Listen up guys, you're missing something great. Why do you guys think a good bowel movement feels so good? Maybe because the passing feces stimulate your prostate? Worth thinking about, hmmmmm.
Ladies too! My wife and I statrted to experiment with anal play a few years ago and we wish we wouldn't have waited so long. We both love having a finger in our ass during oral play and she is actually surprised that in the right mood and with the right stimulation and preparation she actually enjoys having me in her ass. She loves the feeling of carrying my cum inside her afterwards.
She isn't ready to use a strap-on yet, but I know I'm ready whenever she is.
Ladies too! My wife and I statrted to experiment with anal play a few years ago and we wish we wouldn't have waited so long. We both love having a finger in our ass during oral play and she is actually surprised that in the right mood and with the right stimulation and preparation she actually enjoys having me in her ass. She loves the feeling of carrying my cum inside her afterwards.
She isn't ready to use a strap-on yet, but I know I'm ready whenever she is.
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This thread is amazing! I just love for my SO to do this, she has recently started getting interested in playing like this & so far it has been amazing!
Can't wait for more!
Can't wait for more!
buttmaninohio
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I am intrigued by the product you mentioned, the Aneros. I read all the info about it at the site. Sounds intresting to say the least. I intend to purchase one soon. Looks like it would be a blast to fuck while having that in your ass. Ever try that? I also read the thread about the anal beads and the pleasure they bring...a couple of things to remember before using them...first, take an enema...don't want it to be a bad experience for either party...and second, pull slowly and senuously....not like you are trying to start a lawn mower! They CAN be a great experience. Just a couple of ideas from mikieporn
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Knotted Silk Scarf
Funny you brought that up ... my first experience giving anal sex to a guy was a BF who had heard about the silk scarf thing and suggested we try it. We ended up using a long string of plastic beads that I lubed and slid up into his rectum -- then pulled out just as he was climaxing.
He loved it and I was hooked. I have to say that I have tried the anal beads on the market and found that sometimes the ones that have a long space of string between each bead can actually hurt. I'm tempted to go back the little beads strung right next to each other cause the sensation of your ass opening and releasing 20 - 30 little beads little ones - one right after the other - is really sublime.
Plus it's fun stuffing them in.
GREAT thread.
Francy
Funny you brought that up ... my first experience giving anal sex to a guy was a BF who had heard about the silk scarf thing and suggested we try it. We ended up using a long string of plastic beads that I lubed and slid up into his rectum -- then pulled out just as he was climaxing.
He loved it and I was hooked. I have to say that I have tried the anal beads on the market and found that sometimes the ones that have a long space of string between each bead can actually hurt. I'm tempted to go back the little beads strung right next to each other cause the sensation of your ass opening and releasing 20 - 30 little beads little ones - one right after the other - is really sublime.
Plus it's fun stuffing them in.
GREAT thread.
Francy
beads..... pearls
I was hoping to hear on a different thread whether a string of beads like you mention or pearls pulled over the clit as they were withdrawn from vagina would be worthy experiment.
Actually I suggested this be done using only mouth with beads held taut against g-spot inside.
(ok... I just added g-spot this time)
I was hoping to hear on a different thread whether a string of beads like you mention or pearls pulled over the clit as they were withdrawn from vagina would be worthy experiment.
Actually I suggested this be done using only mouth with beads held taut against g-spot inside.
(ok... I just added g-spot this time)
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Aneros
I have one and have tried it. I have yet to achieve the hands free orgasm that the instructions suggest are possible. However, the small size is fine with me, and the prostate massage goes great with hand jobs or making love with the wife.
If I really have a lot of time (not too often I'm sorry to say), I'll take about twenty minutes to clench it in and slowly rub my cock.
After that, I usually want it out right away.
Still a second choice to my wife's finger slowly rubbing my prostate button.
--Waterkemist
I have one and have tried it. I have yet to achieve the hands free orgasm that the instructions suggest are possible. However, the small size is fine with me, and the prostate massage goes great with hand jobs or making love with the wife.
If I really have a lot of time (not too often I'm sorry to say), I'll take about twenty minutes to clench it in and slowly rub my cock.
After that, I usually want it out right away.
Still a second choice to my wife's finger slowly rubbing my prostate button.
