So I don't like dom/sub, am I alone on this site?

[runner4play28]

As I've browsed this site I've noticed that a large portion of posts are based around the dom/sub relationship. I don't consider myself strong either way and personally prefer a relationship with lots of give and take where both sides are pleased in the good old fashioned orgasm kind of way. Am I the only one that thinks that way?

 

[MissJW]

I don't consider myself strong either way and personally prefer a relationship with lots of give and take where both sides are pleased in the good old fashioned orgasm kind of way. Am I the only one that thinks that way?

I just can't keep my flap shut... As a dominant woman I can say with deep sincerity that me and my sub husband do give and take loads while we both receive insanely intense pleasure on our two-way street. And we do have very nice old fashioned orgasms along the way We aren't sexually equal, but that doesn't mean we both aren't sexually satisfied to the max. Sure we are, it's my duty and privilege to see that it happens every time.

But anyway, I am sure there are people who aren't into D/s, BDSM or any of that. So I'll step aside and leave you to it!

 

[HoldYouDown]

As I've browsed this site I've noticed that a large portion of posts are based around the dom/sub relationship. I don't consider myself strong either way and personally prefer a relationship with lots of give and take where both sides are pleased in the good old fashioned orgasm kind of way. Am I the only one that thinks that way?

Of course you're not alone. Lots of people like that.

 

[luscious pearl]

As I've browsed this site I've noticed that a large portion of posts are based around the dom/sub relationship. I don't consider myself strong either way and personally prefer a relationship with lots of give and take where both sides are pleased in the good old fashioned orgasm kind of way. Am I the only one that thinks that way?

Not alone at all. I have been involved in a kinkster lifestyle for a few years, tried a few things out for myself and decided that I am most comfortable living a lifestyle that is simply hedonistic. I seek pleasure for myself and am most comfortable seeking sensual aspects of pleasure for mutual satisfaction. I don't like to to dominate anyone and don't want to be dominated. That is just how I am wired so I completely understand your question.

 

[sunandshadow]

I've been puzzled for years by the popularity of BDSM because the concept does nothing for me - I'm not interested in either dominating or submitting. But, there are lots of things other people like that I don't really understand why because they aren't my kind of thing. I do wonder whether I should go around describing myself as "kinky" or not when the first kink anyone thinks of is BDSM, and it's not one of my interests.

 

[bluesky496]

As I've browsed this site I've noticed that a large portion of posts are based around the dom/sub relationship. I don't consider myself strong either way and personally prefer a relationship with lots of give and take where both sides are pleased in the good old fashioned orgasm kind of way. Am I the only one that thinks that way?

i doubt you are the only one who feels that way but this site is for people to discuss their fetishes and explore them and respect others opinions and i am sure a lot of visitors to this site feel as you do but keep an open mind .

 

[XXXHacker]

As I've browsed this site I've noticed that a large portion of posts are based around the dom/sub relationship. I don't consider myself strong either way and personally prefer a relationship with lots of give and take where both sides are pleased in the good old fashioned orgasm kind of way. Am I the only one that thinks that way?

For me, I am a male that is dominant and controlling in nature, but I'm not necessarily looking for a dom/sub relationship. I'm looking more for a traditional relationship where the man is considered the head of the household and that translates to our sex life.

 

[tiny_tits]

As I've browsed this site I've noticed that a large portion of posts are based around the dom/sub relationship. I don't consider myself strong either way and personally prefer a relationship with lots of give and take where both sides are pleased in the good old fashioned orgasm kind of way. Am I the only one that thinks that way?

No, you are not alone.

 

[Miles Long]

As I've browsed this site I've noticed that a large portion of posts are based around the dom/sub relationship. I don't consider myself strong either way and personally prefer a relationship with lots of give and take where both sides are pleased in the good old fashioned orgasm kind of way. Am I the only one that thinks that way?

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[CarnivalBarker]

I like to get fucked hard and rough. But the whole "master this" and "master that" is a lot of bullshit and hard work for no real payoff. I find that even the "dom's" are pretty weak....just be a confident dude and fuck me the way you want. It's very simple.

 

[Erochic]

I like to get fucked hard and rough. But the whole "master this" and "master that" is a lot of bullshit and hard work for no real payoff. I find that even the "dom's" are pretty weak....just be a confident dude and fuck me the way you want. It's very simple.

Hey, I'm a dominant woman and I rather like that "be a confident dude and fuck me the way you want"
Of course the caveat for me is that the guys I want to fuck me the way they want are guys who are fully into pleasing and fucking me the way I like and they know will get me off - and *that's* the way they want to fuck.

