Sex is not everything.

Said by people haviong regular sex.

When you aren't it can sure feel like everything.
 
I agree, but when you are in a relationship, if the sex part isn't going well, it effects the rest of the relationship!
 
..I am so far from having regular sex, it's gone past funny and into sad, but I agree with him...I could be having sex, just not with the woman I want it with...so I choose not to...therefore...it is not everything...
 
One doesn't need sex in a relationship to consider that relationship to be a good one. Some relationships have been through the sex part and moved into deeper waters. Mind you...going back would always be fun. ;)
 
Freya2 said:
Said by people haviong regular sex.

When you aren't it can sure feel like everything.
That's what I was gonna say. So, Freya. Wanna remedy my situation? ;)
 
Shadwann2 said:
I agree, but when you are in a relationship, if the sex part isn't going well, it effects the rest of the relationship!

Beyond true! Don't even try to ignore it!
 
I have to say I agree, it is not everything. That doesn't mean it isn't important, just that it isn't everything. I adore my husband to the ends of the earth, but I have a much higher sex drive than he does and yes, it does sometimes create problems. However, he is an absolutely wonderful human being without whom I cannot imagine living my life - and when I take the long view of things, although I don't intend to just 'give up' on the sex issue, I would never jeopardize what I have with him, for anyone else.
 
No it isn't... but my evening was topped off nicely last night by some great times with my man... :)

It maybe is the icing on the cake of a relationship....
 
Sex is like oxygen. It gets real important when you're not getting any.


Let's just say I suffocated a long, long, long, long time ago.
 
Maybe it's not

Sex may NOT be everything, but it sure beats the hell out of whatever is in second place. :p :p :p

all you ladies not getting any, cumere. I'll give you plenty. :p
 
Mia62 said:
One doesn't need sex in a relationship to consider that relationship to be a good one.
90% of a solid relationship includes sex
 
As I get older, regular sex is becoming less important to me. Sex has never been especially intrinsically meaningful to me. It's a distraction, a pastime, something to do to kill time on a rainy day. I haven't had sex for more than a year, now. Friends and family--those are important. Sex--nah. It's a luxury, a creature comfort--but hardly necessary.
 
Research and studies over the years have indicated that those hoo have an active sex life are happier and actually live longer than those hoo don't. As for us owls, it's a sad situation. For us, the entire experience lasts four seconds, yet people are oddly amazed (or is it amused) that I'm always horny. :devil:
 
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