RJ's Building Blocks

[@}-}rebecca----]

sheeeeeeesh some people...............

http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c224/rebecca000/Zilla.jpg

Good thing I woke in time to save this dilemma RJ my friend. Now Zilla as I like to call this pyl may also be a bit 'annoyingly expensive' but hey.....the young uns will love him, the neighbours cats aren't in the yard any longer , I hate to say it but it kind of has that raging 'submissive' not the happy camper look , you could practise your Kinbaku skills in the street while the neighbours BBQ RJ.......not to mention it has that nipple thang going on already ........ROCK ON I say........problem solved ​

 

[Netzach]

http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c224/rebecca000/Zilla.jpg

Good thing I woke in time to save this dilemma RJ my friend. Now Zilla as I like to call this pyl may also be a bit 'annoyingly expensive' but hey.....the young uns will love him, the neighbours cats aren't in the yard any longer , I hate to say it but it kind of has that raging 'submissive' not the happy camper look , you could practise your Kinbaku skills in the street while the neighbours BBQ RJ.......not to mention it has that nipple thang going on already ........ROCK ON I say........problem solved ​

LMAO

I want one of these. Can I dress my stud up in this?

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

LMAO

I want one of these. Can I dress my stud up in this?

laughsmiles........yes......in fact I think thats wise

 

[shy slave]

And begging would take the form of you writing on your inner thigh..."Hand here" and then tracing a hand print around it. Then giving him a picture of the gloves? To seal the deal "pretty" on one cheek and "please" on the other. How could he say no? grinz

Hope you get your wish and if you do, please share how you both liked them.

Oh that sounds like a plan.
You ask 'how could he say no?' He is a sadist which means he enjoys saying 'no' LOL)

Although the inner thigh is soft skin so that would hurt

I have had the glove on my arm and upper back it was wonderful.
Remember dolf, I watched her drop into sub space at a munch when someone used the glove on her upper back and base of neck.

Other things we use for abrasion play is a cat hair brush, fantastic when drawn full length down a back either before or after a flogging. The mental spines of the brush are bent, designed to drag through cat fur so different pressures give very different sensations depending on the bend of the spines.

The other toy is the wheel Caela mentioned. That is a very strange sensation when rolled on the skin, and again the ends are bent so it can be dragged.

But, I will be practising my begging skills for a glove.
My birthday is in August so perhaps if I try your idea he may get the hint for a birthday present.

Plus I get the bonus of getting to my mother to ask him what he bought me and watch him struggle to explain

 

[shy slave]

http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c224/rebecca000/Zilla.jpg

Good thing I woke in time to save this dilemma RJ my friend. Now Zilla as I like to call this pyl may also be a bit 'annoyingly expensive' but hey.....the young uns will love him, the neighbours cats aren't in the yard any longer , I hate to say it but it kind of has that raging 'submissive' not the happy camper look , you could practise your Kinbaku skills in the street while the neighbours BBQ RJ.......not to mention it has that nipple thang going on already ........ROCK ON I say........problem solved ​

What a fantastic idea

But somehow those clamps on his nipples make me wonder what ideas it will give Shank as well as RJ lol

 

[RJMasters]

Oh that sounds like a plan.
You ask 'how could he say no?' He is a sadist which means he enjoys saying 'no' LOL)

Although the inner thigh is soft skin so that would hurt

I have had the glove on my arm and upper back it was wonderful.
Remember dolf, I watched her drop into sub space at a munch when someone used the glove on her upper back and base of neck.

Other things we use for abrasion play is a cat hair brush, fantastic when drawn full length down a back either before or after a flogging. The mental spines of the brush are bent, designed to drag through cat fur so different pressures give very different sensations depending on the bend of the spines.

The other toy is the wheel Caela mentioned. That is a very strange sensation when rolled on the skin, and again the ends are bent so it can be dragged.

But, I will be practising my begging skills for a glove.
My birthday is in August so perhaps if I try your idea he may get the hint for a birthday present.

Plus I get the bonus of getting to my mother to ask him what he bought me and watch him struggle to explain

Yes I am looking up that wheel, I saw a picture once of it. Reminded me of a spur.

Well I hope you get your present.

 

[RJMasters]

http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c224/rebecca000/Zilla.jpg

Good thing I woke in time to save this dilemma RJ my friend. Now Zilla as I like to call this pyl may also be a bit 'annoyingly expensive' but hey.....the young uns will love him, the neighbours cats aren't in the yard any longer , I hate to say it but it kind of has that raging 'submissive' not the happy camper look , you could practise your Kinbaku skills in the street while the neighbours BBQ RJ.......not to mention it has that nipple thang going on already ........ROCK ON I say........problem solved ​

LMAO...

