So I put my finger in my bf's ass last night...

[mike_mike02128]

its a homophobic reflex.......men think only gay men like things near or in their ass.

If your man likes it....keep doing it. after a few times you will realize it dont hurt him and you'll feel more confortable doing it...and his ass will loosen up. His ass is no different than yours. Maybe put your finger in your own ass to see exactly how it feels for yourself.

 

[Guest]

The first time a lover stuck her finger up my ass was when I was 21 and it brought me to an intense orgasm. Prior to that I had stimulated other woman's anuses with my finger and my tongue but they were not interested in stimulating me. The first one was actually a very good friend and not a gf...we just decided to add sex to our friendship.

The next year my then current gf slept over one Saturday night which included the usual fuck and suck sessions typical for college students. Sunday morning we had a nice wakeup fuck, grabbed some breakfast and went in to soak in the tub for 45 minutes. We got out, dried each other off and went back to my bedroom where she proceeded to give me a relaxing backrub.

Eventually she started kissing my neck, my shoulders and my back while lightly caressing my balls and ass. I was getting turned on. She slowly kissed her way down to my butt and she suprised me by kissing me deeper between my buttocks until she reached my anus. I was hard before, but this caused my cock to fill like it does just before I cum. She kissed and licked my anus while reaching under to stroke my cock. Damn did it feel good. I raised my hips off the bed to give her better access and she rewarded me with slight penetration with her tongue. Finally, when she sensed that I could take no more, she slid under me and took my cock in her mouth while sliding a finger up my ass. I had a very strong orgasm and she swallowed it all, which is something she loved.

The interesting thing is that she would never let me near her asshole, either before or after she did this for me. She alluded to a bad experience she had years before and the memory was painful...playing with her ass just brought back the memory so it was not enjoyable for her on the receiving end.

 

[augustwest]

The post immediately above (unregistered) was made by me...I didn't realize that I wasn't logged in.

 

[pinkcat]

Hey Augustwest,

What a great sounding experience. I believe you just gave me some ideas Thanks for the input. Pinkcat

 

[Guest]

Pinkcat

Maybe you should just tell him what you want to do.

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Homophobia

I too think the reason why so many men are afraid to have something near or in their asses is that they think that only gay men can enjoy this. Since there's not much talk about straight men enjoying anal stimulation as well, this judgmental view lives on.

Also, most men are being told by society that the ideal of the world is a straight man, and so they are terrified of showing any "gay" tendencies, as this would mean that they would lose their status as being ideal creatures.

My sweetie wont let me do anything with his ass either, which is a shame, 'cause he's got the cutest ass..! I'd just like to bite it!

Then again, he's not into anal sex at all, which I think is a good thing, as I don't like having things pushed up back there, myself.

(Which you would never think if you read my stories...)

 

[dreamer]

I think you're right Svenskaflicka. I guess it's just part of growing up though. I don't find guys attractive. Hell, I have a hard time figuring out what women see in them. But I know what feels good, and I for one have left behind those hangups a long time ago.

 

[Amfig]

Svenskaflicka is probably right. The wife and I have enjoyed all kinds of anal play, in her ass and mine, including fingers, toys, strapons, etc.

The interesting thing to me in this thread is the number of women who are into doing this sort of thing. Just what sort of vanillas do you happily otherwise adventurous and bent ladies hang out with?

 

[Amfig]

Oh, and another thing

Somebody wrote one of those "popular Mechanics of Sex" type books, something like "Two Gazillion Ways to Drive Your Man Wild in Bed" about donkey's years ago in which she highly recommended the putting your finger up his ass technique. May have been a source from which Mrs. A. and I derived a few tips on anal erotic technique.

But try this, it could "prove" how much it turns him on. Hitting the prostate or prostate massage is not necessarily the Holy Grail of finger fucking a man's ass, so relax. When you find it, you will know. Instead of putting a finger in while giving him head, put it in while just stroking. Especially if his backdoor is fairly inexperienced, by the time the finger is in as far as the first joint, his cock will drip precum all over. Almost never fails.

Even if his mind is saying "no" that he just felt real good, felt his dick get harder, felt his balls tighten a little and saw that dollop of precum will communicate to him that there is something real nice about having his asshole finger fucked.

You may massage in or lick off the precum, as you wish.

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Re: Oh, and another thing

Somebody wrote one of those "popular Mechanics of Sex" type books, something like "Two Gazillion Ways to Drive Your Man Wild in Bed" about donkey's years ago in which she highly recommended the putting your finger up his ass technique.

