Shibari/RopeWork Appreciation

I find the dress/gown style more sexy than the all holes open pictures. Am I the only one? Don't get me wrong I love it all, I just find the ritual of 'dressing' a woman like this sexier than simply wrapping a rope around her breasts and telling her to bend over... If you are going to practice an art form, make it art... But then this is only the opinion of an inexperienced noob.
 
The aesthetic and experience of ROPE

I find the dress/gown style more sexy than the all holes open pictures. Am I the only one? Don't get me wrong I love it all, I just find the ritual of 'dressing' a woman like this sexier than simply wrapping a rope around her breasts and telling her to bend over... If you are going to practice an art form, make it art... But then this is only the opinion of an inexperienced noob.

I think, like most things, ropework is an aesthetic. Some will like it others will not. Just as some love leather, others are excited by lace etc. In addition to the look of rope against the body (in whatever configuration – simple, complicated, intricate, primarily artistic or primarily bondage), there is the physical experience of being bound by ropes.

I started this thread because I am fascinated by ropework in all of its configurations. I guess I am a bit of a rope bunny (a relatively new term for me – but apt, nonetheless). I am continually amazed at the variety of configurations of ties that can be achieved- even the most simple karada (I believe, Mr. Happy – this may be what you are referring to? the karada is one of the most common open work torso ties, classic example below) seems to have an infinite number of variations.

I spent years in my youth climbing rocks and acquired a deep appreciation and reverence for the ropes that I used and relied upon as a safety for my life. I became skilled in the knots essential for that activity. Over time I added to my rope and knot skills as I became a good sailor and learned to take care of myself in the wilderness. Hanks of rope have, it seems, always been a part of my recreational life.

And so, it has been a natural progression to add rope work to my/our kink life. I find that the preparation of the ropes as they are applied to my body by my Dom is extremely erotic and makes me feel “tied” to him both literally and emotionally. I do not have control over the way he chooses to place the rope on me…it is part of my submission. I both love the feel of the rope against my skin, the way it constricts my body and my breath and the marks it leaves on me. I guess I might take a bit of exception to the characterization of "simply wrapping rope around her breasts and telling her to bend over"...no serious rigger would approach ropework in this way.

However… again – this is simply a matter of taste and preference, just as any other kink that anyone has here. I would not criticize anyone for whom this is not their taste. I am sure there are other threads that feature material more to your liking… or find and post ropework that is to your taste- please! I think that most would be surprised how complicated and difficult even the most “simple”-looking of these body ties are and how time consuming they are to complete while keeping the pyl safe. Ropework should be undertaken carefully and with education and/or supervision as rope ties can cause pressure and damage in a remarkably short time to tender nerves or can compress critical circulation.

enjoy rope safely.
cb :heart:
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I think, like most things, ropework is an aesthetic. Some will like it others will not. Just as some love leather, others are excited by lace etc. In addition to the look of rope against the body (in whatever configuration – simple, complicated, intricate, primarily artistic or primarily bondage), is the physical experience of being bound by ropes.

I started this thread because I am fascinated by ropework in all of its configurations. I guess I am a bit of a rope bunny (a relatively new term for me – but apt, nonetheless). I am continually amazed at the variety of configurations of ties that can be achieved- even the most simple karada (I think Mr. Happy – this is one of the most common open work torso ties, classic example below) seems to have an infinite number of variations.

I spent years in my youth climbing rocks and acquired a deep appreciation and reverence for the ropes that I used and relied upon as a safety for my life. I became skilled in the knots essential for that activity. Over time I added to my rope and knot skills as I became a good sailor and learned to take care of myself in the wilderness. Hanks of rope have, it seems, always been a part of my recreational life.

And so, it has been a natural progression to add rope work to my/our kink life. I find that the preparation of the ropes as they are applied to my body by my Dom is extremely erotic and makes me feel “tied” to him both literally and emotionally. I do not have control over the way he chooses to place the rope on me…it is part of my submission. I both love the feel of the rope against my skin, the way it constricts my body and my breath and the marks it leaves on me.

However… again – this is simply a matter of taste and preference, just as any other kink that anyone has here. I would not criticize anyone for whom this is not their taste. I am sure there are other threads that feature material more to your liking… or find and post ropework that is to your taste- please! I think that most would be surprised how complicated and difficult even the most “simple”-looking of these body ties are and how time consuming they are to complete while keeping the pyl safe. Ropework should be undertaken carefully and with education and or supervision as rope ties can cause pressure and damage in a remarkably short time to tender nerves or can compress critical circulation.

enjoy rope safely.
cb :heart:
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You are a very intelligent woman...and I love the way you express yourself...I too think rope work is beautiful and wicked hot sexy...thank you for explaining some of the beginners terms ...maybe more people will read and pique their interest...:rose:
 
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Post images and gifs of shabari and ropework here -
please remember to follow the rules of the site - do not post copy written images or images that will get the entire thread deleted please.

I love this kind bondage and I hope others will be inspired to contribute here too.:heart:

A few safety notes about rope work/ restraints: Bondage is never risk free, even with the most experienced and safety conscious bondage rigger. You can significantly reduce your risk if you work with someone who is experienced and knows what they are doing (these are not necessarily the same thing.)

Engage in rope work only after understanding the risks and be sure to act with caution. Ropes can cause pressure on the anatomy in a way that can cause pain, pressure on blood vessels (restricting blood flow to critical organs like your brain), and can place pressure on nerves which if not relieved quickly can cause permanent nerve damage.

Please be smart. These images can be inspirational, but do not engage in these activities without proper education and care. PYL – keep your pyl safe. pyl’s – be sure to look out for your own safety and safe word if needed.


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Yes the Kadara is the simplest place to begin. As your skill improves it grows and becomes something different each time. Depending on how it is done there are many possibilities. Take for instance a house party or other special event where you would like to show your pet without showing everything. To tease, tantalize, and make others drool over what is yours. I get that some people take pleasure in showing their toys off completely naked but I would get more from teasing them with hints of her underlying beauty. I guess I just have more of a soft core approach to showing my women off in public.

something like these for instance... these were pulled from a google search.

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/a4/91/19/a4911917e4514598436a7f906c36006f.jpg

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/13/02/c8/1302c82283886e92f22a34b9f7642351.jpg

http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5583/14834040395_34e85ec478_m.jpg

https://www.flickr.com/photos/manossi/8059108970

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-R9UMPYY8-NI/TZaFjfE4i-I/AAAAAAAAAzg/NQGpwvA1sKY/s640/kybari.com+2.png


I have even seen pictures that look as if the women are completely dressed....just think of how long it would take to create an entire dress...

Rope can be used for many different possibilities beyond bondage and sex. I was at work once stocking boxes and someone I worked with was having trouble with his back... a few minutes with a twenty foot nylon rope and he stopped bending at the waist... The rope itself is binding, if done right it doesn't need to be any tighter than that. I've worked with ropes most of my life beginning by tying fishing nets as a child. I've always enjoyed how even the simplest knot could turn into something beautiful. Even though my wife doesn't know this side of me, I still use rope a lot in my day to day life. Even the softer materials can be used for many things ...

There is bondage, and then there is art ... combine the two and you have something truly amazing...sadly those pictures are all copy written...

And I didn't mean to criticize anyone. I was just scrolling through looking at all the pictures and noticed that there were more about bondage and sex, which is fine because I enjoy that to. I just happen to like a little art with my bondage is all.
 
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