serious male masturbation question

[Bobtoad777]

I am male 25 years old virgin!!

go ahead laff...........waiting..............there i think the laughter has died down enough that I can continue.

I want to save my intercourse virginity for a special gal, but being male I get horny and have to do something about it. So I masterbate.


whoa a hush just light over the room. I can feel all the eyes staring at me, its frightful, anyways.

I have tried vasaline and a couple of lubercants but found its more annoying and messy that anything, and my penis usely slips from my hand with luberaction.

I have found that masturbation for me works best dry. Is this normal??

Secondly, lately I can not seem to get off unless I am listening to something audio, it used to be pictures were enough but now i have to every time cue up a real audio sex story. Is this normal?

Please respond semi seriously to my serious issue, and thank you for your time.

 

[Skibum]

Dry is fine if it works for you. Use whatever stimulation you need. Niether pictures or audio work very well for me. I find the printed word to be more stimulating.

 

[Weinergirl]

My dh has always been a dry guy-he says lubs are too messy too. As for normal it's relative don't sweat it. As for the shift in your get off meter...I'm not a guy but I go back and forth. I'll be in an audio phase for a while, then a literature phase for a few months and contrary to popular belief visual stimulation as well.

Hope you find something that gets your "Attention" soon.
love
Wg

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Good to see someone gets off to the audio stories here...
Um I actually go more vitamin E cream or Sorbeline but... whatever takes your fancy I spose...

Re skibum specially dixons flights of fancy..


Da chef

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

I am not male and I don't know much when it comes to male masturbtion. But I just wanted to saw I think it is great that you have saved your virginity of that special gal. You should be very proud of yourself.

Bonnie

 

[Bobtoad777]

118 views and 4 responses is that good odds?

any ways in response to your responses

Skibum - yes, lately its getting to be the written word but how to you manage to scrool the page and still keep hands free for the game

wienergirl - presumming dh is dear husband thanks for letting me know that i am not the only one who thinks lub is messy.
ps.- what type of "love" wienergirl just teasing its a virgin thing

Svedish_Chef - yes i find the audio here very "stimulating, but its a shame there isnt more free audio on the net, if you know of some let me know

Bonnie Wee Lassie - Thank you, rather taken aback that a woman is apprecitative that i am saving my virginity. Proud of the choise i made i am not sure if its something to be proud of but if you say so . ill be proud, hehehe.

thanks any more thoughts???

 

[Weinergirl]

Dh is dear husband in this instance at least. Ask me again the next time he forgets my birthday. No harm done Bobtoad777. Exactly what kind of lovin are you in need of? Don't be fooled by the virgin title.

an equal oppurtunity kind of gal

Love
Wg

 

[Bobtoad777]

Wiener girl - well I am a virgin in topic rating and real life. But there are sure a lot of things i would love to try from reading the stories i have read since i found literotica a yaear ago or so

i just need a girl sensitive to my nervousness till i overcum my shyness and really get "in"to whats going on

 

[Skibum]

Skibum - yes, lately its getting to be the written word but how to you manage to scrool the page and still keep hands free for the game

Print the story if you have to. With a small enough font you can get most stories to print in Wordpad or Notepad in just a few pages. Another option is to invest in an E-book and download the stories to that. Kind of expensive for a mastubation device.

 

[Bobtoad777]

aye yes a very expensive masterbatory toy. i guess ill just have to continue one handily and one hand on the down arrow

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

Don't be taken back by the fact that women like the fact that men can hold on to thier virginity. I have great respect for people who save it for the right person. I only wish I did the same thing. When a man or woman finds out there partner has been saving it for that one special person and it is them it is a great feeling. I am in total awe of men and women who can do it.

Bonnie

 

[Bobtoad777]

thanks bonnie we lassie

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

Your welcome and by the way welcome to the board.

 

[Bobtoad777]

thanks for the welcome been a long time lurker i think since i began actually just never had the courage to say anything, now i just cant seem to shut my fingers up

 

[Weinergirl]

Well I guess we can learn the ropes together bobtoad777.

I too applaud your decision to wait -I hope it's becoming as big a trend as I think it is. I was a lurker for awhile, too. With nice people like Bonnie Wee Lassie, Jade, Lauren, and lots of others I figured what the heck. Is this site great or what? The thoughts people have rolling around between their ears! As someone mentioned before it's a little addictive.

Hmm... palm pilot as a materbation aid you say-well I've been pretty good. (I hope Santa is using that Bell curve grading system.)

Guys:
Has anyone heard about the warm fruit thing-like bannas and cantaloupe (melons)? From what we've heard it's different and relatively popular. Pretty high on the messy factor I'd suppose.

I'm always amazed when I hear what guys talk about.
I don't think it counts as a way to get betacarotenes or those servings of fruit in ones diet.

Love Wg

 

[Bobtoad777]

wienregirl - If you talk santa into giving you one see if mrs. claus will visit me and maybe leave one behind as well

Is that an offer to learn the ropes together?

as for the use of melons and other type fruit material i found it very impractical, no foreplay, no talking , no cuddling. And its very messy, and makes it hard to walk throught the grocery story fruit section with out blushing.

 

[Weinergirl]

Hmmmm...
So that's why I see guys glancing furtively over their shoulder in the produce isle. Maybe I should walk over to one of them and smile that smile. You know the one that says -"i know you're up to..naughty naughty".

Now we all know a gift to give that really says you care.
Sure bobtoad777 although reading some of your posts it seems you'll be teaching me; even though I'm the older woman.

take care and give those hands a rest

Wg

 

[Bobtoad777]

now weiner girl am i to take from your last post me a little ole virgin is teaching a mature woman something about sexual activity???

my brow furrows in puzzlement!!

 

[Weinergirl]

No mystery - I lived a very sheltered life; so far that is. Age is after all nothing but a number. Am I too late for your b-day? I'll send you a melon.

I'll be MIA for a few days-- a visit to the old homestead and all that entails. I wish you continued sucess in all your masterbatory (sp?)pursuits. You can always drop me a line at my hotmail account denese1@hotmail.com; I try to at least check that when I'm away.

Take care all
Love

Wg