Size Matters

[Bbl87]

I am sure it happens. But I expect that like many such situations it is in the context of both ex-partners feeling somewhat aggrieved and saying or doing unpleasant things out of spite or anger. When that happens it is pretty difficult to say who is at fault or who started it, so to speak. The disparaging remark comes from an animosity unrelated to penis size that just happens to be the topic that is most sensitive or hurtful.

That is different than a woman gratuitously disparaging a man for having a small penis completely unprovoked and out of the blue in the way that some insecure men will say nasty things about a woman solely for having a preference for a larger penis.

Absolutely valid point, I was just pointing out that I had heard it regardless if the animosity was the main instigator.

Like I said, I have no qualms with a woman knowing what she likes. I think that having a "you must be this tall to ride" (forgive the metaphor) approach, which by the by the vast majority of women do not but a few may, isn't a healthy thing but they are entitled to it. I'd say the same for men when it comes to breast/ass size, height, etc.. That being said, I think that is taking it beyond simple preference like we are talking about.

 

[mywife4othermen]

https://imgur.com/o3uVRyX

This is Steve. My wife's exboyfriend and her lover. She keeps this image on her phone.

 

[whenagain]

I am sure it happens. But I expect that like many such situations it is in the context of both ex-partners feeling somewhat aggrieved and saying or doing unpleasant things out of spite or anger. When that happens it is pretty difficult to say who is at fault or who started it, so to speak. The disparaging remark comes from an animosity unrelated to penis size that just happens to be the topic that is most sensitive or hurtful.

That is different than a woman gratuitously disparaging a man for having a small penis completely unprovoked and out of the blue in the way that some insecure men will say nasty things about a woman solely for having a preference for a larger penis.

https://imgur.com/o3uVRyX

This is Steve. My wife's exboyfriend and her lover. She keeps this image on her phone.

Damn.

 

[policywank]

Absolutely valid point, I was just pointing out that I had heard it regardless if the animosity was the main instigator.

Like I said, I have no qualms with a woman knowing what she likes. I think that having a "you must be this tall to ride" (forgive the metaphor) approach, which by the by the vast majority of women do not but a few may, isn't a healthy thing but they are entitled to it. I'd say the same for men when it comes to breast/ass size, height, etc.. That being said, I think that is taking it beyond simple preference like we are talking about.

Yes I agree. That would be an unhealthy approach, which is nonetheless each person's prerogative if they so choose. I think that as you mentioned in your last sentence I am just talking about preference. I have never rejected a man because he has a small penis (or smaller than my preferred size) and I certainly don't screen them on that criteria in advance. It is a simple matter of all other things being equal I would modestly prefer a larger penis.

It is an odd topic in that comments by women are often inferred in an all or nothing kind of way (not suggesting you are doing this). If I disagree with the premise that it doesn't matter at all people often assume I am saying it is very important, which I am not saying. As you say about breast/ass size, height etc. we do all have preferences. If a person is too focussed on that we tend to consider them to be shallow beauty is only skin deep and all that. But the truth is that most of us are attracted (or not) by various physical features. So where is the line at which that becomes shallow?

 

[Bbl87]

There is definitely a psychological element for many women assuming the bigger the better. If size has an importance, it is, medically basically the girth of the penis, more than its length. The thicker the penis is, the more likely it rubs against the clitoris, and pull on the labia and clitoral hood, and also more likely it rubs against the G-spot. Length itself (without girth) has no importance, unless a woman wants to feel the penis hitting her very end.

As a girthy gentleman, I approve this message.

 

[Bbl87]

So where is the line at which that becomes shallow?

That really is the question, ultimately, and even that will be 100% subjective.

 

[policywank]

There is definitely a psychological element for many women assuming the bigger the better. If size has an importance, it is, medically basically the girth of the penis, more than its length. The thicker the penis is, the more likely it rubs against the clitoris, and pull on the labia and clitoral hood, and also more likely it rubs against the G-spot. Length itself (without girth) has no importance, unless a woman wants to feel the penis hitting her very end.

