Real life friends with benefits examples?

I've been lucky enough to have 2 different fwb's. 1st was when I was in my 20's. Only issue was she was my friend's wife. Red head, we had a lot of fun for sure. 2nd was when I was in my 40's. I met a younger redhead that wanted to have car sex once or twice a week. She then had an idea. She wanted to seduce my wife. Who am I to complain right? This went on for almost 2 years. Wife never knew about her and my car sex
 
I've been lucky enough to have 2 different fwb's. 1st was when I was in my 20's. Only issue was she was my friend's wife. Red head, we had a lot of fun for sure. 2nd was when I was in my 40's. I met a younger redhead that wanted to have car sex once or twice a week. She then had an idea. She wanted to seduce my wife. Who am I to complain right? This went on for almost 2 years. Wife never knew about her and my car sex
Umm you had an affair with your friends wife and some girl used you to get to your wife.
 
What is the difference between an Affair and a FWB situation?

I would say that an affair has adultery involved and a FWB may not
 
What is the difference between an Affair and a FWB situation?

I would say that an affair has adultery involved and a FWB may not

A FWB might be an affair, it might not.

Adultery might be with a FWB, it might not.

If it's adultery, then yeah, it's an affair.

If it's not adultery, it's not.

FWB just means the two people understand they're not "together" or going to be a couple, they're just friends who have sex with each other.

An affair could be with an extramarital romantic lover, an extramarital friend with the sex benefits, an extramarital fuckbuddy who'sotherwise not even really a friend, an extramarital co-worker, all sorts of things besides a FWB.

A FWB might be extramarital without the spouse's permission, it might be extramarital with the spouse's permission, it might not be extramarital at all.

Or it might be an affair.

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What is the difference between an Affair and a FWB situation?

FWB are usually two single people who don't want a relationship, but just want to get together occasionally for a hookup.
An affair usually involves when one or both people are already in a relationship and are cheating on the person they're supposed to be committed to.



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A FWB might be an affair, it might not.

Adultery might be with a FWB, it might not.

If it's adultery, then yeah, it's an affair.

If it's not adultery, it's not.

FWB just means the two people understand they're not "together" or going to be a couple, they're just friends who have sex with each other.

An affair could be with an extramarital romantic lover, an extramarital friend with the sex benefits, an extramarital fuckbuddy who'sotherwise not even really a friend, an extramarital co-worker, all sorts of things besides a FWB.

A FWB might be extramarital without the spouse's permission, it might be extramarital with the spouse's permission, it might not be extramarital at all.

Or it might be an affair.

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Exactly what I said, just with more words
 
Met my short term FWB when I was in my 40’s and single. I mentioned her in the Three Holes on First Date thread. It was all we were interested in . . . anal sex.
She would sometimes phone to tell me her period had started and could I please fuck her ass.
My thoughts were that she did not have anyone else that was into anal except me. Couldn’t have been more wrong LOL!
It lasted one summer until she met a friend in her hometown and moved away. She later married him.
It was a year or so afterwards that it dawned on me that I had never cum in her pussy; only in her ass or all over her face.
 
I had two fairly long term FWB relationships back in my misspent and somewhat feral youth. I hope they're well and have lived good lives.
 
mine was really good.
we both had jobs that took us out oof town. we didn't work together.
it was nice, get together when our times at home matched up together.
so a relaxed and peaceful time.
it was between the time I gave up finding true love and having adventures into multiple guy things.
 
Never had FWB🙁. Had more than a few who put me into the FZ. Mind you neither one of these terms were coined when all this was going on!🤣

I sure do fantasize about FWB nowadays…
 
I had a FWB in college. She was pretty, intellegent, a demon in the sheets, but when she opened her mouth, if words came out it took about ten minutes for her to annoy the shit out of me. And vice-versa. We clicked sexually, but would have been a disaster as a couple.

But, if neither of us were seeing someone, and occassionally when we were, a lot of Friday nights and a few weekends were spent not talking.
 
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I had a couple of FWBs back in the 1980s. One was the girl who took my virginity and another was the daughter of some insanely wealthy dude from Memphis. The first one and I continued our relationship until 1988 or so (so for about 5 years all told). I even ended up dating her kid sister and still fucking her (neither cared that I was sleeping with both).

The second one was the college roommate of an incredibly uptight and straight-laced girl I went to high school with. The two of them couldn't have been more opposite of each other. She'd basically been pimped out by her dad to get new clients for his business since she was fifteen. We had a pretty good thing going for a year or two, then she moved away.
 
I’ve had several over the years. One was a gym friend that carried on for probably 7 ish years. ended when she moved to the east coast. Saw her a couple years ago when I was in town for business. Like riding a bike. Still check in with each other a couple times a year.
 
One for about 3 months we shared music interest and love each others views when it came to expressing thing in different art mediums. She ended up getting a boyfriend who was into cars just as much as she was. Another for 6 months this one was almost purely physical but we dind hang out casually. She wasn't in a good place so she took time for herself and I'm assuming also ghosted me during her time off
 
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