Single women are suffering because they won’t check their female privilege.

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http://time.com/4012826/why-the-dating-game-is-rigged-against-women/

Women have been graduating from college in greater numbers than men for years, but this progress has come with a cruel and unexpected twist–a phenomenon I call “the man deficit.” In 2012, 34% more women than men graduated from college, and by 2023, the U.S. Department of Education expects female grads to outnumber male ones by 47%. As a result, there are now four college-grad women for every three college-grad men among Americans ages 22 to 29.

These numbers represent a demographic time bomb for marriage-minded women (the heterosexual ones, at least). Of course, lopsided gender ratios would not matter if college-educated Americans were more willing to marry across socioeconomic lines. But research shows that most are not. “Classism is bigger than racism in dating,” says dating coach and author Evan Marc Katz.

In other words, women are creating their own problems because they won’t do what men do - date people who are lower on the socioeconomic scale than themselves.

These women feel entitled to have a man at or above their level, and they cannot face the reality that these men are increasingly rare. So they wind up all alone and they cry about how the game is rigged against them.

But the real problem is one that these women have created for themselves: women are waging a class war in which they are being defeated by their own prejudices.

If you’re a man and you’re pissed that women like this won’t date you, don’t be. The other problem here is that these women do not and cannot love you. They can only love your status and your position in life. They don’t give a shit about you. Why would you want to be desired by these hypocrites?

 

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http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/da...-look-down-on-men-who-earn-less-than-they-do/

It’s your job to stop looking down on men who have lower-paying careers.

Once you embrace this vision of equality – and start valuing men for things other than their ability to provide for you (when you can already ably provide for yourself), perhaps there’ll be more successful relationships between higher-earning women and lower-earning men.

If women don't learn that lesson, they're pretty much going to die all alone.