Same room experiences

[notcynicalyet]

My female FBW and I are thinking about having our first same room experience with another couple. We're not interested in swapping (at least for now) but really turned on by the possibility of watching and being watched. Any guidance, advice, or experiences (good and bad) anyone can share would be greatly appreciated. I'll share our experience if/when it happens. Thanks, all!

 

[topip]

I would love to do that!!! So hot!!!

 

[Dreamer110]

We've done that with friends. It took quite awhile to get to that point but even that was fun. Of course it eventually led to more.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Always wanted to try it. Have a FWB myself, she might be interested.

 

[FGB]

Mine would go for it or even more if the people were right.

 

[Dreamer110]

And probably no awkward after effects, right? Seems like safe sex to me. Kind of like watching porn up close and personal.

As I said we did with close friends. And we're still friends.

 

[HoldYouDown]

we had the lights out, but there was enough light to see in the dark, shadows, etc.

it was agreed upon and done after a lot of alcohol, but we all were cool about it the next day. (and i banged the other chick the next night anyway.)

Was everyone cool with that last part, or just you two?

 

[notcynicalyet]

As I said we did with close friends. And we're still friends.

Thanks, Dreamer. I can see the merits of doing this with friends we know and trust, but I don't think we have any close mutual friends at this point that we can invite.

Does anyone have experience with another couple you weren't close friends with? Did it work out?

 

[BiTodd]

i am curious where this thread goes, as my hot girlfriend and i fantasize often of being watched and watching.

 

[bob53]

Find a well run Swing club in your area.
Been to a few with different GF's over the years and there is nothing requiring you to swap with others.
It all depends on your relationship whether you go the next step and swap.
Been down that road in both manners and it was a LOT of fun.

 

[FloridaBob]

I just wish I had a FWB! Everything else would be gravy !

 

[CandiCame]

Make it SUPER clear what the rules are before you start. I've done this before and I need shit explained to me or I start thinking I'm invited to things that my actual partner might not be ok with. Like if you're not supposed to participate with each other at all, make that shit very, very clear from the start, because one it actually gets moving you need to make sure everyone knows what is and is not acceptable.

That's really my only advice and I think someone already said it so I'm just really agreeing with them.

Have fun!

 

[literal]

My female FBW and I are thinking about having our first same room experience with another couple. We're not interested in swapping (at least for now) but really turned on by the possibility of watching and being watched. Any guidance, advice, or experiences (good and bad) anyone can share would be greatly appreciated. I'll share our experience if/when it happens. Thanks, all!

This thread would be great with visuals. There must be videos out there with this scenario

 

[magicalmoments]

My ex and I started our swinging careers with same room action with other couples. Rules are necessary and can't be renegotiated on the night. The other couple need to know your rules and you need to know theirs. Especially in respect to cameras. It's best to stay sober. We found it easier to meet strangers rather than risk perfectly good friendships. If you decide to meet strangers then either join a swingers club or register on a good "swingers" web site. Don't lie about ages and body type/size. Be patient, make sure you both agree on the couple you meet, don't meet them if one of you is unsure.
That's about it, have fun.

 

[ReadyOne]

Thanks, Dreamer. I can see the merits of doing this with friends we know and trust, but I don't think we have any close mutual friends at this point that we can invite.

Does anyone have experience with another couple you weren't close friends with? Did it work out?

There's a saying in the swinger community,

"You can always make friends of a play couple, but making friends into a play couple never works."​

We did same room while visiting old college friends in another city. They were her friends; a married couple who invited us and another couple over to show off their home theater room. Three sofas (love seats?) were in front of the TV, angled for both conversation and viewing.

When the video (Big Chill, IIRC) reached the credits, we started making out and petting hands inside clothes. We all kept track of each other but were not obvious about it. SO ramped it up by telling me bare her chest and loosen her jeans. Other couples followed suite and we all were at third base.

One girl being fingered orgasmed loud enough to attract attention so all eyes turned to them. Their clothes came off and they started 69ing, so we undressed too.

When the guy came they took a break for him to recharge, and started looking at us. We took our turn at 69, then stopped and looked at the last couple who took their turn. before passing the lead back to the first couple.

He sat her on the edge of the seat, and made a production of spreading her legs and showing off her pussy. Then he put his face between them went to town. When he judged her ready, he pulled her up and turned her around to stand with her hands braced on the back of the sofa and they started fucking. Started verbalizing and soon announced she was cumming. He continued pumping for a bit and then started his own talk about filling her pussy, etc. When he came, she came again.

We moved to the carpet in front of the TV and ran though several positions while she lay on her back or side, ending up knees to ears where I pounded against her g-spot. I told her I was ready and she fingered herself to time her orgasm to match mine.

