Role Reversals

Hiliburn

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So have any of you fine people in some long term relationships seen a reversal of roles between you and your partner? I have noticed that I am much more like a man in my views on sex now, and hubby has created 'rules' for each basic sex excounter. I was an extreme prude, really only there to adminster him cumming- then get off me, lol. Now I crave it, I am completely selfish. I am angry that I have to cum first as a woman and then 'work' to get him off after I am satisfied- if I want to be nice anyway *wink*. He has limits to what he is willing to do, or what I can do to him (no touching the nipples, biting, licking- turn offs for him!- things that I adore- and he'll gladly do to me, but I can't do to him. and he almost always needs a bj to get REALLY good and interested- which is fine, but sometimes you wanna get down and dirty a bit faster! lol) I find it a bit funny that I have become the sexually agressive male and he the prudish female. Of course it could all be a phase, but now that we know better what we like, maybe it just is that? What do you think? :)
 
There's really no reason you have to cum first unless we're talking about using his dick. Of course, if you want to get fucked faster and he's already hard, just offer to blow him afterward. I don't remember any guys that wouldn't like to see their girlfriend/wife taste some pussy. ;)
 
Usually I find men will make me cum a few times first, then cum themselves, and give me one more for luck with their hands/mouth after they've cum.

Seems only polite ;)
 
I make my woman cum first about 99% of the time, but I also don't want my semen to get on her and then on me when I start to pleasure her. It's a practical thing, really. I told her recently that when she starts birth control, I'll be more comfortable going first.
 
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