Sexual frustration and symptoms

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Do any of you know alot about it?

What are the symptoms of sexual frustration? Can it make you depressed, aggressive, sad or non-stop horny?

Just wondering how it can be recognized.
 
For me it manifests as a general tetchiness, not unlike PMT. Unlike PMT (when all men are evil and especially mine) sexual frustration is accompanied by nasty violent fantasies and (surprise surprise) an increased desire to masturbate. I also have vivid 'wet' dreams which occasionally cause me to climax.

If I'm sexually frustrated and generally stressed, I may resort to spanking or paddling myself as it calms me considerably as well as giving me an endorphine kick.
 
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Do any of you know alot about it?

What are the symptoms of sexual frustration? Can it make you depressed, aggressive, sad or non-stop horny?

Just wondering how it can be recognized.

For me it manifests as a general tetchiness, not unlike PMT. Unlike PMT (when all men are evil and especially mine) sexual frustration is accompanied by nasty violent fantasies and (surprise surprise) an increased desire to masturbate. I also have vivid 'wet' dreams which occasionally cause me to climax.

If I'm sexually frustrated and generally stressed, I may resort to spanking or paddling myself as it calms me considerably as well as giving me an endorphine kick.


All of the above. May also contribute to loss of sleep, restlessness and, eventually, infidelity if intentionally ignored by the signifficant other of the sufferer in question for over a 6 month period. (Tho by then I wouldn't blame the bastard except for hanging out and not talking it over/breaking up before then...dumbass)

On average I get a spike in hormones once a month (yes, a male period..it's been proven).
And during this time three things happen. I REALLY need and want and crave attention, it's usually very rough or agressive desires involved and other then the perpetual erections at all hours (mostly at night and early morning) I tend to focus on something I'm specifically "hungry" for.
Last month it was biting and tearing at one another. (my posts will reflect)

*nods sage-like*
 
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On average I get a spike in hormones once a month (yes, a male period..it's been proven).
And during this time three things happen. I REALLY need and want and crave attention, it's usually very rough or agressive desires involved and other then the perpetual erections at all hours (mostly at night and early morning) I tend to focus on something I'm specifically "hungry" for.
Last month it was biting and tearing at one another. (my posts will reflect)

Other than the erection part, i am the same way. i become very animal-like for one week or so a month. The rest of the time i'm just your garden-variety horny. LOL
 
one of A's "favorite" ways to punish me in the past (remember, LDR) has been to deny me orgasm for days or weeks at a time. i always get cranky, touchy, and incredibly horny. my tolerance for idiocy goes way down, and i find myself with an increased urge to "play rough" so to speak.
 
yes definately all of the above , cranky, low tolerance, and etremely horny,
it is my partners favourite form of punishment at the moment.
 
Sometimes sexual frustration can get really bad and it manifests itself in the form of increased irritability and a loss of patience with everything.

But lately my sex drive has plummeted, I think because I'm not getting enough sleep. I'm always tired and its been getting harder and harder to get too excited or worked up about anything.

It sucks!
 
When I just need sex or S&M, I get aggressive. When I need petting and affection, I get sort of pouty. When I need both of them in roughly equal doses, I turn into hell on wheels--bitchy, venomous, overly sensitive, and equally likely to blow my top or curl up in a ball and cry my eyes out at the slightest provocation.

I am no fun to be around sometimes.
 
Haha, I've not posted here yet, but this thread caught my eye.

At present I am a grumpy, narky, bitchy insomniac due to my sexual frustration. I know that if someone/ thing pisses me off within the next few days they are in for it!! I'm not allowed to masturbate unless told I can, normally I have to wait so He can do it in person which is bloody irritating when you live 100km apart.

It's the insomnia that gets to me. There would be nothing I would like more than a blinding orgasm to lull me off to sleep.

And it makes me horny. Persistantly.
 
