Sex with a co-worker?

[sexhawk]

The other day, I was approached by a young woman at work ,about getting together after work. I told her I had to work late and couldn't, but maybe some other time. I've always hear relationships at work can cause you nothing but trouble. Have any of you had a relationship at work, and how did it turn out?
Do you think I should go ahead with this very tempting offer?
Yes, this lady is younger and sexy, and she'll problemly use me in some way.

 

[bfine]

Relationships at work.

I think relationships at work are difficult at best and a disaster at worst.

Remember......

Don't shit where you eat! (somebody famous said that)

 

[paulo1556]

work and play don't mix

I agree in general that it is very difficult to mix work and play times. The relationships seldom work then become very messy. I've attempted a couple of affairs that flopped, and turned down one recently (with my boss no less!). However, they can work as I can testify. My wife and I met working together. This lasted only a short while then we moved and started different careers. I know a few marrieds that work together successfully, but too much of even a very good thing has to spoil eventually. Of course if your sexy friend works in another part of the company and you don't see each other often, don't supervise each other etc., then why not go for it. The worse thing that happens is some awkward moments in the future. Now, what was my position on this topic?

 

[peppermint_barbi]

Been there done that

I had an affair with a guy that I worked with. It lasted a while but in the end we don't talk now. It's a hard thing to do. For one thing, you don't want anyone finding out but everyone ends up finding out because you act differently. You also hope that even though you are fooling around that things won't get weird afterwards, but they do. If I had to do it over again, I probably wouldn't...well it was the best sex I ever had...maybe I would...lol

 

[aramera]

Sex at Work

The answer to sex with a co-worker is Disaster with a couple of capital TTTTT's
Many have done it and most fall be the way-side.
Be happy away from work and never take the thoughts home of what may have been.

 

[sugardaddy]

gotta be careful at work. besides just the ramifications personally if it does not work out, there could be civil liability for your place of employment, especially if she is a subordinate. awfully risky....

Sugardaddy

 

[eroticfiction]

Almost always bad news.

 

[Space Wrangler]

sex on the job

I had a several month fling with a female co-worker, who aslo happened to be my supervisor, several years ago. Of course things are fine and dandy while it is going on, but after it ends, it is invariably unconfortable. It even got to the point where I got fired for being "insubordinate" to her.

Unless you plan on marrying them and living "happily ever after", I would never recommend a work-place romance or fling.

 

[cheshire24]

been there too

Been there too as others here have stated but it has been great. The lady and I have been carrying on an affair for almost three years. She was divorced at 45 and hadn't had a oral hubby befor. I love oral and she is very happy and takea all I can give and is learning to open up.

SHe now enjoys anal and toys. SUcking cock was not in her bag befor abut now she loves it, she still doesn't swallow. WHo cares she is wonderful and we keep it under wraps.

One thought about keeping it low keyed. Don't walk around like the other person is not alive. Interact with them and be as attentive to someone else who is not a lover. Be openly friendly with many workers and it would be difficult for others to assume you are having an affair.

When someone says tht so and so would be a great partner agree but give a reason for why you would rather be with so and so.

That way you don't deny that you have thoughts but in another direction. Diverts the thoughts of others. Gives protection without acting holier that God.

 

[lilpriss]

Well look... it's like this... you have to decide if it would only be a fling... or is this heading somewhere? I have had two co-worker experiences... one which sucked ass... ended up having to quit and the other rocked my world.

Here's the difference... First one was a RELATIONSHIP.... unless marrying the other person it WILL end bad. They always do unless both people are dead.

Second one was completely casual... went nowhere... IT WAS THE BEST SEX OF MY LIFE!!!! I couldn't sleep in the bed that night because it was SOAKED... slept on the couch... next morning the bed was still wet, not damp, wet... I still get turned on when I recall that experience!!!

Here's the deal... if you think it'll lead somewhere don't go there... if it's just sex and you both know it why the hell not?

 

[aramera]

Wet Bed.

Bad Bladder Control
Get some incontinance nickers

 

[Ebonyfire]

The other day, I was approached by a young woman at work ,about getting together after work. I told her I had to work late and couldn't, but maybe some other time. I've always hear relationships at work can cause you nothing but trouble. Have any of you had a relationship at work, and how did it turn out?
Do you think I should go ahead with this very tempting offer?
Yes, this lady is younger and sexy, and she'll problemly use me in some way.

I have one word for you. BAD. Now my motto is, "I never sh__ where I eat."

