Signs of Submission

lucas83

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I have wondered for a while if there are other people out there who are required to wear something, 24/7, to symbolize or remind them of their submission to their Domme/Dom.I thought I was the only one out there who had to wear something until I saw a guy with a bulge in his jeans that looked like he must be wearing some sorta chastity device like a CB2000.

In my case, the most public sign of my submission is the A&F style leather lace necklaces that I wear. My Domme has me wear them tight to my neck, like a choker. One has a small ring on it, and the other has a clip on the end. They serve a purpose when She wishes. ;)

The most significant symbol that I wear is a 1/2" metal ball stretcher. I have to wear it nearly every day, and the weight and push on my balls is a constant reminder to me that my balls belong to my Domme. A half inch stretch isn't enough to cause any pain or much discomfort, but it has definitely affected me psychologically. Day after day of feeling that weight, and knowing that my balls are locked up until Amanda decides to release them, has really made me a more submissve male. Or as She says, "it has helped expose my true submissive soul, and allowed Her to nurture it."

When we go to the beach, the stretcher is too obvious in my swimsuit (squarecut), so She has me wear a couple of rings that are strapped together. One ring fits around my balls and the smaller one fits tightly around my cock head. This forces my cock down over my balls and keeps everything locked in place, which is better than getting a hard-on on the beach. ;)

lucas
 
hi

Thanks for sharing that story. I do not think general symbols of ownership or "reminders" are at all uncommon. They are probably the norm than the exception, from what I see. The specifics though can be somewhat unique, so with this specifity in mind, the symbols need not be common or ordinary.
 
Evil_Geoff said:

That is such a pretty collar. I've been hinting to SOMEONE that I'd like some sort of collar to wear in public. I love my leather one with the D-rings, but that just ain't something you can wear out, y'know? (Besides, the leather dye turns my neck black if I wear it for any length of time.) He's mentioned a necklace for me a time or two, but we haven't really pursued it. I'd love something like that! I know you've told us where you got it before, but for the life of me, I can't remember. I think I'd stand a better chance of getting something like that one than like this , which, while it's a necklace I've been drooling over forever, I doubt he's going to buy for me since I have this terrible habit of breaking the chains on necklaces and losing the charms. :rolleyes:
 
I wear Her dog tags. I can't wear long necklaces at work, so I loop it around my ankle. It never comes off for more than a few seconds. the one time it did, She hid it from me and i was kind of in trouble. *oops*

It makes me think of Her all the time. I hear it clink against its chain at work, I play with it or even chew on it otherwise...a constant reminder of Her. :heart:


btw, that really is a gorgeous piece, EG
 
The snake chain necklace in my av is worn all the time except for showering and hair washing/colouring. I also have a silver filigree padlock on a chain which I wear for more "dressy" occasions.

We both have sterling silver wedding bands and I wear an engagement ring too :)
 
i wear my collar all the time except when im sleeping (its the first thing i put on and the last thng i take off) or unless A switches it for a more obvious play collar like my red dog collar. i also have a piercing in my right ear that he took me to get dne for our two year anniversary that i wear all the time.
 
Bandit58 said:
The snake chain necklace in my av is worn all the time except for showering and hair washing/colouring. I also have a silver filigree padlock on a chain which I wear for more "dressy" occasions.

We both have sterling silver wedding bands and I wear an engagement ring too :)

My everyday collar looks just like yours Bandit. It hasn't been off my neck since the day he put it on. I also have a few piercings that i never take out.
 
I wear nipple rings and a tattoo of my Goddess/Wife's choosing. When she is out of town, I wear The Curve chastity device she bought me.
 
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