As I think of the nipple thing happening there and then look at the face it seems to change the dynamic from

GGGGGGRRRAghhhhhh!!!(scary)

to

AAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhhhh(mommy)

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

What a fantastic idea

But somehow those clamps on his nipples make me wonder what ideas it will give Shank as well as RJ lol

~ shudders .......with delight.....I can feel a squick coming on Miss Shy~

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

LMAO...

As I think of the nipple thing happening there and then look at the face it seems to change the dynamic from

GGGGGGRRRAghhhhhh!!!(scary)

to

AAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhhhh(mommy)

eeeeeeeeeeeyep smiles

 

[Shankara20]

What a fantastic idea

But somehow those clamps on his nipples make me wonder what ideas it will give Shank as well as RJ lol

all I can do is look at my nipples and chant "heal" "heal" "heal" "heal"

 

[RJMasters]

Those look like great fun! I wonder if they would well in combination with a wartenberg wheel. Hmmmmmmm ~bounces off to think happy thoughts~

http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y266/eqoaseveredamage/wartenbergwheel.jpg

That's like asking if peanut butter and chocalte go good together

ty

 

[catalina_francisco]

Oh that sounds like a plan.
You ask 'how could he say no?' He is a sadist which means he enjoys saying 'no' LOL)

Although the inner thigh is soft skin so that would hurt

I have had the glove on my arm and upper back it was wonderful.
Remember dolf, I watched her drop into sub space at a munch when someone used the glove on her upper back and base of neck.

Other things we use for abrasion play is a cat hair brush, fantastic when drawn full length down a back either before or after a flogging. The mental spines of the brush are bent, designed to drag through cat fur so different pressures give very different sensations depending on the bend of the spines.

The other toy is the wheel Caela mentioned. That is a very strange sensation when rolled on the skin, and again the ends are bent so it can be dragged.

But, I will be practising my begging skills for a glove.
My birthday is in August so perhaps if I try your idea he may get the hint for a birthday present.

Plus I get the bonus of getting to my mother to ask him what he bought me and watch him struggle to explain

LOL, perhaps you would like this instead or as well....

Catalina

 

[RJMasters]

LOL, perhaps you would like this instead or as well....

Catalina

OMG!

That's gonna take me a while to get my head wrapped around that.

*wanders away from the computer a wee bit light headed.

 

[BeachGurl2]

http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y266/eqoaseveredamage/wartenbergwheel.jpg

That's like asking if peanut butter and chocalte go good together

ty

Now this is a very enjoyable toy - especially if you combine it with a bit of electrical current.

 

[BeachGurl2]

LOL, perhaps you would like this instead or as well....

Catalina

Hmmmmm. Where can I find one of these?

 

[caela]

Now this is a very enjoyable toy - especially if you combine it with a bit of electrical current.

Hehehe...We did that at the graduation party my best friend A (also a pyl) had. Our friend X brought over his toybag while our other friend B brought over his violet want which has an attachment for the person being shocked to hold so that anything that touches them causes a bit of a shock. Myself A, M, and F all lined up to thold the darn thing while the guys ran the wheel over our arms and backs.

We were in heaven!!

 

[RJMasters]

Ah the books have arrived.

I am off to bed.

 

[caela]

http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y266/eqoaseveredamage/wartenbergwheel.jpg

That's like asking if peanut butter and chocalte go good together

ty

Mmm, those wheels are FUN. They're my current obsession and the friend I play with thinks it's the most amusing thing to use one on me after he's thoroughly tenderized my skin lol. The last time we played he actually ended up having to sit on my ass and put a hand on my head to keep me from coming up off the bed while he rolled it in random patters over my back.

 

[incubus'_sub]

Hi RJ. Sorry, I didn't realise that you didn't want to include your marriage in the discussion, but to be honest, that relationship is going to be very important to your changes. I'm not really a PM person, so I'll try to speak in generalities here. I hope that's OK with you. If not, just tell me to shut up.

BDSM people in relationships with vanilla partners ALWAYS wish that their partner would show some interest, & they ALWAYS try various ways to work towards that end. The vanilla partners, however, & particularly long term partners, ALWAYS wish that the kinky one would grow up, grow out of it, forget about it etc etc. We can't help being the way that we are, but they can't help NOT being.

