Sexual Expectations

[scheherazade_79]

Just a simple question to all you Literoticans - do you find that when people know you write erotica, they expect you to be complete vixen (or whatever the male equivalent is) in the bedroom?

If so, how to you react to it?

Do you silently fill your pants while the moment approaches, or do you brazen it out in the belief that if you can imagine it and write it then you can do it?

 

[ABSTRUSE]

I tell people I'm on a "Literary" site, that's it...LOL.
In my mind I'm a wild cat....gotta love fiction.

 

[scheherazade_79]

I tell people I'm on a "Literary" site, that's it...LOL.
In my mind I'm a wild cat....gotta love fiction.

I feel so nervous, I've just eaten a whole packet of Rennies.

 

[ABSTRUSE]

I feel so nervous, I've just eaten a whole packet of Rennies.

What the hell are Rennies????

 

[Guest]

Just a simple question to all you Literoticans - do you find that when people know you write erotica, they expect you to be complete vixen (or whatever the male equivalent is) in the bedroom?

I am!

I have trouble writing stories to match.

Edited to add: that's why I submit some under an alt ID. Muahahahaha!

 

[scheherazade_79]

What the hell are Rennies????

Rennies are magic, that's what they are. They cure everything. They cure indigestion and hangovers and stomach acid and nausea and gas and heartburn and that queasy feeling you get before a date.

 

[Colleen Thomas]

I haven't had sex with anyone since before i started writing

 

[scheherazade_79]

Re: Re: Sexual Expectations

I am!

I have trouble writing stories to match.

Edited to add: that's why I submit some under an alt ID. Muahahahaha!

Lou wins the prize! I was wondering who'd be the first to say that!

 

[ABSTRUSE]

Rennies are magic, that's what they are. They cure everything. They cure indigestion and hangovers and stomach acid and nausea and gas and heartburn and that queasy feeling you get before a date.

I thought everyone felt like that???


Colly, you really need to send me your adress, you're just across the border.

 

[scheherazade_79]

I haven't had sex with anyone since before i started writing

Maybe not, but judging by your stories, I'd definitely be happy to oblige!

 

[TheEarl]

I have to say that in my (extremely) limited experience, people don't expect anything because of your writing. Mostly they're pleasantly surprised when things overlap from paper to real life.

Tell us how it goes .

The Earl

 

[scheherazade_79]

I thought everyone felt like that???

Do they??????????????

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Sexual Expectations

I am!

I have trouble writing stories to match.

Edited to add: that's why I submit some under an alt ID. Muahahahaha!

im with ya lou...
people wouldnt believe some of the things ive done...it allseems a bit fantastical...even to me!

i find myself really playing down the sex in my stories
hrm
maybe i should rethink that.

 

[scheherazade_79]

I have to say that in my (extremely) limited experience, people don't expect anything because of your writing. Mostly they're pleasantly surprised when things overlap from paper to real life.

Tell us how it goes .

The Earl

I will... wish me luck!

 

[Guest]

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im with ya lou...
people wouldnt believe some of the things ive done...it allseems a bit fantastical...even to me!

i find myself really playing down the sex in my stories
hrm
maybe i should rethink that.

LOL! Yep, with some of us truth really is more sordid than fiction.

Some of the stuff I get up to would shock most people, even here.

LOL! Yes, I think you should, but I know what you mean.

 

[scheherazade_79]

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im with ya lou...
people wouldnt believe some of the things ive done...it allseems a bit fantastical...even to me!

i find myself really playing down the sex in my stories
hrm
maybe i should rethink that.

Second prize to Vella

 

[ABSTRUSE]

Do they??????????????

I lied, I don't get out much these days.

 

[Colleen Thomas]

Maybe not, but judging by your stories, I'd definitely be happy to oblige!

I'm flattered

thank you

 

[Guest]

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Lou wins the prize! I was wondering who'd be the first to say that!

LOL! I can't help being even more of a slut in R/L.

 

[scheherazade_79]

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LOL! I can't help being even more of a slut in R/L.

And that's my problem - I'm honestly quite respectable in real life. A pillar of society.

 

[CharleyH]

Just a simple question to all you Literoticans - do you find that when people know you write erotica, they expect you to be complete vixen (or whatever the male equivalent is) in the bedroom?

If so, how to you react to it?

Do you silently fill your pants while the moment approaches, or do you brazen it out in the belief that if you can imagine it and write it then you can do it?

Actually a very interesting question.

With the exception of a few stories, (Golden Flox) which are quite more than any man would care to imagine, (lol) I don't really write about vixens. Even my latest slut was sexually empowered. People who know me well, and who have read my work see me vividly in certain characters, and I can't pretend that I am not in those characters since I generally write from a zone I am confortable with, and from a place where I have had the experience in whole or part.

I think male or female, there is a certain element of us in the characters we create and the fantasies that we generate.

 

[scheherazade_79]

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Actually a very interesting question.

With the exception of a few stories, (Golden Flox) which are quite more than any man would care to imagine, (lol) I don't really write about vixens. Even my latest slut was sexually empowered. People who know me well, and who have read my work see me vividly in certain characters, and I can't pretend that I am not in those characters since I generally write from a zone I am confortable with, and from a place where I have had the experience in whole or part.

I think male or female, there is a certain element of us in the characters we create and the fantasies that we generate.

Hmmm... I like that answer. Definitely motivational. Thanks!

 

[Guest]

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And that's my problem - I'm honestly quite respectable in real life. A pillar of society.

Oh yes, I am, on the outside. Get me indoors (or even outdoors, if fairly private) and I turn into a sexual animal.

We must mold ourselves to fit our roles.

 

[impressive]

I write with the INTENT of making some of it happen. Other stuff has already "come" to pass.

 

[ABSTRUSE]

I write with the INTENT of making some of it happen. Other stuff has already "come" to pass.

Braggy pants.