Usually it makes me grumpy, irrational, and I literally cant sleep. There have been nights when I've been in bed, tossing and turning because I'm so horny and i wont just masturbate while malin's there sleeping... but the more I listen to him sleep..the angrier I get.. at HIM... (hence the irrational part)... more than once, I've gone downstairs to watch TV until I fall asleep.
 
I'd probably sleep better if I could masturbate, but ahhhh, the glory of college living: a room mate!
 
I'd probably sleep better if I could masturbate, but ahhhh, the glory of college living: a room mate!

I say, "DO it anyway." and let THEM be the one saying "ahhhh, the glory of college living: a room mate!"

*winks*
 
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ROFL!

Haha, I don't think I have the chutzpah for that.
 
My symptoms?

Masturbating, masturbating and masturbating

When I'm with someone and we are not getting down at least every three days, I assume they are done with me, our relationship is over, and I'm no longer sexy to them.

Don't ask me the last time I had sex. Do not go there.

:eek:
 
I'm pretty much constantly horny. I'm so desperate, and can barely concentrate on anything else. I fee like a cat in heat. All I want to do is lay on my back and voice slutty moans, begging for someone--anyone--to take me. Masturbation doesn't help in the slightest, and I'm hopelessly alone. I'm going crazy!

*Sigh*
 
My symptoms?

Masturbating, masturbating and masturbating

When I'm with someone and we are not getting down at least every three days, I assume they are done with me, our relationship is over, and I'm no longer sexy to them.

Don't ask me the last time I had sex. Do not go there.

:eek:

So......umm..*coughs and shuffles feet a little*

"How..uh...so......how long HAS it been since you..umm...had sex?"
 
I'm pretty much constantly horny. I'm so desperate, and can barely concentrate on anything else. I fee like a cat in heat. All I want to do is lay on my back and voice slutty moans, begging for someone--anyone--to take me. Masturbation doesn't help in the slightest, and I'm hopelessly alone. I'm going crazy!

*Sigh*

............................................*groanz*


You're killing me.
 
I'm pretty much constantly horny. I'm so desperate, and can barely concentrate on anything else. I fee like a cat in heat. All I want to do is lay on my back and voice slutty moans, begging for someone--anyone--to take me. Masturbation doesn't help in the slightest, and I'm hopelessly alone. I'm going crazy!

*Sigh*

If you turned on a cam you could charge. LOL!

:rose:
 
So......umm..*coughs and shuffles feet a little*

"How..uh...so......how long HAS it been since you..umm...had sex?"

You just had to go there huh? Anything past three nights is instantly transferred to forever in my mind. So FOREVER!

:eek:
 
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Oh my goodness. This is such an evil thread!:eek:

That and Shank's 4 to 7 thread. All this talk about paraphilia and stuff... Oye!

Maybe I should just take a cold shower.:eek:
 
mind games

Hmmm...well, discovering how nice it can be to touch didn't happen until was 19 and then had a college roommate that I liked and didn't want to freak out. Eventually reached a point of not being able to sleep without relief first. Physical exhaustion works too, so ran a lot, biked, rock climbing *nods* Also reading a book, poetry or playing guitar helps mellow before bed so can fall asleep if not going to get relief. Or just thinking about something else. Mind is very powerful and worst enemy if going to think about being aroused because only makes it worse (or better I suppose) *gamine grin* If can play back through a movie, imagine a beautiful song flowing through mind, contemplate the latest Calvin and Hobbs it might work. Then again, with a chunk of private time the rush after a long dry spell...well, for me means glowing for days and days. And if am able to engage the mind, to come without touching, just from imagination, even more incredible and makes finally touching that much more intense. For me, waiting does not lead to being irritable or snappish, but rather constantly anticipating, knowing mind has power over the body and that once mind control is released...mmm ;)
 
You just had to go there huh? Anything past three nights is instantly transferred to forever in my mind. So FOREVER!

:eek:

Then I've gone a millenia. ( quite a while, over a few months! ! )

It's pure hell I tell ya. Pure hell.
 
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