Shared lusts

[sexy-girl]

ok this is a fluff thread i guess ... but isn't it annoying when your partner tells you that she finds someone attractive when you've already informed your partner months ago that the person is on your lust list

my girlfriend declared to me tonight she wants to do terrible things to nigella lawson and refuses to believe me i've told her many times before that i have the hots for nigella


i suppose this is something unique to bi and gay couples

 

[Equinoxe]

I can see how that would be annoying, but I find it kind of amusing from my perspective (I have to agree about Nigella Lawson as well, she's well, yes); though, I probably wouldn't were I in the same situation, because I'm the sort of person who would very aggravated by that.

 

[sexy-girl]

it seems to be a recurring theme ... she also has quite a dead pan sense of humour so i don't know if she honestly has forgotten i have told her previously i liked nigella

 

[Equinoxe]

it seems to be a recurring theme ... she also has quite a dead pan sense of humour so i don't know if she honestly has forgotten i have told her previously i liked nigella

Well, I trust she'll eventually take you at your word on the matter.

 

[sexy-girl]

Well, I trust she'll eventually take you at your word on the matter.

nope

she still insists i was the person that first said hello to her ... even though she knows for a fact that she said hello to me first ... we have an odd relationship

 

[Equinoxe]

nope

she still insists i was the person that first said hello to her ... even though she knows for a fact that she said hello to me first ... we have an odd relationship

Ah, I see. Truth is overrated anyhow, non-existant really, what you know and what she knows need not be the same. The impressions created are what matter and both perspectives have their own impressions; such is the beauty of life.

Besides, I think that's cute.

 

[Etoile]

When my wife and I think about k.d. lang at the same time, the drool puddle is huge.

 

[John Doe]

ok this is a fluff thread i guess ... but isn't it annoying when your partner tells you that she finds someone attractive when you've already informed your partner months ago that the person is on your lust list

my girlfriend declared to me tonight she wants to do terrible things to nigella lawson and refuses to believe me i've told her many times before that i have the hots for nigella


i suppose this is something unique to bi and gay couples

The British chef chick? She's hot.

Anyway, this specifically is probably unique to gay/bi couples, but not denying that you've told someone something many times.

Some people have very sketchy, malleable, easily rearranged memories, especially women. No offence.

 

[John Doe]

Ah, I see. Truth is overrated anyhow, non-existant really, what you know and what she knows need not be the same. The impressions created are what matter and both perspectives have their own impressions; such is the beauty of life.

Besides, I think that's cute.

truth is relative. Thier truths are still honest to them, but they're not necessarily the same.

For example, if a house is painted two different colors, and two people are standing on different sides of it, and one says the house is yellow, based on the color of the saide they can see, they are telling the truth because they believe the house is yellow.

But the person on the other side might say it's red becaue thier side is red.

Who is telling the truth? They both are, because they honestly beleive the house is the color they see.

But of course, anyone with half a brain will specify that the color of THIS side of the house is yellow (or red).

Fact is another matter entirely.

 

[Metrodance]

I must admit my interest in cooking has been reawakened by Nigella.

Perhaps your girlfriend could dress up in a dark wig and walk around in an apron, carrying a spatula? Nothing like a little costume fun!

 

[Equinoxe]

truth is relative. Thier truths are still honest to them, but they're not necessarily the same.

For example, if a house is painted two different colors, and two people are standing on different sides of it, and one says the house is yellow, based on the color of the saide they can see, they are telling the truth because they believe the house is yellow.

But the person on the other side might say it's red becaue thier side is red.

Who is telling the truth? They both are, because they honestly beleive the house is the color they see.

But of course, anyone with half a brain will specify that the color of THIS side of the house is yellow (or red).

Fact is another matter entirely.

That's exactly my point, the two perspectives are true to the different individuals.

The problem is that all fact has to be experienced in a sensory manner and senses can be fooled, easily; but, yes there is a difference between fact and truth (something a number of Atheists I know have some trouble with), it's like the quote from Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade about how archaeology is the search for fact, if they want truth the philosophy class is down the hall.

 

[sexy-girl]

truth is relative. Thier truths are still honest to them, but they're not necessarily the same.

but you're forgetting one vital fact ... she knows i know that shes lying but she does it to annoy me ... we have a lot of banter in our relationship ... she likes to be hard work

 

[Equinoxe]

but you're forgetting one vital fact ... she knows i know that shes lying but she does it to annoy me ... we have a lot of banter in our relationship ... she likes to be hard work

Some people are just difficult, it's a neat little personality trait.

 

[sexy-girl]

Some people are just difficult, it's a neat little personality trait.

if a lover doesn't make me want to scream and pull my hair out, laugh out loud and cry my eyes out or want to throw her into bed and make wild love to her all night then i don't want her

 

[Equinoxe]

if a lover doesn't make me want to scream and pull my hair out, laugh out loud and cry my eyes out or want to throw her into bed and make wild love to her all night then i don't want her

Ah, there indeed I believe we have something in common, there's nothing quite like a challenge in a lover, someone who inspires so many contradictory feelings -- it is the passion of it all, I suppose.

 

[sexy-girl]

When my wife and I think about k.d. lang at the same time, the drool puddle is huge.

but what would happen if k.d. lang materialized from that pool of drool and said she would sleep with one of you?

 

[John Doe]

That's exactly my point

No it isn't. You said nothing of the sort. Don't steal my points, I hate that.

 

[John Doe]

but you're forgetting one vital fact ... she knows i know that shes lying but she does it to annoy me ... we have a lot of banter in our relationship ... she likes to be hard work

I can't forget something I never knew.

 

[april-wine]

Nigella???? the porn queen of cooking?

 

[sexy-girl]

Nigella???? the porn queen of cooking?

lisa hasn't seen her make chocolate yet so i still have that

 

[april-wine]

I've seen her show off and on, the editing is hilarious....It is seriously shot like a porn flick....Though I guess she is trying to make cooking look sexy and fun....heh....

I must admit she is hot, especially when her cleavage appears behind the plate of ummmmmmmmm what were we talking about?......

 

[mercy's_grace]

ok this is a fluff thread i guess ... but isn't it annoying when your partner tells you that she finds someone attractive when you've already informed your partner months ago that the person is on your lust list

my girlfriend declared to me tonight she wants to do terrible things to nigella lawson and refuses to believe me i've told her many times before that i have the hots for nigella


i suppose this is something unique to bi and gay couples

You shouldn't keep Nigella to yourself.

 

[John Doe]

if a lover doesn't make me want to scream and pull my hair out, laugh out loud and cry my eyes out or want to throw her into bed and make wild love to her all night then i don't want her

Is this why women pick fights with thier S.O.s?

 

[Mary Hall]

ok this is a fluff thread i guess ... but isn't it annoying when your partner tells you that she finds someone attractive when you've already informed your partner months ago that the person is on your lust list

Oh yes, Dazz can tell you all about that although i did kinda accidently cause his crush on a guy

 

[sexy-girl]

Is this why women pick fights with thier S.O.s?

no we do that because you screwed up somehow and you just don't realize it