Sample BDSM Personals Ads

[cymbidia]

This came right out of MissT's thread, and Dhalgren's query in that thread.

I've had this particulal personals ad up at alt.com for years. I've changed it in minor ways to reflect differences in my circumstances, but this is the one that's gotten me the best results of any i've ever used. I've got the same one, basically, up at bondage.com. I'll attach the pic i have associated with these ads in those places; most of you have already seen it. It's got nipple piercing. Don't open it if you're squeamish.

In both cases, i've indicated that i'm no longer searching for a Dominant so please do not pm/email me suggesting a match between us. Thank you.

Also, i really don't think we want to begin a personals service here so please let's not. If you wish to post a copy of *your own* personals ad here so we can see it, maybe help you rewrite it, give you some feedback, etc, then feel free to do so.

However, if this starts looking like the Literotica Personals forum, i think we should nuke this thread out of existence, okay? One of those forums is enough for any single planet.

 

[cymbidia]

"cymbidia"
Title: intelligent sub seeking experienced Dom

Profile: Just so you know, i'm no longer looking for a Dominant. Thanks for thinking to take a peek at my profile, though, and i'm certain that someone just right for you is coming along at any time. Be well.

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I'm a lifelong submissive who has fully accepted that my BDSM needs are a part of my sexuality as well as a part of who i am as a person. I need this in my life to be whole.

I'm adventurous, kinky, and open to trying almost anything. I'm attractive but *not* a skinny-minnie runway model so if a perfect 10 kinda body is important to you, perhaps it would be best for both of us if you continue on to the next ad that catches you eye.

I know that there's limitless, wild, heated pleasure possible between a willing, experienced submissive and a inventive, aggressive Dominant. Of premier importance to me is that the Dom/me with whom i spend my time have an intimate understanding of the application of pain as a tool to heighten eroticism within the context of a power-exchange relationship.

(If you offer me the courtesy of a reply, please consider including an alternate email address as the alt dot com server is, in my experience, slow and unreliable.)


Ideal Person - I'm searching for an active outlet for my masochistically-inclined submissiveness. To that end, i seek a knowledgeable Dominant who can take me for walks on the razor edge of sensation. In return, i offer the honesty of my responses and a sublime willingness to be to you what you need and want.

Ideally, you are *not* married, at least 39 years old, and are willing to play according to SSC precepts. Additionally, you will need to live in my general area since i cannot travel very far at all to meet you. The hours i call my own are limited.

I'm not looking for one-night situations or some occasional frisky, kinky sex. On the contrary, i'm focused on finding someone who can/will dominate me both physically and mentally. Since i have very little of the Domme in me, a switch would quickly find that an important facet of his sexuality is lost in my need for a strong Dominant.

I seek, straightforwardly, an *experienced* Dominant to whom, in time, i can offer my trust and from whom i'll be used and touched in a manner consistent with what each of us needs we travel our individual roads.

 

[riff]

Watching, listening, learning

I agree. If it turns into a personals thread, fry the fucker!

 

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