a75
Really Experienced
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- Mar 22, 2011
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My sexual awakening took place in the early 90's. Sometimes I call myself a member of the last pre-internet generation, when porn simply meant some silly magazines we could buy downtown, or a tape from the local video rental shop if we had a brother/cousin over 18 to get it.
I had a lot of "how to" questions in my mind (my girlfriends, too): How it is done "properly", what is "normal" and "abnormal", how it can be more pleasurable. I answered all these questions through experimentation, creativity, and, above all, experience. It was a process of slow, constant, stepwise discovery. When the easily accessible porn (i.e. porn/erotica sites) arrived, they may have softened my standpoint on some minor matters, but they didn't show me or teach me something I didn't know.
Sometimes I wonder... Is it the same for the younger generations? Thanks to the internet (or because of it), a modern teenager is exposed every day to tons of information on sex, written and videotaped. Does the attractive aura of mystery still exist?
I had a lot of "how to" questions in my mind (my girlfriends, too): How it is done "properly", what is "normal" and "abnormal", how it can be more pleasurable. I answered all these questions through experimentation, creativity, and, above all, experience. It was a process of slow, constant, stepwise discovery. When the easily accessible porn (i.e. porn/erotica sites) arrived, they may have softened my standpoint on some minor matters, but they didn't show me or teach me something I didn't know.
Sometimes I wonder... Is it the same for the younger generations? Thanks to the internet (or because of it), a modern teenager is exposed every day to tons of information on sex, written and videotaped. Does the attractive aura of mystery still exist?
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