Size Matters

[PWilton]

The world needs more of this!

Thank you m'dear...hopefully avoiding any latent narcissism...

 

[littlecordelera]

It comes down to this: size matters when you have a choice.

 

[Bry1313]

It comes down to this: size matters when you have a choice.

Length or girth?

 

[littlecordelera]

Length or girth?

Yes.

 

[littlecordelera]

Yes.

...seriously though, mostly girth.

 

[Bry1313]

...seriously though, mostly girth.

Well that pleases me

 

[calo69]

size didn't always matter, but since hubby wanted to see me fuck his best mate who had a cock that was longer and thicker than hubbys, I had climaxes that I could never have with my dear hubby SIZE MATTERS

 

[Smallchange4]

For indulging in "one night stand" sex you need to have an above average sized cock as most women will be expecting that just on a superficial level. If however you form a relationship with a woman who actually likes you, and you're average or below, she will, or rather, should, look past that.

Some of my one nighters were precisely that. They expected more than I brought to bear. On the other hand if all my relationships were based on cock size I would have a history of entirely one night stands.

 

[Smallchange4]

size didn't always matter, but since hubby wanted to see me fuck his best mate who had a cock that was longer and thicker than hubbys, I had climaxes that I could never have with my dear hubby SIZE MATTERS

My wife would totally agree with that assessment. Perhaps it is like curry? When you get used to having the extra spicey you tend to favour the hot over the mild. If the woman gets a taste for a big cock it is unlikely she will crave the little one.

 

[literal]

Every single woman I’ve been with reacted to girth as big and full since my length is avg. it’s almost an unexpected feeling I assume since during first entry there will be a sigh of oh that’s not easy to go in or mmm it’s stretching me kind of expression

 

[Smallchange4]

Every single woman I’ve been with reacted to girth as big and full since my length is avg. it’s almost an unexpected feeling I assume since during first entry there will be a sigh of oh that’s not easy to go in or mmm it’s stretching me kind of expression

I have never stretched any but I have felt a bit lost in some. One of my fuck methods might be akin to slow stirring a porridge.

 

[glBock]

My wife would totally agree with that assessment. Perhaps it is like curry? When you get used to having the extra spicey you tend to favour the hot over the mild. If the woman gets a taste for a big cock it is unlikely she will crave the little one.

Smallchange, I like to cheer you up again if I can, despite this thread having gotten back to zhe only subject Litsters seem to understand, the subject of metrics. or measurements. As if that mattered so much.

I had another conversation with my sweetheart about this, and she confirmed to me, how silly measurements are. But that applies only to women who's only (or main)sexual experience has NOT BEEN as a fuckee for her husband. Or in the case of the Lady above, as a fuckee for her husband's friend.

Maybe there are more fuckees among American women than I believed there were. Religious teachings, you know. My personal experience Talking with at least ten women who wrote me back on Lit was different: every single one told me she was glad to have graduated from only fucking. Or they wrote "fucking is a man's pleasure mainly".

OK, come to think of it, it does not matter which side of the Argument is supported by more People. The only thing that matters is this: if your woman and my woman are not afflicted with a hang-up on the dimensions of a penis, we can care less about the preferences of pepole on this thread. Agree with me?

 

[PWilton]

In A Case Like This...

https://66.media.tumblr.com/a2daae8f8619bddfe9f51f6997610505/tumblr_po06y0z2pY1y1zpl2o1_540.jpg

(assuming that the pic is not a photo-shop deal...)

 

[ebpts]

Bump

2021 Bump

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

There has always been arguments about the importance/unimportance of penis size. There are valid points on all sides of the discussion. It all depends on a variety of different factors. I am generally of the opinion that it matters if u make it matter. I have a very small erect penis (a slim 4") and tiny flaccid size of 1.5" My unimpressive erect status has sometimes been a buzz kill for some women but my tiny flaccid size is more damning. Even though most people are aware that flaccid size does not necessarily indicate erect size my soft member is so pathetic it is hard to envision it improving that much. Most times in the public arena be it public showers change rooms urinals where men size themselves up against the competition u gain a rep for being particularly large or small. This can affect your status amongst other males and worse filters out into the female members of work school or social group. Not good if you are in the tiny dick category. I know for certain it has caused more than a few women to have no interest in me sexually. That may seem rather shallow of them but if you line up a group of guys who have equally attractive personalities equally attractive clothed physiques etc etc for the most part The guy who is known to have a tiny cock is probably at a disadvantage.

"all things being equal..."
has no place of consideration in sex as far as my experience goes. I have been sidelined by some dog ugly sumbitches and becuz they had an inch on me or two on me I went without. And ya ain't got to have a "tiny" dick to be ignored, at 6x2 erect I'm not tiny but an inch might as well be a mile in the 'size' arena.

