Single and... loving it?

[MaddyBaby]

Yeah... the title describes exactly how I feel at the moment. Been crying for three days now. And I am the one who made the break. Does that seem normal to you? I've been confused by it for a couple of days now. I have all kinds of opportunities now... even to get with the person who still knocks my socks off to this day from a year and a half ago...... and I am still totally depressed... WTF is wrong with me?

 

[Vinny]

how about a

HUG

 

[MaddyBaby]

Thanks Vinny.... *hugs*

 

[Rubyfruit]

Wow, it's been ages since I've seen you.

*hugs*

Breaking up sucks.

Living without regular sex really sucks.

 

[Raina]

Yeah... the title describes exactly how I feel at the moment. Been crying for three days now. And I am the one who made the break. Does that seem normal to you? I've been confused by it for a couple of days now. I have all kinds of opportunities now... even to get with the person who still knocks my socks off to this day from a year and a half ago...... and I am still totally depressed... WTF is wrong with me?

Sounds pretty normal to me. Break-ups always suck, no matter what the circumstances.

 

[lilminx]

Hey Maddy, and welcome back, cutie! For all I know, you may have been back for a while, but I haven't seen you, so hello.

I ended something for good yesterday that has been floundering for months upon months. I finally told him that it was time, and it hurt me to hurt him. He told me yesterday that he had cared about me more than he probably should have (too little, too late, I say!) It also hurt that it was the end of something that I was familiar with. However, I knew that it was long past due, and although I cried a little, I also felt extremely relieved.

Anyway, I find it hard to end things, even when I know it's for the best. Maybe you're dealing with a similar situation?

Regardless, I'm sorry that you're depressed over it, and hopefully you'll start feeling better about it all soon.

 

[MaddyBaby]

I know they suck.... Ugh. I thought it would be easier than this... I thought if it were the right decision, I would be feeling better. I don't know.

And Ruby, it has been ages. I pop in from time to time. How ya been, girlie?

 

[MaddyBaby]

Good to see you, lilminx. I came back like.... last week or the week before. I'll be posting more now, seeing as I'll be at home more. I am glad everyone remembers me and considers me a friend still. Makes me feel better.

 

[Rambling Rose]

Is there ever a happy ending? Revel in the sadness of it all and then work to distract yourself from it in stages. It's the disattachment period that is the hardest, I think.

Good to see you here again, Maddy.

 

[lilminx]

I also find it helpful to go out and have meaningless sex.

 

[MaddyBaby]

Good to see you too, Rosie. I plan to get my posts up there now! I want my own title. I know I'll be okay... I just hate it when you aren't sure if you made the right decision after you already made the decision...... I hate being a Gemini. LOL

 

[Rambling Rose]

We're only three days apart.

Just remember the other half of you loves being a Gemini.

 

[MaddyBaby]

Hm... meaningless sex.... I am too emotional for that. *smacks her sign again*

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Yeah... the title describes exactly how I feel at the moment. Been crying for three days now. And I am the one who made the break. Does that seem normal to you? I've been confused by it for a couple of days now. I have all kinds of opportunities now... even to get with the person who still knocks my socks off to this day from a year and a half ago...... and I am still totally depressed... WTF is wrong with me?

Maddy, sweetie,

you made the break.. doing what is good for you doesn't always feel good. Think about eating spinach, or getting a massage when you're in a ton of pain. Think about rehabilitation after an injury.. if often hurts, but it is for the best. So your pain and confusion is normal, and it is part of the healing process.

I wouldn't get back with that other person... you're fresh out of a relationship, and I think you need time to figure out what you want first, and then, if you decide you want that person again, go for it slowly. Just be true to your own desires, your own needs, and you won't go wrong.

 

[MaddyBaby]

*watches as her twins beat up each other* And yes, that's what I feel like.... being pulled two ways..... Argh.

 

[MaddyBaby]

Well hello there, Vixen my pretty. Thank you for the advice.... I really wouldn't get back with my ex.... We'd probably just have meaningless sex with each other... Heh. That's what we did best after all..... I am a wreck, I know. Ugh.

 

[Effigy]

We're only three days apart.

Just remember the other half of you loves being a Gemini.

you are so mean Medusa

 

[lilminx]

Hm... meaningless sex.... I am too emotional for that. *smacks her sign again*

Damnit- and here I thought I had a chance with you.

 

[Lasz]

Yeah... the title describes exactly how I feel at the moment. Been crying for three days now. And I am the one who made the break. Does that seem normal to you? I've been confused by it for a couple of days now. I have all kinds of opportunities now... even to get with the person who still knocks my socks off to this day from a year and a half ago...... and I am still totally depressed... WTF is wrong with me?

I am glad to know I still knock your socks off Maddybaby

(I know its not me but I would like to think it is )

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Well hello there, Vixen my pretty. Thank you for the advice.... I really wouldn't get back with my ex.... We'd probably just have meaningless sex with each other... Heh. That's what we did best after all..... I am a wreck, I know. Ugh.

eat chocolate ice cream while on a tread mill. Trust me. You can eat comfort food and not feel guilty about it. *grin*

 

[MaddyBaby]

Hmmm.... reeeally, minx? I'm probably not your type..... LOL

But on the other hand... I might be VIXEN'S! Buwahahahaha!

 

[Lasz]

Wow, it's been ages since I've seen you.

*hugs*

Breaking up sucks.

Living without regular sex really sucks.

I guess my whole life sucks then!

I wonder what life with regular sex is like?

 

[lilminx]

Hmmm.... reeeally, minx? I'm probably not your type..... LOL

But on the other hand... I might be VIXEN'S! Buwahahahaha!

Cute girls ARE my type, but it's all good if I'm not yours... not everyone can be for everyone.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Hmmm.... reeeally, minx? I'm probably not your type..... LOL

But on the other hand... I might be VIXEN'S! Buwahahahaha!

*grin*

You might just have to ask my girl about that.. Ask her if you can play...

but then.. you don't know who she is.

 

[Lasz]

Cute girls ARE my type, but it's all good if I'm not yours... not everyone can be for everyone.

Yeah they are my type too. Hence Maddy is pretty much my type, except for that whole lesbian thing, that can kind of be a barrier in a relationship.