Ebony

 

[lilpriss]

wet bed

not incontinence sweetie... it's called arousal

 

[Amaterasu]

My personal opinion is to stay away, if at all possible. If you work in a completely different office or part of the company and there is no chance of possible subordinate/boss conflict, then i think you'll be ok.... but still the bre

When i was much younger, i dated a much older man that worked with me. He was a supervisor, but I rarely worked under him (well, on the job). Then, the big boss got caught stealing money, and lo and behold, he got the bump. Things got a little messy after that, I cheated on him (i know, bad girl!! hey! i was 17 and full of hormones, what can i say) he found out and started messing with my schedule, trying to make me think i was crazy, and wrote me up for mistakes that he had made himself but blamed on me! I actually quit and bitched him out for all the shit he pulled, and he felt really bad and wouldn't let me quit. Once we had an open conversation about things, it was better.... but i found another job shortly after that, because I knew it was a bad situation... We've reconcilled a few times, but i doubt we would have been able to if i had stayed there.

But hey, sex on the managers desk is totally awesome!!!

K

 

[knightstalker]

I must be in the minority on this one I had a relationship with a co-worker and it lasted two years ..It would of lasted longer but we were 19 years apart in age her being older and that is what caused the problem for her anyway not me I was in love with her still have feelings for her and we get together once in a while...As far as it ending and still working together still have no problems with it gues I was lucky that time

 

[aramera]

UH

I have known of some to get so carried away that they pee themselves.
In regard to the Co-worker bit..... If you do it you have a 90% chance of being caught out and getting done for it.

 

[tonitits]

sex with co-worker

my fuck buddy and i are co workers have been having absolutely fan-fucking tastic sex for about 3 years. but like many places there is always lots of talk if someone knows you are seeing/fucking a co-worker. so we agreed from the beginning that it was to be fuck buddies, he has his life, i have mine and we get together to take care of each others sexual needs and desires. At work we speak but do not communicate alot. we do not do anything to draw attention to us or to arouse suspicion. we meet away from work and enjoy the sex. he taught me to love ANAL SEX and i LOOVE to suck his cock. I taught him to get into SPANKING. we are always looking for new and better ways to get each other off.

 

[aramera]

Fuck Buddies

HO HUM
I suppose you think that no one knows you both in the area you live in or work in... or maybe they don't care about you and your escapades.. as said... HO HUM.

 

[Pdxmwm]

Almost all sex is good, but this is bad, bad, bad, bad, bad, bad and bad. Just in case I wasn't clear about by feelings, it's a great way to screw up a job, a friendship, and put a major roadblock in your career.

 

[Mistress ReNae]

Been there Done that too

I had a fling with a co-worker a few years ago before I found a happy life with the right man...Bad situation however we didn't meet away from work we snuck around at work and never got caught...the Rush was great but when I realized what I was doing.... This is something I would never recommend to anyone I so totally could have lost my job or even worse he could have lost his marriage, mine at that time was gone. We ended when I found the right man and he was so mad at me and wanted me to still fool around with him... I said no and he moved away.

 

[tigerjen]

It's tempting......but pleasure and business don't always
mix.........

 

[gr8dad2]

I have done it twice.. once was a disaster and once was fantastic until she moved away.. A lt depends on the people and their attitude and what they are looking for.. when its bad and it is in your face all day... its excruciating.. but when its good and available to flirt and fling all day its heaven(oops Dad said I shouldn't use that word)

Gr8dad2

 

[bigblondeman33]

WATCH YOUR APPROACH, YOU MIGHT HAVE TO USE THE SAME RUNWAY TO TAKE OFF FROM LATER

Be careful to learn what you each want from the begining. Simple physical attraction for sex is great, but make sure that both understand that.

The worst (and sleezy-est) thing is to lead the other person on just to get some. After the sex you still have to see each other. Not a good time if she thinks she is in love and you are not. (see shitting were you live, above).

Additionally, besides the potential to inflict finacial and emotional harm, you may scare away the other fish. WAIT UNTIL ONE OF YOU MOVES ON, OR AT LEAST TO A DIFFERENT WORK SITE!

Keep fishing, look outside your job - try Lit. personals?????

 

[aramera]

B. B. M.

I guess you mean don't shit in your own nest.
And dont't fuck with other peoples emotions.

By now.

 

[bigblondeman33]

HEY - Can be very Erotic

My warnings (see reply supra.) are just that, warnings! Sex at work can be a real turn on. Who has experiances that they can share?