Sexiness is in the eye of the beholder??

[JazzManJim]

Okay, so here's the question. tossing aside the physical attributes, what's sexy to you. What quality makes you decided that you want that tumble in the hay with someone?

It is humor?? Confidence? A big bank account? A nice car?

This is something I'd like to get a handle on. I believe that looks matter a whole hell of a lot but, not being a man particularly blessed with hunkiness, I'm cynical about it.

So I'm looking for qualities other than looks. What floats your boat, makes your Soldier stand at attention, sets the little man in the boat out sailing?

 

[Willing and Unsure]

the smile, the eyes, humor helps some, honesty, his shoes (just kidding)

 

[JazzManJim]

the smile, the eyes, humor helps some, honesty, his shoes (just kidding)

Not bad, but I'm talking non-physical attributes. I don't mean what a person looks like, but what a person is .

 

[registered "^^"]

Doesn't have to be beauty.....money or material. You either have it or not, can't be bought,sold or faked.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

Not bad, but I'm talking non-physical attributes. I don't mean what a person looks like, but what a person is .

i know what you mean.. but i see a lot as to what the person is from those things.. the other things you listed, you cant tell anything about them from it.

and if you want detail on any of this stuff.. i'll share detail

 

[JazzManJim]

i know what you mean.. but i see a lot as to what the person is from those things.. the other things you listed, you cant tell anything about them from it.

and if you want detail on any of this stuff.. i'll share detail

I'd like that. Please.

 

[bluntforcemama]

Honesty and a love for life. People with bad attitudes are the pits.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Willing and Unsure]

my list

the smile: when i first met my current boyfriend (in person) i wasnt sure of what to expect, and i saw him across the room before he saw me (we exchanged pics so we knew what each other looked like). when he saw me, the smile he gave me showed that he was a kind man and happy (cuz it was obviously not faked).
some people fake smiles, which shows mostly that they are unhappy about something, enough that will keep them from showing their true selves.

the eyes: the eyes lead to the soul, and you can see so many different things about the person within them. the first time i gazed into my man's eyes, i could tell so much about him and his what he was like even though i hadnt known him very long.

humor: humor shows that a person can relax and deal well with uncomfortable or nervous situations. it also can reflect their happiness and how comfortable they are with themself.

honesty: if there is no honesty, there is no room for trust. if there is no trust, there isn't really anything.


and the thing about the shoes was just a joke.. nothing serious about it

 

[Willing and Unsure]

your list

humor: i've already stated my thoughts on humor

Confidence: i didnt see this one in the original post, so i'll comment on it now. the confidence can be an act. all other things added together shows the true confidence of the person.

A big bank account: this can show nothing about the person other than they have money. their personality is not at all reflected by this

A nice car: this doesnt show anything either. my sister is a prime example of this. she has a nice car, but she is the most unstable, unreliable, self-hated person i know. so this doesnt mean anything either

 

[JazzManJim]

Thanks, Willing. That was eloquent and I appreciate it!

 

[Willing and Unsure]

Thanks, Willing. That was eloquent and I appreciate it!

you're welcome Jimmy.. hope this helps other people too

 

[Debbie]

humour, honesty, loyalty, a good attitude, kind and caring.

Quote by JazzMan Jim"What quality makes you decided that you want that tumble in the hay with someone?"

A feeling of attraction, not to their physical attributes but to their inner self. Who they are. A feeling of wanting to be close to this person because they have qualities I admire. You make me laugh? You are honest and respect me? You are loyal and have a good attitude. Kind and caring.
Then, if I wasn't already married, I would be interested.

 

[KillerMuffin]

Attitude.

Understanding what I'm talking about goes a long way as well, but to me sexiness is all attitude.

To me, sexiness and attractiveness are no synonyms.

 

[Problem Child]

I wanna lick your husk.

 

[KillerMuffin]

*nods knowingly*

See? Attitude and understanding what I'm saying. Perfect sexiness.

 

[Problem Child]

Muffie, you're my Shelby Cobra.

 

[KillerMuffin]

You can be my 426 Hemi, baby.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

W+U.... Lil sis.


As for the others... Muffy... come here....

 

[Problem Child]

Gimme fuel, gimme fire, gimme that which I desire....

 

[KillerMuffin]

Crazy bout a Mercu- fuck that.

Crazy bout a Powerwagon
Gonna find me a Powerwagon
And fuck like a rabbit in the bed.

 

[sch00lteacher]

Brains.

What was the name of that stupid movie? Night of the Living Dead?

Anyhow, Brains. I am attracted to someone who can hold an intelligent conversation. I would rather spend an evening talking to a 'smart' woman than fucking around with a stupid one.

 

[Marxist]

Re: Brains.

What was the name of that stupid movie? Night of the Living Dead?

Anyhow, Brains. I am attracted to someone who can hold an intelligent conversation. I would rather spend an evening talking to a 'smart' woman than fucking around with a stupid one.

What does the stupid one look like?



Oh, and do I get to eventually fuck the smart one?

 

[KnightWing]

If she is driving a truck, I'm looking. If its a really nice truck, I'm looking harder. If it's nicer than my truck, I'm jealous, and hoping she is looking at me!

Merry Christams to all,

Stay safe,

Wing

 

[Demian]

Jazzman, You Sly Dog

Personally, I wouldn't believe a word from a Fake Avatar

Later Dog