So sorry, but the same thing happened with hubby the first tablets he was given gave him chest pains, so we don't need that! However, he got the tablets changed and they seem to be working better. Yes, I know what you mean about friends on lit! It's quite liberating too, don't you think? By the way there's a women's only sexless marriage group on FB. Silky
How wonderful I will try and find it
https://www.facebook.com/groups/600...313862140174¬if_t=group_activity&ref=notif
You are replying to a comment from 2019. A lot changed since then. As far as I remember, she had at least two real life relationships outside of marriage and moat likely is divorced and moved in with somebody else.
Legally married or not doesn't really make a difference in daily life. In my language the word for a legal wife/husband/spouse and cohabiting ("open") one have just one word difference by a coincidence. And very often we drop the prefix, and then it's just wife/man, and you either assume, guess or don't care which one you mean.
My wife is similar in that there is no drive and likely part of it is due to medicine and she's resistant to some
I empathize with you!
I have surpassed ten years now! from a sex perspective! i too have a friend dealing with the wrath of prostate cancer, I use the term wrath, as he speaks of a lot of pain, and I am certain that it has taken a toll on his marriage too
I'm sorry he has lots of pain. My late husband was afraid of having a painful period before dying, but pain meds worked very well for him (as for my uncle as well) - the worst time was actually before getting his diagnoses, aka before treatment and meds.
I too am sorry to hear about your circumstances, so difficult for the person with the health issues, and equally hard for yourself, when a illness strikes, it alters everything. All to often we take our health for granted, I have been very fortunate thus far with health issues, I have had moments when I had to go to the hospital and i see people whom I know are suffering and I realize how lucky I am that I can walk out of that place of my own accord knowing everything is ok!
That's all I've seen when I've attempted intimacy with my now soon-to-be-ex husband. It's too much work with no chance of return. He's more content to play on his phone while I ride solo. I can do that by myself without the humiliation, thank you very much.
Well. That relationship was maybe totally sexless due to his health (even before his diagnose) but sex was very scarce even longer - by his choice.
Nope. Definitely not for all. Some medications make one loose all interest, totally. Also some have lost their interest even otherwise. Like my husband. I later found out he had been cheating.
Oh. Love to chat with u.
I know that feeling. Didn't take 10 years to get to that point. Just there was no situation where it would have been tested, before I realised I want to separate.
Having a sexless marriage is one thing. Having a spouse that doesn't care but pretends and lies is another thing.
Yep, and having one that just doesnt want to discuss it is just as bad.
It can be a sign of not caring. Or total uneasiness in front of the subject, depending on the case.
Or shame! So many don't know how to talk about sex or their sexuality.
