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MsQuote said:
Just curious ... you guys that have put out requests for PMs in this thread, do you ever get any?
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I've gotten a few here and there with random topics.
Probably 60-80% of the requests I place here go unanswered.
I did get one reply to my most recent request, though.
It was amusing.
It's fun when people interpret things differently, although I rather expected it.
Still enjoyed a couple back and forths.

I've never had problems contributing to the conversation.
For me, it's usually the other person who disappears first.
I could be boring, or maybe they didn't have intentions of talking much.
 
MsQuote said:
Just curious ... you guys that have put out requests for PMs in this thread, do you ever get any?

(Sorry, no, I'm not a PMer.)

Basically, women are bombarded with PMs. Even when they're politely approached, the MO is usually the same -- they want the woman to do all the talking in order to get off. Most guys who PM really aren't interested in the person they're talking to, just their dirty thoughts. It's usually not a conversation; it's usually a guy saying, "Tell me more," or "Send me a pic," after every message they get. They usually don't contribute to a two-way conversation. The feeling I've gotten in the past are that male PMers are looking for a one-way porn experience they don't have to pay for. It's disrespectful of women in a cheapskate sorta way. The typical sexy woman online is not a free porn bot.

The best way to start a PM correspondence is to get into a conversation with a woman in a public discussion. If the conversation is that good or is getting too personal or off-topic, that's when you request a chance to PM.

Don't be offended if she says, "no." You aren't the first guy to ask.

It's not that women don't like talking dirty; they just don't want to do all the talking or talking dirty with random strangers.

Good luck. :)
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I definitely try to strike up a conversation; it's more fun if it's two way.
 
MsQuote said:
Just curious ... you guys that have put out requests for PMs in this thread, do you ever get any?

(Sorry, no, I'm not a PMer.)

Basically, women are bombarded with PMs. Even when they're politely approached, the MO is usually the same -- they want the woman to do all the talking in order to get off. Most guys who PM really aren't interested in the person they're talking to, just their dirty thoughts. It's usually not a conversation; it's usually a guy saying, "Tell me more," or "Send me a pic," after every message they get. They usually don't contribute to a two-way conversation. The feeling I've gotten in the past are that male PMers are looking for a one-way porn experience they don't have to pay for. It's disrespectful of women in a cheapskate sorta way. The typical sexy woman online is not a free porn bot.

The best way to start a PM correspondence is to get into a conversation with a woman in a public discussion. If the conversation is that good or is getting too personal or off-topic, that's when you request a chance to PM.

Don't be offended if she says, "no." You aren't the first guy to ask.

It's not that women don't like talking dirty; they just don't want to do all the talking or talking dirty with random strangers.

Good luck. :)
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Sorry you have had that experience. I've been able to strike up plenty of conversations and then private messages that led to good online friendships. Not all guys are looking for pictures or to blow their loads. After all there are plenty of sites like pornhub.com for that.
 
rick_j21 said:
Sorry you have had that experience. I've been able to strike up plenty of conversations and then private messages that led to good online friendships. Not all guys are looking for pictures or to blow their loads. After all there are plenty of sites like pornhub.com for that.
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Don't be sorry. You did nothing wrong. :)

To a lot of guys of these guys, places like Literotica are feeding grounds for guys like that because the men don't outnumber the women. A client of a client who runs an adult dating website told me that men outnumbered women three to one on his site. I believe there are about 100 men for every one woman on the Craigslist dating sites.

I know that not all men looking to PM are just looking for nude pics or to blow their loads ... maybe about 10%. The difference between the HNGs (horny Net geeks) and guys like you is that you're about conversations.
 
I would love to get a PM about someone's favorite meal, having just had an amazing meal out, I would love to hear about other amazing meals.
 
I would love a PM from someone who just wants to talk on Skype. Someone close to my age (24) who doesn't have any ulterior motives.
 
any ladies looking for a less desperate approach?

highly doubt ill get many mesaages, as its been talked about the women are completely bomarded they hardly need to go looking for pms..however ive had a dreadful few weeks and if you would be so kind to drop me a message it would be welcomed, rest assured im in no hurry to get sexual and im certainly not one for demands.. a witty reparte would be most exciting .The few tines ive managed to connect on here ive found the ladies very warm and intelligent so im looking to makea few more contacts.

all this being said.. rest assured i can turn you on!

have a great day everyone, hope some guys get some pms and some ladies look past the mindless bombarders

drop me a line

N x
 
I actually don't know what I want to hear... so send me anything. :)

But keep it classy, guys.
 
Been a long crazy week…could use a few PMs to help me relax on this Friday evening
 
pm me if any girls would like to share fantasy and true stories. I have only been with two girls. One older and one younger. I am 20
 
PM me if there's something in your life that makes you happy and makes the other annoying, bad, or meaningless crap you deal with worth it.
What keeps you going as though it keeps you alive?
 
i have actually had a response, so here goes again


I would love a PM from the ladies telling me how many pairs of heels they have in their closet.

extra points for describing the sexy ones.



-Mike
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It would be nice to see a pm when next I sign on.
(Or anytime I sign on actually.)

Kat:rose:
 
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