Sassy/Playful pets

[EmeraldRough]

My Master has asked me to start a thread tonight on these forums that he’s recently gotten into frequenting. He’s left the topic completely up to me so I hope nobody minds the topic I’ve chosen. It’s actually not my original idea I’d had earlier, but one that came to me after reading another discussion on here as well as a story I’d read recently on the story side of Literotica.

My topic? Sassy pets. Playful pets. Or subs/slaves. Whichever you prefer to call them. I know that I personally enjoy it most when my Master refers to me as his pet. It gives the feeling of endearment to the position without taking away from my desire to be obedient and please him. But weither I go by pet, sub or slave isn’t my topic. My topic was ‘sassy pets’. Let me get back to that now.

My question to toss out there for debate is this:
Do you enjoy your pets or subs to have a little sass to them? Do you enjoy it when they talk back just enough to get you to bend them over your knees? Or playful enough to have to catch them and pin them down?

I go through moods of sort. I will have times where I wish to be very obedient and drop to my knees instantly the second he walks into the room. But there are other times I very much enjoy teasing my Master’s cock more than servicing it. I love to get him frustrated enough to grab my hair and be a bit rough with me out of primal desire. Sometimes I simply enjoy earning my spankings or giving him an extra reason to spank me. If I were good all the time, we’d never have a chance to use the new crop he bought just for me.

And I absolutely love, love, LOVE when he finds the need to wrestle with me and pin me down because I’ve been teasing him or simply playful. Love. Mmmm. Love, love, love.

Please don’t take this as that I am a bad pet. I pride myself at being well behaved 80% of the time. But sometimes I enjoy giving him a reason to be firm with me too.

What are your thoughts? What do you enjoy in your pets/subs? Do the pets and subs out there playfully misbehave every now and then just for those extra spankings?

 

[VladHarkonnen]

Generally, I prefer complete obedience when I'm domming. Sass/playing will likely put me off. I'm not saying that I'm not up for a little wrestling and what not but that kind of play is separate for me.

 

[CrimsonDom]

I'm emeralds Master and I believe more of what she meant by being sassy and playful is knowing the rules of her Master and not necessarily flat out breaking the rule but pushing the limit to earn herself a little punishment. I do agree an obedient pet is best but there are times where her sass or attitude has made play more fun for both of us due to the fact that she earned a punishment. I am not saying she does it often most times she is very obedient and stays within the boundaries of my rules.

 

[BrightlyGo]

"Getting uppitty" is how She puts it when I put up a little token resistance, and, yes, it's OK - if i were the perfect little slave, i'd probably bore Her.

But, just a little now and then.

 

[CrimsonDom]

A well behaved slave never made history. Which means a perfectly behaved slave or pet will be forgotten eventually.

 

[Kajira Callista]

A well behaved slave never made history. Which means a perfectly behaved slave or pet will be forgotten eventually.

I am a brat....without a doubt. Ask anyone
I am also perfectly behaved for my daddies and I am sure I will never be forgotten.
I always thought that a masochist acting out to get punished to fulfill their pain/pleasure needs is just with the wrong sadist. Kind of like a symbiotic relationship gone wrong.
I act out just because I do and if I ever got punished for pushing it too far it would break my heart and they would be so disappointed in me.

 

[Malich]

I love that sassy / bratty side to all those I have played with in the past. I even wrote a blog on the subject of what I am looking for in my next partner and sassy / bratty tendencies were right up there.

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Not a deal breaker but I like to feel I have worked for that I get. In the past I have found such pleasure in leaving a room for 30 seconds and finding my cane is gone and there is a smirk on my subs face. Or telling someone to stay somewhere and to come back to find them sat, quietly, somewhere else with that same smirk. I've been in video chat with a sub and had to answer the phone and while I am sat watching, unable to do anything, had them slowly strip so I get distracted from my call. All done with nothing but fun in mind and every piece of it done with love.

• I like fighting to overpower someone and know they're fighting back.
• I like a little verbal sparring.
• I like to be tested, to know someone is pushing the limits a little to see what they can get away with.
• I like to be teased when I can't actually do anything to stop it.
• I want someone who, when I get them to submit, even if it's just for an hour until their sassy side kicks in again, I will know I've earned it.

As a side note, I'm not going to be too concerned about the sassy behaviour being displayed in public. While I agree that there is something to "your behaviour reflects on me" all I'd ever ask is that they be polite and respectful of others. As above, I would have fallen for that behaviour in the first place and don't mind if it is displayed... Just accept that the more someone teases, the more I will remind them of the consequences later

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[VladHarkonnen]

A well behaved slave never made history. Which means a perfectly behaved slave or pet will be forgotten eventually.

History making slave? You mean like Sparticus?