One book I highly recommend is 203 ways to make him crazy in bed by Olivia St.Claire.
I'm checking them off, 1 by 1...

 

[zorlac66]

My wife gives me anal stimulation and i love it!! I'm completely hetero, but nothing makes the big-o intense like that!! I wish she did it more.

 

[Freya]

I did it last night to my friend, and it drove him crazy as usual! Problem is, he never lets me play down there for very long...it makes him so horny he just has to fuck me right then and there! Need to get him to develop some patience....I love watching him squirm with lust.

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Question

Freya2. what does F.A.W.N. mean?

 

[Freya]

Re: Question

Freya2. what does F.A.W.N. mean?

Oh, it's a bit of a personal support group....just some friends on here that boost each other up when we're feeling low.

 

[cg_allstar]

I did it last night to my friend, and it drove him crazy as usual! Problem is, he never lets me play down there for very long...it makes him so horny he just has to fuck me right then and there! Need to get him to develop some patience....I love watching him squirm with lust.

Perhaps some restraints are in order?

 

[Freya]

Hmm, yes. Done that already...maybe have to try it again.

 

[Amfig]

My wife gives me anal stimulation and i love it!! I'm completely hetero, but nothing makes the big-o intense like that!! I wish she did it more.

Actually the finger up a guy's ass deal is a variant on the "Seven Knots of Heaven," an oriental prostitue's trick discovered by our fathers and grandfathers in Japan in WWII. Nicely done today with anal beads, and as big a thrill for women as men. The working girl, during foreplay, would take a silk scarf in which a number of simple overhand or half knots had been tied and would push the scarf up the guy's ass during the preliminaries. As he approached climax, she'd pull the scarf out quickly. Mind blowing orgasms.

Have done this with beads and it is intense for me. Wife swears that it is intense for her, too.

 

[michaelmt1]

MICRO PULSE


This is a tiny vibrator no bigger than a tripple A battery girls buy one and put it in your boy friends ass. Trust me I dont care how homephobic they are these things make my orgasm so intense I can not describe it.



Mike

 

[LoneOne]

I sometimes masturbate with a finger in my ass, it´s hard for me to do it the whole time. Maybe I should buy me some toys.
Does anyone have an idea?

I would be glad if I found a girl that would play with my ass, the orgasms with that are just great.

I don´t understand this kind of homophopia, ok I don´t find guys attractive and I don´t want to get fucked by one, but if a girl would do it to me this way... why not? she just have to be careful I´m very sensitiv there

 

[WhatsHerName]

I think that the majority of men would find this type of play irresistable....if they could only get over thier homophobia!! The orgasm it produces is like nothing else! We intergrate anal play as often as we can...although I have to admit my guy likes it more than I do when it comes to the receiving end.

 

[Parklife]

I find it irresistable but my girlfriend won't comply. She seems to think it's something only gay guys like. I agree with LoneOne, it's the fact it's a woman doing it that is the turn on. (I have the same fantasies about a strap-on)

 

[redrock911]

Strap on

Actually my and my wife have been talking about that too. Anyone have a suggestion or two about what to buy or not to buy? We enjoy anal play and we both thought this would be alot of fun.

 

[MidnightShadow]

i will freely admit i like my wife to venture down that road.....but i am very secure in my sexuality and at times she asks my opinion of guys and i ask hers of women.........

 

[Guest]

I gotta say both my wife and I enjoy anal play with each other. We started because I liked to play with her ass and she was just stroking me one day with some lube and thought she would give me what I had been giving her. I exploded and we have been fingering each others asses ever since.

We have anal sex every now and then, now if I can just convince her to let me cum in her ass.

 

[RazeByFire]

I love it when my gf fingers my ass. Somtimes she even uses a toy we bought. She SLOWLY pushes the little five-inch ivory-colored dildo into me as I stroke my self. I love staring into her eyes while she does this. She says she likes the way I bite my lip as I cum.

A few times she has practically fucked me this way, her body settled over mine, kissing me. i have asked her is she would like to try a strapon, but she says she doesn't think she can do that right. She may be right, she's about 4-5 inches shorter than me, so it is harder to imagine. but I sure like fantasizing about it.

I also like to play with her ass, licking it, fingering it, and even fucking it when she is in the mood. She doesn't talk much in bed, but she has ways of letting me know that is waht she wants.

My fav thing to do to/with her is to penetrate her my first three fingers, my thumb on her clit, and my pinkie up her ass. It's very intense for her, so it doesn't last long!