 

[Islander55]

I have never chosen a sexual partner due to the size of his cock. To me the quality of sex is more about what goes on prior to fucking. If anything, a huge cock can be a problem unless the guy knows how to use it. I have never been with a guy with a real small one and I have never had a super huge one but I have found that most stiffies work quite well. The only times I have had poor sex had nothing to do with cock size.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I have never chosen a sexual partner due to the size of his cock. To me the quality of sex is more about what goes on prior to fucking. If anything, a huge cock can be a problem unless the guy knows how to use it. I have never been with a guy with a real small one and I have never had a super huge one but I have found that most stiffies work quite well. The only times I have had poor sex had nothing to do with cock size.

my wife would always say that, "if a guy knows how to use it..." there isn't a guy out there with a big cock that doesn't KNOW how to use it. The fact that they don't ALWAYS use it well or to the pleasure of their partner is on them and their selfishness. They NEED that feel of domination because they can't get it anywhere else.
And though I laud your 'expresed' feelings, because of what I know of human beings I wouldn't lend it any credence because people, in general, will lie. And since I don't know you or anything about you, I MUST first accept and believe that you are telling falsehoods but that fault is MINE and not yours. That is how I was trained to understand people.

And I would contend that ANY stiffy' will work so long as you have an understanding of how to work with them. But again---, thats usually the statement of a person below the average mark.

 

[FlirtyandPlayful]

Girthy

This is a great topic. Of course, if you can’t use it to please your partners, your size doesn’t matter.

My wife loves my thickness. 7.5” x 6”. And so do my FWB’s. Open to lots of things

 

[Marcs4u]

Like Forrest Gump says...

... it's like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're going to get... when you pull the zipper down!

 

[Escierto]

The first transgender woman who ever fucked me had a small four inch cock but she made up for it with her sexual energy. The first time she fucked me, she had her orgasm but stayed in my ass until she got hard again. She then put another load of cum in my ass to add to her first load. That night she fucked me three more times putting a huge amount of cum in my hole. Small cock but that girl could really fuck.

 

[jennstar]

Hi. Chiming in with humble opinion. As a women (23), ive always enjoyed girth way more than length. Sometimes length can be nothing but painful.

I am currently pregnant and sensitive even more to the size of a man's penis that is inside of me.

When I was younger, all I heard about sex was you were supposed to be with the guys with the biggest dicks. its like a myth that was thrown around everywhere. And when I eventually had one in my mouth and my cunt, It wasn't that great, believe me

But a thick man is really really a good thing. I love how those feel in me.

 

[whenagain]

Hi. Chiming in with humble opinion. As a women (23), ive always enjoyed girth way more than length. Sometimes length can be nothing but painful.

I am currently pregnant and sensitive even more to the size of a man's penis that is inside of me.

When I was younger, all I heard about sex was you were supposed to be with the guys with the biggest dicks. its like a myth that was thrown around everywhere. And when I eventually had one in my mouth and my cunt, It wasn't that great, believe me

But a thick man is really really a good thing. I love how those feel in me.

From someone short but decently thick— thank you.

 

[jehoram]

This is a reason why promiscuity makes sense. A lady can have relations with lots of men, some just for their partner's cock size, some for a particular technique she likes, and another for some other intangible quality. Getting fixated on just one thing means that she's cutting herself off from so many other benefits.

Same thing for men. Sometimes you like to play with big breasts, sometimes it's what a woman can do with her vagina, and sometimes it's because sex with her happens to be a lot of fun in so many other ways.

I like an action movie at times, with lots of explosions, gunfire, tumbling cars, and a carefree disregard for physics.

Other times, I like a movie about real human relationships.

And once in a while, there's a documentary that's really worth seeing.

Which one is better? I don't know. I like to have the choice. And if I were confined to a single genre for the rest of my life, I'd go crazy.

 

[Islander55]

my wife would always say that, "if a guy knows how to use it..." there isn't a guy out there with a big cock that doesn't KNOW how to use it. The fact that they don't ALWAYS use it well or to the pleasure of their partner is on them and their selfishness. They NEED that feel of domination because they can't get it anywhere else.
And though I laud your 'expresed' feelings, because of what I know of human beings I wouldn't lend it any credence because people, in general, will lie. And since I don't know you or anything about you, I MUST first accept and believe that you are telling falsehoods but that fault is MINE and not yours. That is how I was trained to understand people.

And I would contend that ANY stiffy' will work so long as you have an understanding of how to work with them. But again---, thats usually the statement of a person below the average mark.

Not trying to argue but I am not sure of your meaning. Do you think that I really prefer a big cock but will not say so? I do not mean to imply that a little extra size might not be appreciated but like many of the ladies here, I think girth is more important that length. Now I have not tested that many cocks that I would say that I am an expert but I have never not been able to have fun with a guy that I found interesting. Now I admit that I like a guy to be enthusiastic when fucking so I really prefer an average sized man that allows me just relax and not worry about him going to deep.

 

[Islander55]

This is a reason why promiscuity makes sense. A lady can have relations with lots of men, some just for their partner's cock size, some for a particular technique she likes, and another for some other intangible quality. Getting fixated on just one thing means that she's cutting herself off from so many other benefits.

Same thing for men. Sometimes you like to play with big breasts, sometimes it's what a woman can do with her vagina, and sometimes it's because sex with her happens to be a lot of fun in so many other ways.

I like an action movie at times, with lots of explosions, gunfire, tumbling cars, and a carefree disregard for physics.

Other times, I like a movie about real human relationships.

And once in a while, there's a documentary that's really worth seeing.

Which one is better? I don't know. I like to have the choice. And if I were confined to a single genre for the rest of my life, I'd go crazy.

I would second this post. Some variety can be a great thing even when happily married.