Slumber-Intercourse

[Mr.L.J.M]

Wierd question...

last week, i woke up in the middle of the night, having sex with my girlfriend. It was very wierd.. although not the worst way to be woken up in the world.

i dont know how it happened. i remember dreaming about having sex with her, but we where in a forest not in my bed, then all of a sudden, bang, i wake up and there she is, ontop of me. She thought i had been awake the whole time and was surprised when i told her i wasnt.

has this, or anything like it, ever happened to anyone else???

I know i was definalty very very horny when i fell asleep sp i wonder if that had something to do with it.

any feed back?

 

[coolr]

actually years back, i think in late 2002 or early 2003, there was a huge thread about this done. it's actually a sleeping disorder, yes there's a name for it but i don't remember it. you're lucky that's all that's happened so far, some cases of "sleep rape" have been reported where the male aggressively forces his partner to have sex while being asleep the entire time, sometimes waking up part way through and stopping, or just staying asleep throughout the entire ordeal. kind of scary if it ever gets that bad.

I'd suggest that you do a little research through google or some other search engine about the topic. I don't know if it's a progressive disorder or not, i just remember reading the thread and a bunch of posted articles.

Best of luck to you in your quest to find out what it is.

 

[Mr.L.J.M]

actually years back, i think in late 2002 or early 2003, there was a huge thread about this done. it's actually a sleeping disorder, yes there's a name for it but i don't remember it. you're lucky that's all that's happened so far, some cases of "sleep rape" have been reported where the male aggressively forces his partner to have sex while being asleep the entire time, sometimes waking up part way through and stopping, or just staying asleep throughout the entire ordeal. kind of scary if it ever gets that bad.

I'd suggest that you do a little research through google or some other search engine about the topic. I don't know if it's a progressive disorder or not, i just remember reading the thread and a bunch of posted articles.

Best of luck to you in your quest to find out what it is.

OH FUCK!! I better do something about this. bit of a worry. Thank you so much for your reply though.

 

[coolr]

You're welcome, and best of luck to you

 

[pupper]

My Wife and I always have late nite encounters,either she wakes me up or I wake her up,we go back and forth.

 

[Eilan]

My Wife and I always have late nite encounters,either she wakes me up or I wake her up,we go back and forth.

Yeah, my husband and I have been known do this, but I think that Mr. L.J.M.'s point was that he wasn't immediately awake, that he woke up in the middle of the act.

I've read about this "sleep rape" that coolr describes. Sometimes it's indicative of some sort of sleep disorder that requires medical treatment. Honestly, though, if this is an isolated incident, I don't think you have too much to worry about at this point. (Keep in mind that I'm not a doctor, nor do I play one on TV.)

Apparently, when I was married to my ex, I woke him up in the middle of the night by groping and pawing him. He was more than happy to climb aboard and oblige. When he mentioned it the next morning, I had no idea what he was talking about. He said I talked to him, but I must have been asleep the whole time. He became extremely upset upon hearing that; he felt like he'd taken unfair advantage of me. I wasn't particularly bothered, but I wish I'd been awake.

That was the only time anything like that happened to me, and it was probably eight or nine years ago.

 

[Cakegirl]

It doesn't sound to me like a disorder.

Since you woke up with her on top of you, it seems to me it was your partner initiating, no different than when a woman starts a blowjob while the man's asleep, and he wakes up partway through it.

Not a disorder - just a cool, giving partner!

 

[taolanes]

I agree with you cakegirl. I don't think it was a disorder, just a girl who wanted to suprise you. So....what did you do back to her?

 

[Guest]

Wierd question...

last week, i woke up in the middle of the night, having sex with my girlfriend. It was very wierd.. although not the worst way to be woken up in the world.

i dont know how it happened. i remember dreaming about having sex with her, but we where in a forest not in my bed, then all of a sudden, bang, i wake up and there she is, ontop of me. She thought i had been awake the whole time and was surprised when i told her i wasnt.

has this, or anything like it, ever happened to anyone else???

I know i was definalty very very horny when i fell asleep sp i wonder if that had something to do with it.

any feed back?

This made me chuckle.

I remember being about 19 years old when this happened to me. I wasn't even dreaming about sex, and my partner and I woke up doing it. Now, talk about strange

 

[Mr.L.J.M]

thanks for the advice guys... gwad i hope i don thave some bizzarre sleep disorder which will result in me having to be belted down to the bed each night.. although that could be very fun.

i havent done anything to her inreturn unfortunatly... my girl really really loves her sleep.. i think to wake her up for some late night fun would leave me with black eye. haha. oh well

 

[Sportland]

Funny u mention this. I woke up once with my wifes boob in my mouth. I had her shirt up and and was licking her nipple and such. To this day I remember nothing of how i got to that point but it ended in having great early morning sex.