I agree the girth is a bigger factor than length. But I would not say that length has no importance. A man whose penis reaches further inside touches more nerve endings including those at the very end. Past a certain length it no longer matters, but all other things being equal a 7" penis will provide me more physical stimulation than 4" penis. All other things never are equal and the 4" guy may have many other abilities and talents so I am not saying the 7" guy will be a better sexual partner. But yes the length is a factor.

One of the things I often hear women say is that we don't want to get hit or punched in the cervix. I agree with this. But that isn't inevitable with a bigger cock. Obviously he can just not go all the way in, but then of course the extra length truly isn't being utilized and is therefore irrelevant. But the other possibility is that he does go all the way in but is very gentle with the pressure on the area "at the end". I described it like this to someone the other day. If you open a door by punching it you will hurt your hand and the door, but if you place your hand on the door and push gently it will yield without pain or damage. The analogy is a bit stretched as I don't want a cock in my cervix. But a larger man can gently push up against the flesh around it in a way that is pleasurable.

Of course not all women want that, but some do. I think that one of the problematic aspects to this topic of discussion is the degree to which people want to provide objective answers in relation to something that is intrinsically a matter of personal preference

 

[LizVegas79]

So where is the line at which that becomes shallow?

Oh so now we're shallow if we like guys with big units?
Maybe you're shallow! There. How do you like that?



(sorry, I realize some of you are trying to have a serious discussion about this. I just couldn't resist. Please. Carry on. )

 

[policywank]

That really is the question, ultimately, and even that will be 100% subjective.

Indeed. And beyond the shallow or not question is the matter of what things are deemed appropriate. Why is it ok for a man to say he is be drawn to a woman's pretty eyes or beautiful face but not her big tits or tight ass? We all know that they are equally as likely to have superficial visual appeal.

 

[policywank]

Oh so now we're shallow if we like guys with big units?
Maybe you're shallow! There. How do you like that?



(sorry, I realize some of you are trying to have a serious discussion about this. I just couldn't resist. Please. Carry on. )

That is cute. Well if liking guys with big units makes me shallow, I guess I am shallow, lol. I suppose I could pretend I don't feel that way but it won't change a thing.

 

[Bbl87]

That is cute. Well if liking guys with big units makes me shallow, I guess I am shallow, lol. I suppose I could pretend I don't feel that way but it won't change a thing.

It's only shallow to guys without big units.

 

[policywank]

It's only shallow to guys without big units.

Ha. That pun was just there for the taking. I was trying to come to with the right words but you beat me to it.

 

[Bbl87]

Ha. That our was just there for the taking. I was trying to come to with the right words but you beat me to it.

I do what I can, I'll be here all week!

 

[lil_jenni]

Oh, I'm definitely shallow for big units, but I don't really like them...

A clarification... I liked them to suck on, because I liked a challenge. But my throat is far less shallow than down there...

 

[Bbl87]

Oh, I'm definitely shallow for big units, but I don't really like them...

A clarification... I liked them to suck on, because I liked a challenge. But my throat is far less shallow than down there...

Touche. Any complaints I've received haven't been about tickling the tonsils but about a sore jaw.

 

[policywank]

Touche. Any complaints I've received haven't been about tickling the tonsils but about a sore jaw.

Oh my. I never complain about a thick dick. Take on the challenge and accept the consequences with alacrity.

 

[lil_jenni]

Touche. Any complaints I've received haven't been about bumping the tonsils but about a sore jaw.

Too true. A thin cock, even a longer one, can be easier to suck than a thick one. But even though my Hubby is on the thicker side, my jaw rarely gets sore except in marathon cock worshipping sessions. It must have something to do with how much I work it out on him.

And it did occur to me while writing this that I don't remember much discussion of anal in this thread. I may be unusual, but I can more.cmfortably take a longer penis in my ass than I can in my pussy.

 

[Bbl87]

And it did occur to me while writing this that I don't remember much discussion of anal in this thread. I may be unusual, but I can more.cmfortably take a longer penis in my ass than I can in my pussy.

Makes sense anatomically. I'll never know, wife vetoed anal long ago for several reasons, girth being among them.

