Prostate Massager

[CharlieGG]

Hello fine Literotica people!

I recently, on a whim, picked up my first prostate massager...

https://myplusone.com/product/plusone-prostate-massager-6764/

... and I'm hoping some more experienced prostate players can help me with maximizing my, ahem, efforts.

I tried it for the first time this afternoon (I didn't have a lot of time but wanted to at least figure out how to use it) with lots of lube. It slid in easily enough, but didn't get anywhere near feeling like I was approaching a prostate orgasm. I tried a number of different techniques, including pushing manually, rocking back and forth, letting my sphincter do the work, etc... and while I really enjoyed the sensation and the feeling, it wasn't anything over the top.

Now I've read some other threads here (I didn't find anything for a massager specifically like this one) and I know the kind of sensation I'm hoping for takes time (and probably a little more relaxation than my relatively rushed 10 minutes or so...) but I was wondering if anyone had advice hyper-specific to this device.

Thank you in advance for your help!

 

[AnnieLit]

How old are you? At 18 ten minutes might have worked, but as people get older they usually need more time to get to the finish line.

 

[Psyclone_Jak]

While it was written for an aneros device, if you search up "crimsonwolf method", you'll get some good advice on a technique for relaxation and use of those style of devices. 90% of it is relaxation and pelvic floor muscle control. There's also a period of "rewiring" that many people report that they need to go through in order to start registering prostate sensations as pleasure. If you use reddit, the ProstatePlay sub has some good resources.

 

[CharlieGG]

While it was written for an aneros device, if you search up "crimsonwolf method", you'll get some good advice on a technique for relaxation and use of those style of devices. 90% of it is relaxation and pelvic floor muscle control. There's also a period of "rewiring" that many people report that they need to go through in order to start registering prostate sensations as pleasure. If you use reddit, the ProstatePlay sub has some good resources.

Wow, yeah that was something… I look forward to trying to emulate that…

 

[CharlieGG]

How old are you? At 18 ten minutes might have worked, but as people get older they usually need more time to get to the finish line.

Oh yes, I’m fully aware 10 minutes isn’t going to do it. That first session was to just try it out, use the toy, the lube, find insertion….

 

[HottieOlwen]

Hello fine Literotica people!

I recently, on a whim, picked up my first prostate massager...

https://myplusone.com/product/plusone-prostate-massager-6764/

... and I'm hoping some more experienced prostate players can help me with maximizing my, ahem, efforts.

I tried it for the first time this afternoon (I didn't have a lot of time but wanted to at least figure out how to use it) with lots of lube. It slid in easily enough, but didn't get anywhere near feeling like I was approaching a prostate orgasm. I tried a number of different techniques, including pushing manually, rocking back and forth, letting my sphincter do the work, etc... and while I really enjoyed the sensation and the feeling, it wasn't anything over the top.

Now I've read some other threads here (I didn't find anything for a massager specifically like this one) and I know the kind of sensation I'm hoping for takes time (and probably a little more relaxation than my relatively rushed 10 minutes or so...) but I was wondering if anyone had advice hyper-specific to this device.

Thank you in advance for your help!

You might call it a prostate massager. My cuckold calls his Olwen's strap-on!. I'll get him to message you later on; he's rather busy at the moment. (Hint: ) It usually takes me between 15 and 20 minutes to milk him. He's 57, btw.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Lucky cuckold!

 

[Wonderer67]

Allocate some time. Relax, put on relaxing or mellow music. give yourself at least an hour.

Get the massager inside and just relax and enjoy the sensations of it filling you. Do not touch your penis… hands off.

After you get it in and get used to the sensations, I did kegels to just get it into a rhythm. Enjoy it, you may feel some tension building or precum even if you are flaccid.

Try different speeds and kegel rhythms. You can also try rocking it a little to find good pressure on your prostate.

It took me abt 6-7 tries before I had my first prostate orgasm, but it was a game changer. My first p orgasm was earth shattering.