In My Master's case, his 1st wife wanted nothing to do with it, ever, not even a little bit. When she realised, after 15 years (no kids) , that he was ready to leave to become himself, she suddenly became VERY interested, wanting to talk about it, go to munches & parties blah blah. But she didn't GET it & because of that her conversations & actions were somehow always wrong. It was not a genuine interest & to be honest it can't be faked or pretended, not in the short term & absolutely not in the long term. Online, this is probably not a real problem, but in real life you will find that it's a HUGE problem.

Whilst everyone here is having a great time showing you the ropes, so to speak, & the implements of torture, I'm thinking more & more that you have simply exchanged computer time for craft time. Whatever you make, sooner or later you are going to want to use it & you will be skilled enough to do so. Bluntly speaking, you are simply delaying the inevitable., so you really do have to think about it.

Imagine, if you will, being given as a small boy who dreamed of being a baseball player, a really good bat, ball & glove - then , although you can look at them, handle them & dream, you have no one & are not allowed to find anyone, to play with. And you've already been dreaming your dreams for all your adult life.

 

[Netzach]

Hi RJ. Sorry, I didn't realise that you didn't want to include your marriage in the discussion, but to be honest, that relationship is going to be very important to your changes. I'm not really a PM person, so I'll try to speak in generalities here. I hope that's OK with you. If not, just tell me to shut up.

BDSM people in relationships with vanilla partners ALWAYS wish that their partner would show some interest, & they ALWAYS try various ways to work towards that end. The vanilla partners, however, & particularly long term partners, ALWAYS wish that the kinky one would grow up, grow out of it, forget about it etc etc. We can't help being the way that we are, but they can't help NOT being.

In My Master's case, his 1st wife wanted nothing to do with it, ever, not even a little bit. When she realised, after 15 years (no kids) , that he was ready to leave to become himself, she suddenly became VERY interested, wanting to talk about it, go to munches & parties blah blah. But she didn't GET it & because of that her conversations & actions were somehow always wrong. It was not a genuine interest & to be honest it can't be faked or pretended, not in the short term & absolutely not in the long term. Online, this is probably not a real problem, but in real life you will find that it's a HUGE problem.

Whilst everyone here is having a great time showing you the ropes, so to speak, & the implements of torture, I'm thinking more & more that you have simply exchanged computer time for craft time. Whatever you make, sooner or later you are going to want to use it & you will be skilled enough to do so. Bluntly speaking, you are simply delaying the inevitable., so you really do have to think about it.

Imagine, if you will, being given as a small boy who dreamed of being a baseball player, a really good bat, ball & glove - then , although you can look at them, handle them & dream, you have no one & are not allowed to find anyone, to play with. And you've already been dreaming your dreams for all your adult life.

Everything you say is true.

Nobody could have told me though, I had to get to that point on my own time. Additionally I had to be able to truly and honestly say that ALL hope was exhausted or else I'd always be asking if things could have been different.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hmmmmm. Where can I find one of these?

Should be in hardware type stores...is a wallpaper stripper and I fell in love with it the first time I saw it, but it took awhile to convince him it was a good idea. Have to say it does give delicious sensations as it is rolled dawn the back and over butt and thighs.

Catalina

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Should be in hardware type stores...is a wallpaper stripper and I fell in love with it the first time I saw it, but it took awhile to convince him it was a good idea. Have to say it does give delicious sensations as it is rolled dawn the back and over butt and thighs.

Catalina

aww Catalina to the side of the surf across from me here is a Lawn Bowls Returned Servicemans League Club , we can watch them play. Also the extensive care taken to keep the lawns in perfect condition. First I saw of that tool I thought of those hand pushed lawn aerators and googled a picture .........only to come across the following.......these sometimes you just have to say no huh.........smiles.....shivers

 

[shy slave]

LOL, perhaps you would like this instead or as well....

Catalina

Oh my,

Anyone know of a crash course in 'How to beg to get what you want' course?

I am going to have to be very, very nice to him now.

 

[chun_gong]

Oh my,

Anyone know of a crash course in 'How to beg to get what you want' course?

I am going to have to be very, very nice to him now.

Please, do share if you find one! All of these tools/toys have me salivating... I just sit reading and staring intently.

j

 

[Kajira Callista]

Oh my,

Anyone know of a crash course in 'How to beg to get what you want' course?

I am going to have to be very, very nice to him now.

bat your lashes and look really cute.
if that fails.....cry