Sexless Marriages

[Kelvin8or]

Does it count if you’re left unsatisfied a lot after sex?

Absolutely

 

[Mtnmike]

This is why I gave up asking. My self esteem took a huge hit. I did put myself out there one last time and asked him to at least help me get myself off and he totally ignored that I asked him. So I won't bring anything up again.
Some of the people I have interacted with on here have been a big booster for me. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'm fine with that. Lord knows I have enough baggage to fill a small plane.

I know how you feel, after 7 year's of rejections I stopped trying, that was over 8 year's ago.
Everybody's situation has similarities but also differences, it helps if you have people you can confide in with good advice (people that's been thru it) with no judgement, in the end it'll be you're decision to how to proceed.
Open to talk if you ever need to & if not it's ok, best wishes in finding a good solution for it.

 

[Mtnmike]

Hi. 27/bi here would like to chat.

You're a 27F & in a sexless marriage? I'm so sorry, wth is the world coming to omfg.

 

[Purple_Fronds]

This is why I gave up asking. My self esteem took a huge hit. I did put myself out there one last time and asked him to at least help me get myself off and he totally ignored that I asked him. So I won't bring anything up again.
Some of the people I have interacted with on here have been a big booster for me. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'm fine with that. Lord knows I have enough baggage to fill a small plane.

That sucks, it’s just a shitty thing to do to somebody.

The in-balance of sex drives is just very difficult for both parties but not to show affection for the person you profess to love is mean. I’m glad you’re getting a boost here.

 

[Lady2020]

This is why I gave up asking. My self esteem took a huge hit. I did put myself out there one last time and asked him to at least help me get myself off and he totally ignored that I asked him. So I won't bring anything up again.
Some of the people I have interacted with on here have been a big booster for me. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'm fine with that. Lord knows I have enough baggage to fill a small plane.

Can totally relate. Last time I wanted sex wirh partner he said use your vibrator. Guess where I threw the vibrator like a rocket. The garbage.

 

[whiskeycowgirl23]

Can totally relate. Last time I wanted sex wirh partner he said use your vibrator. Guess where I threw the vibrator like a rocket. The garbage.

I hope you smacked him up side the head with it first!

 

[Britva415]

I’d feel silly if she wanted to start again.

I told my wife "you know what, no thanks."

We're family but not lovers now. It would seem incestuous at this point.

 

[PicassosPleasure]

I told my wife "you know what, no thanks."

We're family but not lovers now. It would seem incestuous at this point.

Sad, but glad to see you found some humor in it.

 

[Britva415]

Sad, but glad to see you found some humor in it.

Well, I've now got "a pass" too, so, the tragedy isn't as intense for me as it used to be.

 

[PicassosPleasure]

Well, I've now got "a pass" too, so, the tragedy isn't as intense for me as it used to be.

Nice to hear you have a pass!

 

[fullservice65]

A few years ago, I really got myself in shape, running half-marathons, losing a lot of weight, gaining muscle and tone in some spots I thought were really sexy - the chest, the upper arms, the back, in addition to the legs. No response. And when I tried to instigate, rejection.
Worst thing, I think we all can agree, is when a SO doesn't even want to talk about it. Is it me? Is it you? Is it the cats? The bed? The laundry detergent? My shampoo?
Who knows!
That's one reason why I come here. I'd like a long-term relationship, from Lit or elsewhere, or even a short-term. But I often run away when it looks like something might happen. Seems I'm a good student.

 

[sassysara67]

If you need a little help and fun, then PM me.

 

[uncut1234]

I am totally in a sexless marriage and have been pretty much for a few years! We’re out there but we are a bit like unicorns

I am a woman in her 50’s with the sex drive of an 18 yr old boy, that’s not normal I’ve been told by female friends the same age and male friends. I should be settling down for my old age with my hormones dying a slow death, but hell no!

If you still have it, use it. Nice post !

 

[shizzz]

I am totally in a sexless marriage and have been pretty much for a few years! We’re out there but we are a bit like unicorns

I am a woman in her 50’s with the sex drive of an 18 yr old boy, that’s not normal I’ve been told by female friends the same age and male friends. I should be settling down for my old age with my hormones dying a slow death, but hell no!

lol. Dangerous place for such bold statements.

 

[shizzz]

Actually one of the things GreenMan and I realized once we took it to ‘in person’ instead of just here, we both miss the general intimacy like hugging, kissing, holding hands and just having someone who cares about us there daily, as much as the sex. The time we spend apart in between visits makes this even more apparent - humans need all kinds of intimacy to thrive.

I miss the feel of another body. Cuddling in a couch, a brief embrace. Physical contact creates a channel for me somehow, it’s the only way/time I don’t feel isolated…

 

[Doodledude]

I don’t even remember how long it’s been. We’re roommates and friends now, but there’s no affection. Divorce is out of the question and I have enough respect for her to not go out so I’ve come on here to find someone to talk with.

 

[Fune_Meretrix]

Yep. I’m experiencing this now. My 30’s are just passing by at this point…

 

[shizzz]

for those that don’t divorce? Why. My kid are finishing high school and I am seriously considering splitting up.

Like it’s driving me me crazy

 

[BobbyandtheCabin]

Today's felt pretty shit. Long day at work and the usual absence of any affection, romance etc. when I got home.
Sat down on the sofa and could hear my neighbours fucking loudly through the walls. Valentines treat. Just made me feel sad.

 

[eric_erosfan]

for those that don’t divorce? Why. My kid are finishing high school and I am seriously considering splitting up.

Like it’s driving me me crazy

I don't know how anyone can afford divorce. We know a couple who decided to stay married but are basically divorced just to avoid the expense. The husband made up a place to live like a bachelor in the garage.

 

[fullservice65]

We had a pre-Valentine's Day dinner out last night, and as I listened to her talk across the table, I also imagined taking her from behind.
When we got home, I told her I wanted to have sex. "I'm tired" was her response.
Happy Valentine's Day!

 

[Ljpoker8d1]

I am totally in a sexless marriage and have been pretty much for a few years! We’re out there but we are a bit like unicorns

I am a woman in her 50’s with the sex drive of an 18 yr old boy, that’s not normal I’ve been told by female friends the same age and male friends. I should be settling down for my old age with my hormones dying a slow death, but hell no!

Can you meet with my wife lol I’m 42 and we have sex 2-4 times a week but I still have a drive like in my 20’s. Stamina included. Multiple times even. And she doesn’t take advantage lol. I’m in a place where sex for her is great but for me it’s mundane. She doesn’t wanna let me spice it up. Very plain. So I find spice through fantasy chat.

 

[BEAR28]

I been in a sexless marriage for 3 years. Last night took her to a nice restaurant and had a amazing time get home and settled in and I am thinking we are gonna get that pre v day sex only to be told she was tired and had a early meeting online in the morning. Bronx man here just frustrated.

 

[brdplt]

Another valentines passes with no sex….thats 4 in a row I believe…..par for the course around here

 

[cuck72]

I just deal with the lack of sex through my submissive cuckold thoughts. My wife has cheated in the past, but years ago. So, now I can still get off with those cuckold thoughts, excepting being denied sex because she's cuckolding me again, thinking with a much young guy with a big cock. I am only 4" and thin. So, for me being in a sexless marriage makes me just feel like her caged pathetic sissy bitch cuckold husband. It's so exciting to imagine my mature sexy wife with a younger REAL MAN satisfying her sexual needs. It works with me still enjoying sex with myself. I also have gotten into sissy boi gay porn without the sex from my wife. We had a good run for years, now I live with my sissy gay boi or cleanup cuckold fantasies.