sexual energy & BDSM

castagnus

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From personal experience, I have found that ladies capable of achieving multiple orgasms seem to be more likely to enjoy submissive BDSM love making then those a bit less orgasmic. Any views on this ?
 
hmm. sounds like donkey poop to me. but i'm curious as to how you came up with this theory?
 
I'll call a spade a spade. I have an illness that makes orgasm very painful. So I need to avoid it altogether. My partners know this and they can fuck me anyway they want and it will never be reached, This is good. But my walking into the dark side of bdsm is just as intense as a woman who orgasms once or a hundred times,.
 
From personal experience, I have found that ladies capable of achieving multiple orgasms seem to be more likely to enjoy submissive BDSM love making then those a bit less orgasmic. Any views on this ?

Hmmm maybe that is why I am so interested in this life style then. :confused: Because I am capable of having severallllll ! :cattail:
 
It certainly could be the type of people one meets in the lifestyle. I know that in opening myself up to these desires I have and understanding my submissive side and that whole fun process it has made me more open with my sexuality. Certainly is has helped me feel more confident and relaxed during sex, an attitude that makes it easier to achieve orgasm. Not to say that vanilla type people are all repressed prudes but the need in BDSM to be more clear and honest about one's desires can also help in achieving pleasure, especially multiple times.

That being said, I as a submissive am definetly not capable of multiple orgasms, more's the pity.
 
Domme here... multi-orgasmic and a squirter. I was that way before I starting any sort of BDSM relationship. I like having a slave who will give me oral and sexually satisfy me until I say its time for him to have some pleasure.
 
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