--Waterkemist
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My Bloke enjoyed doing it on me and kept saying he wanted me to do it on him, I was a bit warey at first about hurting and stuff it was something I had never done before but we took it one step at a time and now he loves it so much that he wants more.
research..... aneros
I asked for more information and this man replied
I'll be glad to share more information about my special sex toy. The Aneros "Male G Spot" stimulator is made of plastic. It's length is 4 1/2" and 1" in diameter at the widest point. At the tip is a raised bump which rubs against the prostate. At the other end is a handle in the shape of a "S". Well it sorta looks like a S. The portion that rests between the cheeks is almost formed over into a circle so when I'm excited I or my wife can slip a finger through and pull which really gets me going. The opposite part of the "S" is shaped to rest under my balls. All in all it's quite comfortable once your used to it. I would encourage any male to give it a try if your interested in anal play. I can assure you that the orgasms you will have will more intense, last longer and at times more fluid. My best to you all..
(I was actually looking for Divining Rod....)
I asked for more information and this man replied
I'll be glad to share more information about my special sex toy. The Aneros "Male G Spot" stimulator is made of plastic. It's length is 4 1/2" and 1" in diameter at the widest point. At the tip is a raised bump which rubs against the prostate. At the other end is a handle in the shape of a "S". Well it sorta looks like a S. The portion that rests between the cheeks is almost formed over into a circle so when I'm excited I or my wife can slip a finger through and pull which really gets me going. The opposite part of the "S" is shaped to rest under my balls. All in all it's quite comfortable once your used to it. I would encourage any male to give it a try if your interested in anal play. I can assure you that the orgasms you will have will more intense, last longer and at times more fluid. My best to you all..
(I was actually looking for Divining Rod....)
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special_couple2004
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very useful
This thread is great! We wanted to buy some toys for anal pleasures and now we know what to look out for. Thanks everyone!
J of special_couple2004
This thread is great! We wanted to buy some toys for anal pleasures and now we know what to look out for. Thanks everyone!
J of special_couple2004
My husband and I have just recently gotten into anal play. (About a year ago, been together for 5 yrs.)
When we first started, it was all about my ass. And I loved it!
And well, recently (like about 2 months ago) he begged me to lick his asshole while giving head. I was shocked!! And I have no problem doing it at all.
We've since moved on to full cock in my ass and just a finger in his. I'm just dying for the day that I can take a strap-on to him!
I do have a question though. I find it difficult to give head and finger his ass at the same time. Is there a good positon for this? So far we've only tried with him on his back.
I do have to say that I love going down on him, but it's never got me 'excited.' However, every time I play with his ass, whether it be licking it or fingering it, I get dripping wet and can't wait for what will follow!
When we first started, it was all about my ass. And I loved it!
And well, recently (like about 2 months ago) he begged me to lick his asshole while giving head. I was shocked!! And I have no problem doing it at all.
We've since moved on to full cock in my ass and just a finger in his. I'm just dying for the day that I can take a strap-on to him!
I do have a question though. I find it difficult to give head and finger his ass at the same time. Is there a good positon for this? So far we've only tried with him on his back.
I do have to say that I love going down on him, but it's never got me 'excited.' However, every time I play with his ass, whether it be licking it or fingering it, I get dripping wet and can't wait for what will follow!
Volz said:My husband and I have just recently gotten into anal play. (About a year ago, been together for 5 yrs.)
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And well, recently (like about 2 months ago) he begged me to lick his asshole while giving head. I was shocked!! And I have no problem doing it at all.
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I do have a question though. I find it difficult to give head and finger his ass at the same time. Is there a good positon for this? So far we've only tried with him on his back.
I'm glad to hear you're both enjoying it so much! As for a postition, you might want to try a 69 position, even though he may not be eating you out. Experiment with who is on top; I suspect you'll have an easier time if he's on top, but try it out. Head-to-toe laying on your sides might work well also.
Let us know what works out best for you!
special_couple2004
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Can't wait to try all these lovely ideas!
Wow! This is such a great thread... so many good ideas and toy suggestions! I am so looking forward to stimulating my lover like this... he really enjoyed the one time I slid my finger into him and I'd love to stroke his prostate as I suck him or try a strap-on and reach around and stroke his cock as I move in and out of him! He cums so much and so hard now, I can only imagine the loads of cream he'll spray down my throat or over our bed with a little ass attention!
Only a little while longer, J love!
D of special_couple2004
Wow! This is such a great thread... so many good ideas and toy suggestions! I am so looking forward to stimulating my lover like this... he really enjoyed the one time I slid my finger into him and I'd love to stroke his prostate as I suck him or try a strap-on and reach around and stroke his cock as I move in and out of him! He cums so much and so hard now, I can only imagine the loads of cream he'll spray down my throat or over our bed with a little ass attention!
Only a little while longer, J love!
D of special_couple2004