 

[CrimsonDom]

Yeah sure. It was more meant to be funny. Sorry for my bad attempt. It's late and work sucks tonight.

 

[Kim_Burly]

I call it being spunky and Sir calls it being cheeky. Neither of us would have it any other way. He has a very dry, edgy sense of humor and I am more of a bubbly person. We mesh well together and he likes me to be sassy because it gives him a reason to play with me physically, not every physical contact has to end in sex, but when we are alone, it mostly does. He's like a teenage boy sex drive wise. Some times he will just give me a quick but harsh OTK bare-bottom spanking, other times we wrestle or whatever he wants to bring me to heel, it can all start with just a smirk, look or comment.

He has no trouble at all making me understand when it's time to be an obedient sub with a glance or one word in the right tone. I don't know how other 24/7 D/s relationships, but we like to talk, laugh, joke and have fun. I can't imagine having to be a somber sub 100% of the time.

We will be married very soon and moving in together, since I normally go to his house to see him, having the kids around is going to be a big adjustment for him. There are so many games we play now that will have to become more infrequent. That worries me a little but he says he is looking forward to the coming changes. Sorry for rambling.

 

[graceanne]

I'm a brat, too. I know when to stop and how far to go, but K said if I stopped kidding him he'd think I was mad at him. lol Honestly, it takes all kinds and some people like to joke and play and some don't.

 

[CrimsonDom]

agreed grace

 

[SwtSassyNrse26]

I am perfectly well behaved and obediant all of the time
Or at least I try to be . Oh but sometimes I do love to see that glare in his eye and his stern voice as he growls at me.

 

[VladHarkonnen]

I am perfectly well behaved and obediant all of the time
Or at least I try to be . Oh but sometimes I do love to see that glare in his eye and his stern voice as he growls at me.

Of course, no slave is perfect all the time and even the most obedient slave can act out from time to time. It's the "slave" that make it a habit that I find tedious.

 

[EmeraldRough]

I agree that a pet or slave should not be sassy /ALL/ of the time. Like I had said, I do behave myself well (or at least I hope my Master consider's it "well") about 80% of the time. I would much more rather please him than sass him. But every now and then I get a spunky streak. I'm glad that he doesn't seem to mind it.

It gives him a reason to get rough with me. <3

 

[rexhame317]

I have a small bratty side in me. It comes out sometimes when we are texting back and forth (I top from the bottom with ideas sometimes)

We see it a lot, after a scene, when I am relaxed and satiated. And as soon as the words pop out of my mouth there is regret. I don't mean to be a brat, it is involuntary. Sir and I are working on it

 

[eric60red]

I am perfectly well behaved and obediant all of the time
Or at least I try to be . Oh but sometimes I do love to see that glare in his eye and his stern voice as he growls at me.

I like it when she says something or does something, which is against my rules, and I have to correct her to show that I am Master, means she has to be punished, and the punishment must fit the crime

 

[Noira]

IF I were submissive, I could never be anything less than bratty. Good Lord, it would be so boring otherwise, just sort of obediently obeying someone's will. How droll. That's probably why I'm not submissive.

I like brats. I like to fight. I very specifically like to win. Sometimes, and even in regular non-kinky life I find myself barking out orders almost absently. Things that I do expect to get done and right now. Get me the milk, open that jar, dry those, put that away, whatever. But for play? Please, "make me" is music to my sadistic ears.

 

[Felonious1]

My Master has asked me to start a thread tonight on these forums that he’s recently gotten into frequenting. He’s left the topic completely up to me so I hope nobody minds the topic I’ve chosen. It’s actually not my original idea I’d had earlier, but one that came to me after reading another discussion on here as well as a story I’d read recently on the story side of Literotica.

My topic? Sassy pets. Playful pets. Or subs/slaves. Whichever you prefer to call them. I know that I personally enjoy it most when my Master refers to me as his pet. It gives the feeling of endearment to the position without taking away from my desire to be obedient and please him. But weither I go by pet, sub or slave isn’t my topic. My topic was ‘sassy pets’. Let me get back to that now.

My question to toss out there for debate is this:
Do you enjoy your pets or subs to have a little sass to them? Do you enjoy it when they talk back just enough to get you to bend them over your knees? Or playful enough to have to catch them and pin them down?

I go through moods of sort. I will have times where I wish to be very obedient and drop to my knees instantly the second he walks into the room. But there are other times I very much enjoy teasing my Master’s cock more than servicing it. I love to get him frustrated enough to grab my hair and be a bit rough with me out of primal desire. Sometimes I simply enjoy earning my spankings or giving him an extra reason to spank me. If I were good all the time, we’d never have a chance to use the new crop he bought just for me.

