So have any of you fine people in some long term relationships seen a reversal of roles between you and your partner? I have noticed that I am much more like a man in my views on sex now, and hubby has created 'rules' for each basic sex excounter. I was an extreme prude, really only there to adminster him cumming- then get off me, lol. Now I crave it, I am completely selfish. I am angry that I have to cum first as a woman and then 'work' to get him off after I am satisfied- if I want to be nice anyway *wink*. He has limits to what he is willing to do, or what I can do to him (no touching the nipples, biting, licking- turn offs for him!- things that I adore- and he'll gladly do to me, but I can't do to him. and he almost always needs a bj to get REALLY good and interested- which is fine, but sometimes you wanna get down and dirty a bit faster! lol) I find it a bit funny that I have become the sexually agressive male and he the prudish female. Of course it could all be a phase, but now that we know better what we like, maybe it just is that? What do you think? 