 

[policywank]

Too true. A thin cock, even a longer one, can be easier to suck than a thick one. But even though my Hubby is on the thicker side, my jaw rarely gets sore except in marathon cock worshipping sessions. It must have something to do with how much I work it out on him.

And it did occur to me while writing this that I don't remember much discussion of anal in this thread. I may be unusual, but I can more.cmfortably take a longer penis in my ass than I can in my pussy.

I can relate to all of that. Working on those cock sucking muscles keeps them in shape so they don't get sore!

I like a big dick in my pussy or ass. It took a while to train my ass to accept greater girth but it has always been able to take more length. The pussy does have an absolute limit whereas not so much with the ass as long as he works it in slowly.

 

[Bbl87]

Too true. A thin cock, even a longer one, can be easier to suck than a thick one. But even though my Hubby is on the thicker side, my jaw rarely gets sore except in marathon cock worshipping sessions. It must have something to do with how much I work it out on him.

My wife needs to exercise her jaw more then, 10-15 minutes and she's tapped out . I mean, not gonna complain because that usually means it's just going somewhere else.

 

[lil_jenni]

I can relate to all of that. Working on those cock sucking muscles keeps them in shape so they don't get sore!

I like a big dick in my pussy or ass. It took a while to train my ass to accept greater girth but it has always been able to take more length. The pussy does have an absolute limit whereas not so much with the ass as long as he works it in slowly.

Oh yes, starting slowly is the key with anal.

The first guy I had anal with was not girthy, but the second really was. It was good that I was really drunk, or I might not have let him.

 

[lil_jenni]

My wife needs to exercise her jaw more then, 10-15 minutes and she's tapped out . I mean, not gonna complain because that usually means it's just going somewhere else.

Shoot, 10 to 15 minutes is a quickie BJ around my house. Unless he wants different (or we are short on time), I like to take my time and keep him squirming with pleasure.

 

[Bbl87]

Shoot, 10 to 15 minutes is a quickie BJ around my house. Unless he wants different (or we are short on time), I like to take my time and keep him squirming with pleasure.

Well, I mean, to be fair Bill Engvall pretty much summed up my sex life well...

"Marital sex is kinda like ordering a Civil War chess set through the mail. You get one piece every four to six weeks, you don't know what kind of shape that piece is gonna be in when you get it, but you still gotta pay the handling charges!"

Slight exaggeration, but it's not like things get exercised enough to build up her stamina!

There's a reason I spend alot of time around here, haha.

 

[whenagain]

Oh so now we're shallow if we like guys with big units?
Maybe you're shallow! There. How do you like that?



(sorry, I realize some of you are trying to have a serious discussion about this. I just couldn't resist. Please. Carry on. )

I’m always here for Liz nudging things back into the sexy/thirsty realm.

 

[policywank]

Most of the pleasure nerves are located in the clitoris and the vaginal opening, and the G-spot (for those who say they feel it), which is located about 2 to 2.5 inches from the opening. The rest of the vagina has few nerves. The vagina is usually 2.5 to 4 inches deep when dormant, and extends to 4 to 7 inches when aroused. So "physically" or "medically" a 4 inch penis with the same girth of a 7 inch penis provides the same pleasure. Where length makes a difference is in the mind of a woman.

Yes, many women do not want the penis to reach the cervix and their very end as it may hurt.

Studies on preferred length (and girth) for women show marked contrasts some studies showing 4.5in being the ideal, others showing 6in. One thing is for sure, many women, during sex, do not distinguish if the pleasure they are getting is physical or mental (or both). They simply do not think of it.

Oh you are here on behalf of the Incel society! Wow how much money are they giving you to try to convince women to say that a 4.5" penis is ideal. No hun, it doesn't feel the same as a 7" penis and that isn't just in the mind. And I am well aware that most of the nerve endings are at the clitoris and vaginal opening, but not all of them. There is nowhere in the body that I am aware of that has so few nerves that we lack any ability to feel. We each have our now preferences. They are personal and 100% unaffected by what other people say or think they ought to be. I am not here telling women what they want or telling men what women want....I am only speaking to what I like.