It is a really wise advice, especially if your spouse thinks the NO means NO, and you live in the wrong state and your spouse will find a good layer then you can easily find yourself in prison...
Our stories are almost identical
Oh I understand the driver part. I am a taxi driver. And the list of maladies grows. I will turn 67 in a few days. Yet the other day, I moved two tons of gravel to the floor in my new greenhouse. So, as you are still physically active in great shape, I try to do the same. I love being retired and out of doors. I bike, work in the yard and in the last month, have begun to play tuba in the local town band. The music isn't difficult as I have played in orchestras and wind ensembles. But it gets me out and meeting others. I secretly hope to meet someone. Yes, outside of the marriage vows. We'll see.
Sex doesn't solve all problems. Another thing I will say is that people get old.
No, it doesn't solve all the issuses. There are other things at play here. Communication being paramount. But if we can't talk about the problems, nothing is remedied. And yes. We do get old. But I intend to fight the entire way.
No it doesn't, but try zero signs of affection over months and years. It's being a hermit living in a cave from other humans.
. Women go through so much more than men do. Especially when women get older. If it's all about good sex then why get married? Marriage is more than just what you can get.
Selfish?? I think not. Yes, I understand it is different for women. I have spent over 4 decades providing a safe environment and supplying needs. I've worked hard at multiple jobs to make this so. Yes, I understand it is different for women. I live with an RN. I have a better depth of knowledge than most. I have given a lot, gave up a lot, sacrificed a lot for my family. I regret none of it. It was the right thing to do. I just want some of the old touch and flame, instead of being pushed away.I think a lot of men are being selfish
PREACH! Amen brother! Marriage is about connection and sorry but sexual contact is 100% part of that, we are animals by nature and sexual contact is part of that! I’m gonna piss some people off but the animals don’t “feel tired” have “worked too hard” or “have a headache!”
Dude. You’re the reason they have tampons in men’s restrooms. Jesus.I think a lot of men are being selfish
Hey, my man, if you know you are gonna piss off some people, I am sure you'll see this one comming. Let me please offer you a very heartfelt "go fuck yourself, you one-dimensional, inconsiderate arse."
I stand by what I saidDude. You’re the reason they have tampons in men’s restrooms. Jesus.
Come back when you leave mom’s basement and actually have a healthy adult relationship and no longer have your virginity.
You’re like the white dudes that drive big trucks. Small pexker syndrome. Big dog?????
Where's the lie
Oh my , I understand.
Has he seen a doc about anything like ed or drop in libido?
I think he did, or maybe doc assumed because one time I went to pick up my meds, they have me his too, it was a rx for sidenafil or whatever the generic viagra is. He knows I know he has it, and of course i wondered if it was for someone else and now he doesn't even talk about it.
Omg, do i wish you the best.
I have a spouse with multiple disorders and autoimmune diseases. It has an impact for sure.
. Why do people wait until they get older and then want to complain? Like I said before people get old. Does anyone know what in sickness and health really mean? When people get older current things happen. That's just life.