First one: I felt this good feeling roaming inside me in waves coming from my core and prostate. It built and built until I had a big prostate orgasm. Incense moaning out really loud. It was totally unlike any ejaculatory orgasm. And you can have many of them.

I don’t ejaculate at all from my prostate orgasms. Some good precum but that’s it.

Good luck!!

 

[likitisplit]

go small.try something the size of a toothbrush handle or the tip of a douche bottlei've found that gets mine easier than any big dildo.

 

[SWR101]

Allocate some time. Relax, put on relaxing or mellow music. give yourself at least an hour.

Get the massager inside and just relax and enjoy the sensations of it filling you. Do not touch your penis… hands off.

After you get it in and get used to the sensations, I did kegels to just get it into a rhythm. Enjoy it, you may feel some tension building or precum even if you are flaccid.

Try different speeds and kegel rhythms. You can also try rocking it a little to find good pressure on your prostate.

It took me abt 6-7 tries before I had my first prostate orgasm, but it was a game changer. My first p orgasm was earth shattering.

First one: I felt this good feeling roaming inside me in waves coming from my core and prostate. It built and built until I had a big prostate orgasm. Incense moaning out really loud. It was totally unlike any ejaculatory orgasm. And you can have many of them.

I don’t ejaculate at all from my prostate orgasms. Some good precum but that’s it.

Good luck!!

Awesome advice. I’m going to be purchasing my first massager soon and have been following the thread for tips.

On that: any suggestions on a good starter massager? I’m not trying to spend $100 but also not wanting to throw away $20 if those are worthless.

 

[Wonderer67]

Awesome advice. I’m going to be purchasing my first massager soon and have been following the thread for tips.

On that: any suggestions on a good starter massager? I’m not trying to spend $100 but also not wanting to throw away $20 if those are worthless.

I wish I had advice, but since everyone is different my only advance is this:

Try different things. Experiment. What works for me may not work for you. I would try a few different cheaper types of toy to see what works best for you before making a big pricey investment on something that may not work for you.

I wish you the best and have fun experimenting!!!!

 

[CharlieGG]

Allocate some time. Relax, put on relaxing or mellow music. give yourself at least an hour.

Get the massager inside and just relax and enjoy the sensations of it filling you. Do not touch your penis… hands off.

After you get it in and get used to the sensations, I did kegels to just get it into a rhythm. Enjoy it, you may feel some tension building or precum even if you are flaccid.

Try different speeds and kegel rhythms. You can also try rocking it a little to find good pressure on your prostate.

It took me abt 6-7 tries before I had my first prostate orgasm, but it was a game changer. My first p orgasm was earth shattering.

First one: I felt this good feeling roaming inside me in waves coming from my core and prostate. It built and built until I had a big prostate orgasm. Incense moaning out really loud. It was totally unlike any ejaculatory orgasm. And you can have many of them.

I don’t ejaculate at all from my prostate orgasms. Some good precum but that’s it.

Good luck!!

Thanks Wonderer, I have heard a lot of similar advice... I'm definitely going to have to find a good solid block of time to relax and experiment.

 

[subdudeme13]

You might call it a prostate massager. My cuckold calls his Olwen's strap-on!. I'll get him to message you later on; he's rather busy at the moment. (Hint: ) It usually takes me between 15 and 20 minutes to milk him. He's 57, btw.

Makes me wish I still had my prostate. No more full body orgasmes for me

 

[CharlieGG]

I'm happy to report a super hot update!

I had some time this morning to play... I took a nice hot shower, got relaxed, grabbed my lube and a pillow and a towel, laid on the floor and went to work...

It felt good sliding in. I did some breathing and relaxing and then tried some different positions... on my back, on my side, kneeling and rocking...

On my side, rocking back and forth felt really good, I got some very nice sensations through my body.

Then I laid back on my back and felt it kind of slip a little, so I reached down to the handle and rotated it back to center and HELLO! I realized rotating it by the handle in semicircles did a wonderful job of massaging my prostate. Waves of pleasure... I found myself moaning out loud. I didn't get to a full climax or orgasm, but it felt great!

Progress!