Sexual Expectations

[impressive]

Only one person in my "real" life has read my stories. Would she expect our encounter to be similar in mood/energy to my stories? Yes, I believe so -- but that's totally fine, 'cause it would be.

 

[Kassiana]

Married since 1998. Confessed my more ... unacceptable sexual fantasies to my husband in 2002. Didn't write any sexual fantasy until at least 2003-04. I don't know who has any sexual expectations of me, but I have been plugging my winter holiday contest to my friends lately. I guess it's possible that some of them are discovering that despite my introverted exterior, still waters run very deep!

 

[matriarch]

In real life, several friends know I write smut, so far only one has read them............with a delightful result.

No-one in my family knows or ever will. They wouldn't be able to handle it..........except maybe my youngest son. They know I write poetry, have been privvy to some of my non-erotic poetry, especially the moon challenge poem which I wrote a while back. As it was about them, I gave a copy to each of my sons. They liked it - I think. But no interest was expressed in any of my other writing.

If people ask, which few do, I just tell them I subscribe to a writing/poetry site, where I exchange ideas and comments on work with other writers. God knows what I'd do if any of them actually asked which site.

 

[Boota]

My story on Lit, Man In The Woods, is a true story, for the most part. I added a bit of the obvious fantasy parts, as in the background elements of the story, but the characters are me and my former girlfriend. I just don't have long hair anymore. As far as what women could expect from me sexually, the story pretty much tells it like it is. I suppose some women might expect me to have a bigger cock, considering my body size. The proportions are all out of whack. Of course, if I were proportionate I would be relegated to fucking large animals because women might not survive.

Everything else in my life leads people to making wrong assumptions about me, though. I play in a really raunchy heavy metal band, so I attract your stereotypical "metal slut", of which I have no interest. From my size people assume I would be "big and dumb" and they are surprised when they find out that I can read, much less write. LOL. I'm thinking about having a t-shirt made that says, "I might not be very smart, but I can lift heavy things."

 

[cantdog]

Boota

In the end the expectations based on size and being in a band both matter more than what we do here. That's not too surprising.

If I were once again single and my companions were to see me writing or posting to lit, I suppose I'd get the sort of responses rg mentions. But I can only dream that someone would know of the work before they met me; it's just too obscure.

cantdog

 

[welshman]

So, what's a nice Welsh girl doing here

My Lit. erotic persona is quite seperate to my 'reality'