Safe less-bruising pain?

[Trylyan]

Me and my boyfriend *Im an 18 1/2 year old male but heavily bi* are really into pain dominance, me being the one recieving the pain.

We are just looking for ways to deal out pain with out scars or bad bruises.

My current favorite form of pain are cigarettes but they leave terrible bruises and I was looking for a way to have pain similer to that but without the bad bruising.

Another one of my favorites is when my boy hits me, and I mean hits me hard in the face or ribs or such.

Any and all help would be appriciated.

Thanks in advance.

 

[Trylyan]

Anyone?

 

[MissTaken]

I just bought a very heavy flogger.
It carries a lot of pressure with each strike, but no marks.

If you use the tips, it can sting a bit.

Also, breast torture is a way to experience that endorphin rush without a lot of bruising if you are very careful.

Welcome to the forum!

 

[catalina_francisco]

I think it depends on knowing your subject and their body which can only be achieved in part through experimenting. For instance, I have in the beginning bruised deeply, but for the last year or so it is near impossible to get a mark which lasts more than an hour or so no matter how hard and long the flogging, whipping, caning etc. For us it is a disappointment, but for some would be a blessing. So perhaps it is a trial and error situation for you right now. Good luck.

Catalina

 

[Trylyan]

Thanks for the welcome.


Well bruising for me is a bad thing, considering I still live with my parents while I goto college.

Me and my boyfriend like to play but me having bruises is a bad thing, but mabye If I toughen up my body I can get it good enough to were I don't bruise to easily.

Any tips for that, Since my fav form of pain is blunt blow from his or someones fist. Kinda like Fight Club, I really get off on hardcore sparring....

 

[catalina_francisco]

Try taking Magnesium supplements, along with Vitamin E. It was when I began them in preparation for a cutting that my bruising became non existant so is worth a go perhaps.

Catalina

 

[Quint]

Don't so much have any advice (other than try not to get hit in obvious areas, which sucks if you like getting smacked in the face), but wanted to say welcome and it's nice to see another violence junkie on the board. I totally get the fighting thrill; check out the thread in my signature for more on that.

Again, welcome and have fun!

 

[emme]

Trylyan,

I haven't figured out how to avoid bruises, maybe vitamin K, improves blood clotting and make sure you have good nutrition.

alternating heat and ice increase blood flow to the area causing the bruise to fade qulicker. Also use a concealer with a yellow tint under your makeup to cover the red and purples.

Works for hickeys.
emme

 

[Limbhugger]

Me and my boyfriend *Im an 18 1/2 year old male but heavily bi* are really into pain dominance, me being the one recieving the pain.

We are just looking for ways to deal out pain with out scars or bad bruises.

My current favorite form of pain are cigarettes but they leave terrible bruises and I was looking for a way to have pain similer to that but without the bad bruising.

Another one of my favorites is when my boy hits me, and I mean hits me hard in the face or ribs or such.

Any and all help would be appriciated.

Thanks in advance.

I don't quite understand how cigarettes leave bruises. Burns I can understand and nothing you take is going to stop a red hot ember from buring your skin.

I always cringe at the idea of hitting to the face and ribs. Dangerous stuff there.

 

[Vixandra]

Warning: Do not blame me if you screw up the following advice.
Now with our scheduled broadcast:
Some types of alcohol will burn rather quickly, leaving a hot streak without much of a mark. But test the alcohol you want to use by pouring on a plate (not paper or platic, real one) and lighting on fire there. See how long/hot it burns before going out. Be CAREFUL and don't light important areas afire.
Also- candlewax can be handy. I'm sure there are a bounty of threads on that here. Check the library- it's great.

 

[Netzach]

You're going to be giving up that rough, spontaneous Fight Club fuck me up thing for something more controlled if you are worried that much about marks.

That's just how it is.

But you can do controlled things in a rough and masculine fuck me up kind of way.

Any cop/prison/security/military leanings?

Candle wax alone might be too traditional SM "scene-y" But I'm thinking if you had a good pair of locking steel cuffs and a boot pinning your face to the floor, having candle wax dripped on your back might be a little different.

It's not just what you do but how you do it that can create the right mood.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

If you are interested in fire play, please do some reading up on it BEFORE you burn yourself and end up in an ER.



The Joy of the Flame

and don't forget your fire extinguisher

~anelize

 

[Kajira Callista]

Thanks for the welcome.


Well bruising for me is a bad thing, considering I still live with my parents while I goto college.

Me and my boyfriend like to play but me having bruises is a bad thing, but mabye If I toughen up my body I can get it good enough to were I don't bruise to easily.

Any tips for that, Since my fav form of pain is blunt blow from his or someones fist. Kinda like Fight Club, I really get off on hardcore sparring....

Arnica tablets or cream. Both work amazingly well, if you are into homeopathic remedies. You can get both in any health food store, if you are wanting to avoid bruising you should get the tablets and take them starting a few days before you intend to scene if you can ( know thats not always possible) they prevent the bruising all togehter if you can manage that. The cream is for after but doesnt always stop the bruising, just helps it fade faster. play safe.