 

[cricketbug]

This happens every once in a while to me and the hubby. Usually it's him initiating things by petting and fondling. He's normally asleep or dreaming about sex - is what he tells me in the morning. It's almost a surreal event. The next morning for me is like, "Did that really happen?"

 

[jayuk]

Not quite as far as MrLJM OP -
Apparently I frequently wake my wife during sleep by stroking her all over. Sometimes I don't remember, sometimes it's not a great time & definate NO, sometimes she reacts to me & we then have good time together.

I would LOVE that to happen the other way round though, blowjob or something while I'm asleep - only hope I wake up though .... lol

 

[lick_me_there]

havent you ever woke up with an erection? where do those come from? you're whole "ordeal" probably started out that way. you probably got really hard in your sleep (considering you were really horney even BEFORE you went to sleep) then started having an erotica dream and your penis was poking your partner and woke her up. i know that sometimes when i wake my bf up at night i'll have an entire conversation in my sleep and never even know about it until he tells me the next morning. but back to you...
you probably woke her up and mumbled something like, i'm horney lets fuck, and she climbed on top thinking you were awake from the start.

i wouldnt worry about it. thats one hell of a way to wake up right? i'd say if it starts happening more then go talk to a doctor. 1 or 2 times is nothing to worry about. just a good dream brought out into the waking world (even if you werent awake the whole time)

have fun with that tho

 

[miss_kate]

It is common for people to sleeptalk and sleepwalk so why no sleephump??

It makes sense!

 

[n0tshort]

yea sleephumping

I love it. I have had the 4 ambleary eyed humpfest but i was awake, just bearly. I hope i get the humping disorder lol

 

[rydia57]

I love it. I have had the 4 ambleary eyed humpfest but i was awake, just bearly. I hope i get the humping disorder lol

Yea, there's a sleep disorder called "narcolepsy" where you just have sudden bouts of falling asleep, no warning or anything. Much like a seizure, except you just fall asleep. I think Deuce Bigelow dated one in that movie. She would nod off ever five or ten minutes. Could that be it?

 

[Sportland]

I woke up once with my wife taking my cock into her mouth. I must say it was a huge turn-on and i did not last to long. Getting me hard just thinking about it.

 

[kaptain karnage]

Before my partner admitted she was bi I was reading in bed one night while she was sleeping. She began to make some very interesting noises and her hands started to wander down between her legs. I stopped reading (wouldn't you!) and nestled in next to her giving a few light kisses. At first she was just kissing back and moaning but after a minute or so she started to mumble things like "Emma don't!" and "You're my best friend it's not right". I backed off and watched as she finished herself off moaning her best friends name.

The next morning I told her what I'd witnessed and she couldn't believe it. I'd already said that I thought she was bi, and that it definitely wasn't a problem for me if she was, so that wasn't the embarrassing part it was just her choice of fantasy lover.

 

[Nyte_BlackRose]

The closest I had was an ex who woke me up in the middle of the night one night, because she couldn't sleep. Apparently she decided that sex would wear her out, so she could sleep. I don't think I fully woke up, just enough to let instinct take it's course, ravish her for an hour or so, then went back to sleep. Apparently it worked though, she slept the rest of the night, and woke up refreshed, AND horny.

 

[kaptain karnage]

Have just found out that on several occasions I have been the recipient of blow jobs, hand jobs and on two occassions full blown sex without ever having woken up. All initiated by my partner and I had been oblivious of until now.


How the hell could I sleep through Sex????


Twice!!!

 

[Nyte_BlackRose]

Have just found out that on several occasions I have been the recipient of blow jobs, hand jobs and on two occassions full blown sex without ever having woken up. All initiated by my partner and I had been oblivious of until now.


How the hell could I sleep through Sex????


Twice!!!

Apparently your mind was completely exhausted, but your body was willing. That or you were having such a good time in a coinciding dream that there was no need to be conscious for it. LOL

 

[kaptain karnage]

Apparently your mind was completely exhausted, but your body was willing. That or you were having such a good time in a coinciding dream that there was no need to be conscious for it. LOL

It's very rare that I remember my dreams but I suppose that could be the answer.

Better than the idea of justing being too lazy to wake up and enjoy what was going on.

 

[Nyte_BlackRose]

It's very rare that I remember my dreams but I suppose that could be the answer.

Better than the idea of justing being too lazy to wake up and enjoy what was going on.

Yes, the idea of being too lazy to enjoy sex.. FRIGHTENING

 

[miss_kate]

Where do naughty dreams come from??

I often have bizzare sexual dreams that come out of know where.

Perhaps sleep-sex is just a physcial role-play of your dreams??