Real Life Cyber Seduction

[mike_always_horny]

So, I have this particular "fetish", and I was wondering if others had experiences, advice, stories, etc. to share.

I absolutely love striking up a conversation with a girl I know in real life in on non-sexual context (Facebook, Gchat, etc) with the conversation evolving into flirtation and then cybersex. I had an experience like this in college with a girl I had known in high school. We started exchanging messages on Facebook that grew increasingly flirtatious, and before we knew it, we were describing how we would fuck each other. We exchanged texts the next morning describing how hard and how many times we had cum. Daily texts about how wet she was and how hard I was.

No offense to any girls on here, but it was the hottest cybersex I have ever had

So, I was wondering... Anyone else have experiences like these that they would like to share? Any advice on how best to cyber-seduce someone? Just talking about the concept in general gets me so hot.

 

[CoyoteTales]

*chuckles* Yes.

Biggest advice I can give - find other writers.

Anything less than someone who can match or better your writing ability is going to be disappointing. I've enjoyed writing scenes the most with fellow authors who can spin a tale with visuals, sounds, and emotions. There are two types of what I call 'interactive erotica':

1) Action pose, no prose. Less about the fantasy, more about the you-go-I-go game. Usually little things like <bites> <growls> <noses> along with longer sequence chains like <idly runs his fingers along the nape of your neck>. It's a substitute for the real thing as if you were there in person. Workable.

2) Prose and those. More roleplaying in aspect than direct action, lends itself to the fantasy writing erotica crowd, whether it's setting up a second person observer:
"It's late at night. The lights are dim when you walk in the door, and I've got the windowshades open to reveal the distant lights of the city through the balcony window. There's a full moon out, and there's just enough of it coming in that it tints the shadows at the end of the couch that sort of silver that promises magick."

This style tends to be slower, and it's not conducive to a quickie shared over long distances. I've run sessions that took on the order of hours.

The second type is where having a fellow writer to 'dance' with truly shines - there's nothing more irritating than writing out a giant sized block of detailed lustful intentions and getting in return 'luaghs quietly and moans for u' (sic and sic).

The other advice I have is to go with your strengths in the sense that you should act as if the other person is there with you, visualizing things you would do in your head and then write that to the other person as best as you can.

Text does not always translate the multisensory nuances of sex very well at all.

One final bit of advice: proofread what you write before you it Send/Return. In addition for typos or half-formed ideas, make sure you know where your virtual 'hands' are -- never write:
"While holding the toy up for your inspection with one hand, I cup your cheek with one hand, stroking down your hip with the other, holding there."

I know that they make jokes about some guys being overly handsy, but three hands is a fourth-wall breaker. Also, remember positions in your head, and whether you've removed any or all bits of clothing in the shared fiction.

Hope this helps,
-CT

 

[mike_always_horny]

Biggest advice I can give - find other writers.

Anything less than someone who can match or better your writing ability is going to be disappointing. I've enjoyed writing scenes the most with fellow authors who can spin a tale with visuals, sounds, and emotions. There are two types of what I call 'interactive erotica':

1) Action pose, no prose. Less about the fantasy, more about the you-go-I-go game. Usually little things like <bites> <growls> <noses> along with longer sequence chains like <idly runs his fingers along the nape of your neck>. It's a substitute for the real thing as if you were there in person. Workable.

2) Prose and those. More roleplaying in aspect than direct action, lends itself to the fantasy writing erotica crowd, whether it's setting up a second person observer:
"It's late at night. The lights are dim when you walk in the door, and I've got the windowshades open to reveal the distant lights of the city through the balcony window. There's a full moon out, and there's just enough of it coming in that it tints the shadows at the end of the couch that sort of silver that promises magick."

This style tends to be slower, and it's not conducive to a quickie shared over long distances. I've run sessions that took on the order of hours.

The second type is where having a fellow writer to 'dance' with truly shines - there's nothing more irritating than writing out a giant sized block of detailed lustful intentions and getting in return 'luaghs quietly and moans for u' (sic and sic).

The other advice I have is to go with your strengths in the sense that you should act as if the other person is there with you, visualizing things you would do in your head and then write that to the other person as best as you can.

Text does not always translate the multisensory nuances of sex very well at all.

One final bit of advice: proofread what you write before you it Send/Return. In addition for typos or half-formed ideas, make sure you know where your virtual 'hands' are -- never write:
"While holding the toy up for your inspection with one hand, I cup your cheek with one hand, stroking down your hip with the other, holding there."

I know that they make jokes about some guys being overly handsy, but three hands is a fourth-wall breaker. Also, remember positions in your head, and whether you've removed any or all bits of clothing in the shared fiction.

Hope this helps,
-CT

Thanks!!