I saw a couple guys at the bar that reminded me of you Nick. Two older yuppir-type businessmen throwing their weight and pocketbooks around in a younger-set 20-something bar. One had a mustache and looked to be in his late 30's while the other was even older and wrinkled and looked to be in his late 40s.
The bar is bi-level, two floors with the second overlooking the stage with a railing around the top. There was a band playing below and young women dancing, before you know it the older "gentlemen" had his beer over the side threatning to pur it down below on someone. I look over the side and the women, diving his intentions start playing along. Next thing you know he is pouring brew out his bottleonto them, the women, suddenly decide the best method to catch the errant alchohol is by opening their shirt collars up for it to spill over their busts. Not long later they are both bouring beer over the sie on one, two, and then a third woman's breasts and then into their mouths from the top level of the bar down to the women below.
Then the older one drops a bill, which the don;t see at first, then another which the prettier of the main pair of girls catches, soon more, one even drops a whole fucking wad of dollar bills and this time I am sure it looked as though there weren't just singles in there but $5, %10, and $20 dollar bills. They continue.. The women, both look as though they are in their mid 20s or so (right around my age).
Later that night I see them sitting together with the older man's arm around her side talking clseoly to one another at one of the tables above where I am at.
Now, they are not officially prostitutes, but the argument of street walkers, hookers, and whores rang in my ears when I saw that-that they are no different than other women other than getting right down to business intead of the date and foreplay and accpeting immediate cash payment rather than food, drinks, and gifts....
You see, if I had done that but did not have the high paying job and did not drop all that loot onto their heads I would be labeled a sick pervert by them rather than a resourceful, playful, and fun-loving guy. Buuut since they had money their "charm" is suddenly thought of as funny rather than sad, pathetic, or rude. And what is the thing that changes how two identical behavoirs are viewed as and interpreted by women? Money and looks apparently (although the men didn't look all that good to me, so go figure).
The bar is bi-level, two floors with the second overlooking the stage with a railing around the top. There was a band playing below and young women dancing, before you know it the older "gentlemen" had his beer over the side threatning to pur it down below on someone. I look over the side and the women, diving his intentions start playing along. Next thing you know he is pouring brew out his bottleonto them, the women, suddenly decide the best method to catch the errant alchohol is by opening their shirt collars up for it to spill over their busts. Not long later they are both bouring beer over the sie on one, two, and then a third woman's breasts and then into their mouths from the top level of the bar down to the women below.
Then the older one drops a bill, which the don;t see at first, then another which the prettier of the main pair of girls catches, soon more, one even drops a whole fucking wad of dollar bills and this time I am sure it looked as though there weren't just singles in there but $5, %10, and $20 dollar bills. They continue.. The women, both look as though they are in their mid 20s or so (right around my age).
Later that night I see them sitting together with the older man's arm around her side talking clseoly to one another at one of the tables above where I am at.
Now, they are not officially prostitutes, but the argument of street walkers, hookers, and whores rang in my ears when I saw that-that they are no different than other women other than getting right down to business intead of the date and foreplay and accpeting immediate cash payment rather than food, drinks, and gifts....
You see, if I had done that but did not have the high paying job and did not drop all that loot onto their heads I would be labeled a sick pervert by them rather than a resourceful, playful, and fun-loving guy. Buuut since they had money their "charm" is suddenly thought of as funny rather than sad, pathetic, or rude. And what is the thing that changes how two identical behavoirs are viewed as and interpreted by women? Money and looks apparently (although the men didn't look all that good to me, so go figure).