 

[CarnivalBarker]

I agree with all that. I just don't need the militarism or formality that goes with the silliness of a "relationship" that doesn't exist but for the agreement of both parties to enter into it. I suppose the whole "sub" thing is just lost on me, since I have to agree to BE a "sub," which gives me control of the relationship, which doesnt make the other very "dom," now does it?? It just does zilch for me.

But if you want to pull my hair, slap my sides, and see how deep in my ass you can force your cock, then yes please.....

 

[Erochic]

I agree with all that. I just don't need the militarism or formality that goes with the silliness of a "relationship" that doesn't exist but for the agreement of both parties to enter into it. I suppose the whole "sub" thing is just lost on me, since I have to agree to BE a "sub," which gives me control of the relationship, which doesnt make the other very "dom," now does it?? It just does zilch for me.

But if you want to pull my hair, slap my sides, and see how deep in my ass you can force your cock, then yes please.....

I'm not so much into formality either, but there definitely has to be the understanding that this is what you want ... And about how you want it. And dom/and sub and understandings about limits and desires are okay.

I don't want my hair pulled or to be slapped and I'll decide if and when and how I want to do anal... So if someone just did that to me I would be out of there so fast.

But grab me and pull me onto your face and eat me till I can't cum any more, let me tease you until you can't think straight and delight as I ride your cock, and fuck me slow and strong and hard and fast and bite me till I shiver then I'm your girl.

I don't care about titles or formality or being an ice queen or humiliation or giving pain or anything like that - but looking for "submissive" men is a short cut to getting what I want.

 

[SexyAlison]

you're not alone

 

[Hipshot1554]

As I've browsed this site I've noticed that a large portion of posts are based around the dom/sub relationship. I don't consider myself strong either way and personally prefer a relationship with lots of give and take where both sides are pleased in the good old fashioned orgasm kind of way. Am I the only one that thinks that way?

I am not a Dom, but I am an Alpha male. I didn't even know much about the D/s culture until I found "lit" years ago.

I have come to believe that some women that lean toward the submissive are really just wanting someone to help them expand their boundaries. One woman I knew that was like this was a very strong woman and very successful in business.

I have heard it said that the sub is really the one in control.

There are aspects to the D/s relationship that don't interest me in the least, but "to each, his/her own". For myself, I prefer a relationship where both partners enjoy pleasing each other equally.

 

[twister947]

Somebody's gotta drive the train. He/she doesn't have to have a title or wear a hat. <shrug>

 

[Erochic]

He/she doesn't have to have a title or wear a hat. <shrug>

Unless it's really really fun

I think I want a train drivers hat now...

Do you think it would be too much if I made choo choo noises?

 

[twister947]

Unless it's really really fun

I think I want a train drivers hat now...

Do you think it would be too much if I made choo choo noises?

I think it would suit you perfectly, but the giggles might prove a distraction.

 

[Erochic]

I think it would suit you perfectly, but the giggles might prove a distraction.

Well I often giggle even when I'm domming. And it's not a cruel laugh but a happy giggle... Well only a little cruel in a nicely teasing way

Ooo... I know, it could be part of the game. No matter how silly I am the sub can't laugh, or else I'll stop the nice things I'm doing.
I already do that with not being allowed to move, but this would take it up a notch

 

[twister947]

This will be pic worthy.

 

[Erochic]

This will be pic worthy.

Wouldn't it... And I think it would take my Domming to a whole new level of cruel.

We all know how hard it is when you are dying to laugh but you are in a situation when you can't.

But my subs are pretty strong minded men, and have the background to deal with it, and manage to maintain their composure
Me, on the other hand, I'd probably laugh so hard I'd topple off the bed

 

[ballsofsteel3]

dream girl!

 

[ballsofsteel3]

my type of girls..!

I like to get fucked hard and rough. But the whole "master this" and "master that" is a lot of bullshit and hard work for no real payoff. I find that even the "dom's" are pretty weak....just be a confident dude and fuck me the way you want. It's very simple.

for a girl thinking like that is awesome! but, considering a gud dom/sub partner can change your views to that. you can do your hard and rough stuff and you can add some spices to it! every orgasm will get more n more intense if you wait for it.

 

[Locknuts]

A very strange activity! I want nothing to do with it. I have trouble taking orders from people when I'm trying to be in a happy situation. Beat my ass and you will piss me off!

 

[Solitaryman54]

Might float others boats, but something not really for me