Role Reversel

Ian1

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I was just on the "Cum Tasting Men" thread and posted most of this there, but then Cheyenne pointed out it was not going to get read very much because it was an old thread. So here is the new one.

Outsider asked how many men who liked to give anal, would allow a woman to return the favor with a strap-on. That got me to thinking. Sure I enjoy it, but then again I am bi. Most guys would never go for it. "Why is that", I asked myself. The answer was obvious, women have pussies, therefore they are ment to have things shoved inside them. Men have dicks, therefore they should be doing the shoveing.
It is natures way so it must be fair, right. Not really. Tab D fits inside Slot P but was not intended for Slot A, that is something extra. So if a man requests to go anal, he should be willing to let his lady do it to him too. That is fair, I think. Also it lets him know just how uncomfortable anal can be if done wrong and in a hurry. Thus sex is improved by first hand knowledge of what one is doing to another.

But it doesn't stop at anal sex. Blow jobs can be rough, if your partner gets too excited and forgets yu need to breate. Guys love to grab a ladies head and give her a little push down on his pecker, driving it further down her throat. NEWSFLASH, not all women are capable of deep throat and you can be doing both emotional and physical damage to your lover. If you choke a lady everytime your dick is in her mouth, she is not going to be so anxious to go down on you. So if a guy goes down on a woman with a strap-on he will get an idea of what the hell he is doing.

My point is this. If you swap roles you might just gain a little insight into how it is to be your lover and then you can improve your performance to better suit him/her. Give it a try, you might learn something.

[Edited by Ian on 09-13-2000 at 06:22 AM]
 
Just fyi, this was the original question that got posted to my old thread:

"While we are talking about fair play I wonder how many men who are into anal sex would let say their girl friend "do" them with a strapon.
Just out of interest."

It summarizes what Ian was saying above, I think.
 
To answer your question: The StudMuffin had one of those turn about it fair play fits a while back and discovered he loved having his prostate stimulated, but not with anything more than a finger. It was just not something he enjoyed at all. I, on the other hand do, so we've reached an amicable happy medium here in MuffinLand.

As for the blowjob thing, its a hands off the head deal. I still have tonsils so its a very tight fit back there. Any man who grabs my head and starts to fuck my mouth without allowing me to guide the action will discover exactly where "Killer" comes from. I won't bite it off, but he'll be writhing around on the floor in agony for a while. :D
 
I think the only thing holding me back from letting my girl use a strap on on me would be the whole "gays do it" thing. (Not that there's anything wrong with that!). I'm sure that provided the appendage wasn't a monster, and a little care was taken it could be OK. So I guess I could be convinced to give it a go if my girl wanted to. But I don't have any prison fantasies, so I can't see myself asking to have it done. And I think I've have to be pretty liquored up.

MADDOG
 
Two way street for a one way road....sorry

Love having my prostate stimulated .... with a finger or one of those VERY thin attachments for a vibrator (the ones that are about as big around as a pinkie finger).

As far as a real strap on.... the "Road Company of Deliverence" can ease on down the road because i'm takin' a pass thanks. And other than some involutary pelvic thrusting I don't "fuck" a womans face unless she asks me to. Even then I have never really been in to "rough" sex.

[Edited by Expertise on 09-13-2000 at 01:27 PM]
 
Try it you might just buy it.

I asked the original question because an ex girl friend once tackled me from behind one night with a small vibrater ( Monster strapons are out of the question with my poor old ass )and it was real nice, kind of filling and fun it also gave me new perspective on the womans side of the street.
 
I totally agree with Ian about this one: in my experience, most straight guys are of the mindset that having a penis means being the penetrator; no exceptions. I think that the idea of being penetrated, in any form, is often threatening to the traditional machismo taught to males, and raises the spectre of homosexuality, which can be scary for certain people, especially those raised under the old guard.