And I absolutely love, love, LOVE when he finds the need to wrestle with me and pin me down because I’ve been teasing him or simply playful. Love. Mmmm. Love, love, love.

Please don’t take this as that I am a bad pet. I pride myself at being well behaved 80% of the time. But sometimes I enjoy giving him a reason to be firm with me too.

What are your thoughts? What do you enjoy in your pets/subs? Do the pets and subs out there playfully misbehave every now and then just for those extra spankings?

Sure, there's plenty of "subs" out there that are allowed to control at least some of the the scene activities and/or the flow of power exchange within a relationship. Neither of which I'll tolerate.

I make my wishes, wants and desires known beforehand. Thus I expect to be catered too, pleased and honored as the big letter in any power-based relationship. Attempts by the little letter to top from the bottom will only turn me off and shut me down. Plus starts my incompatibility alarm to pinging. As well as ringing louder every time I have to address such an issue when it arises.

A little letter partner initiating and expressing their desire for sex/scene/intimacy is one thing, but for them to act out in order to procure more intense scene activities and/or to spur me to action by acting out will not be tolerated. It's MY scene, and it won't be controlled tempo or intensity-wise by anyone than than me and my desires of the moment.

Not saying my way is right or wrong for anyone else, its just what's right for me.

Felonious

 

[LallyH]

Teasing, joking, being playful and cheeky, and verbal sparring are fundamental to all my relationships. Occasionally a misjudgement means that it moves from being amusing entertainment for both parties into the realm of provocation but this is usually unintentional.

I would have no interest in any relationship of any nature without it. Yes, I expect to be cut down to size if and when I go too far, but that's what makes it engaging and challenging. Losing the game to a stronger opponent gives value to submission.

 

[KoPilot]

Teasing, joking, being playful and cheeky, and verbal sparring are fundamental to all my relationships. Occasionally a misjudgement means that it moves from being amusing entertainment for both parties into the realm of provocation but this is usually unintentional.

I would have no interest in any relationship of any nature without it. Yes, I expect to be cut down to size if and when I go too far, but that's what makes it engaging and challenging. Losing the game to a stronger opponent gives value to submission.

Yeah, is it really a game if winners and losers are decided before having even played? Not that I want to win, or expect to, but it's having that illusion taken from me that I find delicious.

I don't want to be treated by my D the way my health insurance company already treats me, thanks.

 

[celestialdragon]

My former Master refered to it as being 'bold'. I will admit I'm a tease and will tease him when we weren't having a session, but then a little reminder of my place at our next session is fun. We liked to verbally spar and occasionally wrestle.

Being bold also usually meant that I was taking charge for a bit- usually when he wanted to relax. So what kind of sub would I have been if I didn't give him no stress sex?

My boyfriend usually refers to it as being a smartass. And usually will remind me that I'm a little submissive to him by saying he'll take it out of my pussy. As if we had a bank account there.

Both of them don't mind I can be a little sassy and playful. In fact they encourage it.

 

[eric60red]

We all have our little ways, our ways of doing things, if we were all the same life would be so boring

 

[Dyslexicea]

Teasing, joking, being playful and cheeky, and verbal sparring are fundamental to all my relationships. Occasionally a misjudgement means that it moves from being amusing entertainment for both parties into the realm of provocation but this is usually unintentional.

I would have no interest in any relationship of any nature without it. Yes, I expect to be cut down to size if and when I go too far, but that's what makes it engaging and challenging. Losing the game to a stronger opponent gives value to submission.

^^^This^^^ but when I'm in the mood to play rough, physically or verbally, I don't always expect to lose, at least not easily. Being submissive does not mean I don't have the right to choose my own way in being so. It has to work for both of us not just her.

Sure, there's plenty of "subs" out there that are allowed to control at least some of the the scene activities and/or the flow of power exchange within a relationship. Neither of which I'll tolerate.

I make my wishes, wants and desires known beforehand. Thus I expect to be catered too, pleased and honored as the big letter in any power-based relationship. Attempts by the little letter to top from the bottom will only turn me off and shut me down. Plus starts my incompatibility alarm to pinging. As well as ringing louder every time I have to address such an issue when it arises.

A little letter partner initiating and expressing their desire for sex/scene/intimacy is one thing, but for them to act out in order to procure more intense scene activities and/or to spur me to action by acting out will not be tolerated. It's MY scene, and it won't be controlled tempo or intensity-wise by anyone than than me and my desires of the moment.

Not saying my way is right or wrong for anyone else, its just what's right for me.

Felonious

Without the little letter you're just shit out of luck. Being submissive doesn't mean being a door mat. Don't let the door hit you on the ass on your way out!

 

[CBM514]

Yes, sassy or playful/ misbehaving (minor in nature) is fun and gives me a nice reason to punish in creative ways!