The third couple did doggy up on the sofa, hands moving between boobs and pussy. After he stretched up over her back and started working a spot on her neck, she went rigid and soon collapsed.

After a couple of minutes my SO reached for her clothes and that started everyone else getting dressed. Then it was into the kitchen for drinks and food.

 

[HoldYouDown]

There's a saying in the swinger community,

"You can always make friends of a play couple, but making friends into a play couple never works."​

We did same room while visiting old college friends in another city. They were her friends; a married couple who invited us and another couple over to show off their home theater room. Three sofas (love seats?) were in front of the TV, angled for both conversation and viewing.

When the video (Big Chill, IIRC) reached the credits, we started making out and petting hands inside clothes. We all kept track of each other but were not obvious about it. SO ramped it up by telling me bare her chest and loosen her jeans. Other couples followed suite and we all were at third base.

One girl being fingered orgasmed loud enough to attract attention so all eyes turned to them. Their clothes came off and they started 69ing, so we undressed too.

When the guy came they took a break for him to recharge, and started looking at us. We took our turn at 69, then stopped and looked at the last couple who took their turn. before passing the lead back to the first couple.

He sat her on the edge of the seat, and made a production of spreading her legs and showing off her pussy. Then he put his face between them went to town. When he judged her ready, he pulled her up and turned her around to stand with her hands braced on the back of the sofa and they started fucking. Started verbalizing and soon announced she was cumming. He continued pumping for a bit and then started his own talk about filling her pussy, etc. When he came, she came again.

We moved to the carpet in front of the TV and ran though several positions while she lay on her back or side, ending up knees to ears where I pounded against her g-spot. I told her I was ready and she fingered herself to time her orgasm to match mine.

The third couple did doggy up on the sofa, hands moving between boobs and pussy. After he stretched up over her back and started working a spot on her neck, she went rigid and soon collapsed.

After a couple of minutes my SO reached for her clothes and that started everyone else getting dressed. Then it was into the kitchen for drinks and food.

Now this is a great, detailed blow-by-blow story. Love it, thank you.

 

[joan_the_bone]

Did this many times in college

 

[Devilynme]

My girlfriend and I did it at a party but it wasn't planned. I was with a guy and we were looking for a room to have some privacy. We opened the door to a bedroom and peeked in thinking no one was there because there was an empty bed. We entered and then realized that there was another bed in an alcove and a couple was having sex on it doggy style. I found myself staring into the eyes of my best friend. I was going to leave but she told me not to and asked her partner if he would mind if we used the other bed. My partner didn't mind either so we did. I thought maybe it would be awkward and take away from the experience, but instead I discovered doing it with another couple in the room made the sex even better. It also led to the two of us sharing a guy a few weeks later.

 

[luckyseven]

Agree on some clear ground rules for all concerned. Give everyone the option of calling a halt to things if it starts to feel weird. Select your partners carefully and give it a go. As long as there's no swapping it can't go too far wrong.

Great advice. It is very natural and surprisingly everyone soon gets used to others in the room. If you are all very comfortable together and wish to swing just remember to make clear grounds rules so no one is left out or feels uncomfortable.

 

[Grey Shadow]

This is a very hot thread. People act like same room sex is just swinging with training wheels, but honestly it’s probably my number one unfulfilled fantasy. If you are on the voyeurism/exhibitionism kink range it’s an end in itself. I think half the couples I have ever met I’ve wondered what it would be like to share an evening with like this.

 

[LupusDei]

The great outdoors not counting...

I guess this escapade involving my sister counts as some room experience (warning: it is written for a tread named Your Best Vomit Story).

Then, I have had some with my friend & co, framed more as orgies, but staying /splitting into separate pairs/small groups rather early without further cross-interaction. We are mostly naturally shy folks, so not participating in ongoing action of others is the untold default.

 

[littlecordelera]

My female FBW and I are thinking about having our first same room experience with another couple. We're not interested in swapping (at least for now) but really turned on by the possibility of watching and being watched. Any guidance, advice, or experiences (good and bad) anyone can share would be greatly appreciated. I'll share our experience if/when it happens. Thanks, all!

Join a swing site. There are plenty of people on there who will be interested, but it won't be as easy as you might think to find a compatible couple. Read lots of profiles to get an idea of how things work. Give it some time, be nice, and be patient. It will work out.

 

[screwher]

My wife

There's no way Mrs.Screwher would go for a same room experience with another woman present. She couldn't handle me and another woman naked in an intimate setting. The closest to that I could see is the wife and I watching as her husband and my wife fuck!