It seems that younger men are less homophobic and more willing to experiment. Also, it seems that stable, sharing relationships with good communication lead to more sexual experimentation--as people become more interested in honest exploration and testing the boundaries and less interested in preserving the image of themselves that they have created for public consumption. And it can be great (I am told) for the guy, though everyone's threshold is different.

On the other hand, some people don't like KISSING, for heaven's sakes. And just as there "should be" no judgement associated with what people DO with their bodies, it's not fair to judge what they DON'T do. It takes all kinds, and there is no one thing that works for everyone. Tragically.

Though I still think you should all give it a try, at least once. I'll even bring the banjo, if that's what does it for ya, Expertise!
 
No banjos and if i'm squeeling its NOT because I like it. Deborah's story scared the hell out of me.
 
Expertise:
But fear and arousal are so deeply linked--the most common reaction to a near-death experience is overwhelming horniness (at least according to one psych study I read). Maybe Deborah is just the woman to do it for you, you never know.

Then again, maybe I'd better ask her first.

Would bagpipes help? Lute? Sitar? Let me know...
 
Fear and arrousal are linked trust me I know. Pain and arrousal are linked in some people ....i'm not one of them.

I had this girlfriend in highschool who loved Zamphir during sex. So maybe a Pan Flute. LOL
 
Wow, Zamphir. Suddenly I am nostalgic for infomercials of days-gone-by. That is really wrong.

But, you know, he doesn't just play. He is the Master of the Pan Flute.
 
New from Time/Life Music! Zamphir's Greatest Hits

OMG! Now I'm gonna have to stay up until 3am to watch infomercials. If only the Popeil Pasta Maker was still around. I may be the only person in the world who knows that Nancy Taylor has made more infomercials than anyone else in the world. (She's the tiny blonde woman in ALL of them)

Thank you, Expertise. You have brought me so much joy!
 
I do what I can. But joy is more easily acheived than through infomercials. Bubblewrap. Someone brought that in to my memory yesterday and I raided our office mailroom for a bunch yesterday. My receptionist made me shut my door today. *pop pop pop pop*
 
Bubblewrap is probably the most wonderful tension reliever in the world. pop pop pop pop . . .

However, my mind made the immediate leap to Saran Wrap, and that awful book that was so popular some years ago . . . The Total Woman? -- whatever -- in which one was supposed to greet one's husband at the door, wearing Saran Wrap and a smile.

I wonder if it would work with Bubblewrap, or would the intended recipient of this sensual pleasure spend the time popping all the bubbles . . .
 
I am starting to wonder about the "other side"

I have read quite a few comments about how men would be feeling about being penetrated one way or other - I was wondering now .. how are the women feeling about it?

Is there an equivalent of the feeling about penetrating and being penetrated? Would women like the strap-on to be sunk in their lovers rear? Or is it an odd picture for the ladies - is the image of having "a cock of your own" and be the penetrating partie a picture you are comfortable with or rather something you would not want to experiement with?

I am just asking because when I read the above posts I have to admit that it never was a turn-on thought for me to administer anal penetration to a male with a strap-on. Picturing myself with a strap-on bobbing in front of my privates makes me giggle at best (well - unless maybe I am in a real mean Domme punishment mood)... the thought about playing with a little vibrator or dildo is much more realistic/pleasant. If I was asked for it - sure no problem would I please my partner in any way possible (*chuckles* yes - even as a Domme it is about pleasing and loving after all *winks*) but still - it is nothing I would require for my own satisfaction.

Did any of my rambling make sense? If not I'll blame it on my caffeine lack - still only working through my first cup today ...
 
love to give anal ... role reversal? only received fingers so far ... as for a strap on .... you offering, Cheyenne??
 
Golden said:
love to give anal ... role reversal? only received fingers so far ... as for a strap on .... you offering, Cheyenne??


Oh oh, I wasn't the one asking the original question, I just interpreted because there didn't seem to be a question stated in the opening comment of the thread.

Volunteer for a strap on? Nope, a strap on wouldn't be anything I'd be interested in, either from a giver or receiver point of view. But I'm sure we could come up with some other activity instead that is just as much fun. ;)
 
Alright already.

