I used to feel self conscious too, but I found the cowgirl position really helped with that, the old 'can't see you/can't see me' theory lol! Then once I warmed up to it I could turn around and face him. Oh, and I have long hair too, so he loves having that draped over him.
My guy goes nuts when I crouch on him, just squating so that he is inside me, but no other part of our bodies are touching, then I can just lift myself up and press down using just my thighs. Apart from an awesome feeling because everything tightens...I'm working my thighs out too!
My guy goes nuts when I crouch on him, just squating so that he is inside me, but no other part of our bodies are touching, then I can just lift myself up and press down using just my thighs. Apart from an awesome feeling because everything tightens...I'm working my thighs out too!