Totally agree. ..Indeed, our sex life has never been better. Why? Because the challenges of my wife's menopause - e.g., decreased libido (at least initially), vaginal dryness, hot flashes, body-image issues, etc.. - eventually led us to a Sex Therapist who helped us to be more intentional about the kind of sex we were having...As a couple in our 50's (me) and 60's (my hubby), I'd like to take the opportunity to say to those who are younger and wondering if their ages will end up depriving them of the wonderful pleasures of sex, "not at all!" as long as you keep your curiosity and affection for one another. Please feel free to add your own experiences, fears etc! But keep these traits alive, and you're on your way to a deliciously erotic twilight .
Wholeheartedly agreed! We have delicious times at least twice a week as well. Atmosphere, foods, wines, music etc. also often have a way of bringing us to the point where our clothes end up in a heap on the floor, and I'm sure that the neighbors hear the results too!
Being an exhibitionist since I can recall, I spice up my week when masturbating in view of the many windows in the high rise across the street from ours, so my drive hasn't really changed much at all, and we still enjoy what we always have. We just aren't as hurried. 
U go, Bird!Wholeheartedly agreed! We have delicious times at least twice a week as well. Atmosphere, foods, wines, music etc. also often have a way of bringing us to the point where our clothes end up in a heap on the floor, and I'm sure that the neighbors hear the results too!
Bravo
Aww I missed it but I love the topic. We're 60's, I'm 63 and she's 61. Both have definitely noticed the change in drive but we still make time weekly for play, intimacy, and release. Just takes a little longer and requires more creativity to reach the same goal, but well worth it. Can't imagine not doing it.
Oh, no.
I am 74, and lost my wife 3.5 years ago. I figured my sex life was over, and because of her illness, hadn't had sex for years before that. I had a large body count before that marriage, and figured it was over, with just memories left. Well, six months after my wife's death, one of her younger married friends came over, dragged me to bed just to make sure, (in her words) that I remembered to know how to get into and out the saddle. She said my wife had made her promise to do it.As a couple in our 50's (me) and 60's (my hubby), I'd like to take the opportunity to say to those who are younger and wondering if their ages will end up depriving them of the wonderful pleasures of sex, "not at all!" as long as you keep your curiosity and affection for one another. Please feel free to add your own experiences, fears etc! But keep these traits alive, and you're on your way to a deliciously erotic twilight .
agree. i'm in that age ball park and sex gets more wild and free.As a couple in our 50's (me) and 60's (my hubby), I'd like to take the opportunity to say to those who are younger and wondering if their ages will end up depriving them of the wonderful pleasures of sex, "not at all!" as long as you keep your curiosity and affection for one another. Please feel free to add your own experiences, fears etc! But keep these traits alive, and you're on your way to a deliciously erotic twilight .
I'm 55, but I have to admit that my whole time growing up, in fact up until I started chatting with folks here on Lit, I was led to believe that menopause was the end of sexual desire for women, and that guys couldn't even get it up after about 50.As a couple in our 50's (me) and 60's (my hubby), I'd like to take the opportunity to say to those who are younger and wondering if their ages will end up depriving them of the wonderful pleasures of sex, "not at all!" as long as you keep your curiosity and affection for one another. Please feel free to add your own experiences, fears etc! But keep these traits alive, and you're on your way to a deliciously erotic twilight .
I’m over 50 m and my desire drive has not changed I’m usual multiple times a day orgasms
I think that during our youth we are told that, but I haven’t felt a decrease in libido yet. I still have a rich fantasy life and masturbate often during idle time and my exhibitionist side is still going strong.
I am 80, fuck like a rabbit; ;just ask my married high school classmate.......now I got her sucking cock and having orgasms.I think that during our youth we are told that, but I haven’t felt a decrease in libido yet. I still have a rich fantasy life and masturbate often during idle time and my exhibitionist side is still going strong.
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