Now I'll have to reveal my first bi experience (wanted to experience sex from a woman's point of view, with certain limitations) and include a snippet from a dom I've been corresponding with (goes back to Cheyenne's men eating cum thread). 1st experience could have been the last (turned out to be 3) & I wanted to try everything. He was kind & gentle, took the time to loosen me, and his cock was the same size as mine. After relaxing enough to allow him to penetrate, it was over. I wanted to feel the rubber fill up and just as I was enjoying it, he came without warning. Ladies, I'm guilty of premature ejaculation and now know how it feels to be on the other end.

The dom wrote the following, if our travel schedules ever coincide I might take her up on it: I would
love to step into that shower with you and wash your
entire body from head to toe, focusing on those out of
reach places. Then I would have you do the same to me.
I would French kiss you deeply and passionately while
pinching your nipples and caressing your balls. I
would then lick and suck on your nipples while slowly
stroking your hard cock. With the warm water still
running, I will get on my knees in front of you and
suck on your sweet cock until you explode into my
mouth. Standing up, I would kiss you deep and share
your cum with you. I would then step behind you and
have you bend over, sticking your butt straight up in
the air. Spreading your butt cheeks with my hands, I
would tongue fuck your manhole until you begged me to
stop. Finally, I would strap-on my realistic cock
shaped dildo, apply a generous amount of wet lube on
and inside your asshole, and butt fuck you slow and
deep. Holding you by your hips and pressing my large
tits against your back. How does that sound to you? Let me know if I'm the woman you're looking for.
I hope to hear from you soon.

It can feel good if done with tenderness. The prostate massage is out of this world.
Gnome



[Edited by Gnome on 09-17-2000 at 03:23 PM]
 
Umm... did you mean to leave the name at the end of the paragraph from the Dom??? If it is who we would think it is or if it isn't, you may want to delete it?
 
Oversight

The dom's name is deleted. Sorry, didn't mean to, it was part of the cut and paste. She is not a member of this group, so my apologies to all Nicole's out there.

[Edited by Gnome on 09-17-2000 at 03:35 PM]
 
Re: I am starting to wonder about the

Hecate said:
how are the women feeling about it?


I have to admit that it never was a turn-on thought for me to administer anal penetration to a male with a strap-on. Picturing myself with a strap-on bobbing in front of my privates makes me giggle at best


I agree, I don't think I could get past the laughing hysterically part and I'm pretty sure I would lose my balance. However, I also agree that a vibrator or beads are within the realm of possibility. The look on his face when he feels the cold KY...

Anyway, I believe turnabout is fair play, as long as both enjoy it. Anything else simply isn't fun.
 
Hello I think it would be neat as hell to be a guy for a couple days as long as I could change back. I would be very enthralled with having my own penis and would doubtless chase after one little number in particular with my stiffy wildly bobbing in the breeze. It would be more of a curiosty satisfied then any real sexual desire to "penatrate". I think sensuality is inherent in some people and others have to learn it. Whatever it takes I hope folks just all get there and enjoy themselves.
 
The ideas you people give me! I'm writing a story entitled "A Boy Named Samantha." You know, like "A Boy Named Sue" by Johnny Cash.

Actually, I know an ex-transsexual quite well. He dressed as a woman for a couple years, had hormone treatments and almost had the Sexual Reassignment Surgery. Then one day ... Now he is back to being a he and is even married with a child. His father is a preacher and of course the story is that God performed a miracle and fixed the problem.

Hey, here's a question for any of you dudes who would care to answer. Have you ever been "fooled" by a he/she? I mean really fooled. I think of the scene in "Crocodile Dundee" where he grabs the big "girl's" crotch in the bar. But the one that got me was a "girl" on one of those taxicab confession bits on HBO. OMG, I had no clue she was a he.
 
come on now be truthful.

A better question is if a gorgeous girl you picked up in a bar turned out to have a cock and you could fuck her/him without anybody ever finding out would you...?
 
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