Re-open your soul and let them in.....

[T.H. Oughts]

The last couple of months I have "really" reunited with my man…. We have been together for 16 years and life has been "good" to both of us in those years. We have sacrificed things in our lives the last few years to bring fulfilment to the each others souls (my art/writing, his sport). But the fulfilment of the soul of "things" is not always the ultimate.

But the last couple of months we both slowed down with our away hours etc and have made more time for "real" soul sharing. Hell, the lov’in stuff never stopped, but now we have the real fireworks back like we did 16 years ago. The cool thing is now we have a load more tricks than we did all those years ago

So this thread is a way of saying, if you have been years with your partner and things are just good, you can make them "Fantastic" again…… just open up your souls and you can bring back those skin tingling thoughts of them when they are not in the same room with you Just relax and say all those things you have wanted to, but life goals got in the way…

The last couple of weeks we both have been listening to a song by Creed that tells how we both are feeling:

Hello my friend we meet again
It's been a while where should we begin?
Feels like forever
Within my heart are memories
Of perfect love that you gave to me
Oh, I remember

When you are with me
I'm free…. I'm careless….I believe
Above all the others we'll fly
This brings tears to my eyes
My sacrifice

We've seen our share of ups and downs
Oh, how quickly life can turn around in an instant
It feels so good to reunite
Within yourself and within your mind
Let's find peace there

'Cause when you are with me
I'm free…. I'm careless…..I believe
Above all the others we'll fly
This brings tears to my eyes
My sacrifice

I just want to say hello again......

 

[cherrylips_au]

Firstly congratualtions on being able to re spark your relationship I think too many people give up when things get too hard. You both recognised the importance of "US" to cut back on other interests to re kindle the magic.
I have been with my partner for 12 years and even though we have not always travel down the same track we are always closer enough to touch, caress,love and travel together. Our relationship is constantly evolving and changing as we grow. We are friends, lovers and soulmates.
We may not have the excitement that happens when a relationship starts but we bring other excitement to each other as we explore each other and the world around us.

 

[AusTess]

When i wanna reignite the spark?

I tie him down,blindfold him and bring in the neighbors wife.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

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[T.H. Oughts]

Thanks Cherry It was not like we were fighting or anything horrible. We were makin love regular and very goooodly

But now we have checked out the inner soul side of things again it seems to re-released some of that old indepth majic again

We always have people tell us what a great relationship we have. This being because we have allowed each other to grow and realise our dreams. I just think we were running on a vary compatable auto pilot, lol.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I'm really touched, and very happy for you that you've been able to reignite that spark. It's nice to find someone who knows, not only what committment is, but what it is to enjoy and thrive in a committed situation. Wish more people out there were like you, and I'm sure that I can learn from you, so I'm gonna keep an eye on your threads.

Cheers to you and your man,
Vix

At no time did I ever think our realtionship was crap it was just on an "auto pilot" of love and committment.......

 

[christophe]

Very nicley said Mrs Thoughts.


Now since you two get along so well, how about me operating the camera for ya to capture that magic

 

[Ice Cold]

I'm Happy for you T.H. Not many people even realize the things they let slip away, much less try to recapture them. It takes work and dedication to each other, and that sounds like exactly what you to have.


As for me.... I think I'll still keep the good stuff inside, until I find the right person.

 

[ksmybuttons]

T.H.O.,

What a wonderful happening! I can relate to the autopilot with love.

When I was 40, we finally had the child of my dreams. Two years before that, we sold my husband's business and he went back to school to live his dream. When our son was born, it was most realistic for me to continue to work and he stayed home and began to build his new business.

Two years ago, I dropped out of management and am now working 4 days a week. His business is growing and he is fulfilled, he is incorporating this year. That is the reason I have time here: he is working varied evenings and not around as much.

Our child is now 6 and we have such joy in him but our relationship is on "autopilot" as we added a new member so late in our relationship. We have had the luxury of not having child care and practice attentive parenting.

We stay in touch by showering in the morning together. We use the time to touch base, make decisions, divey up the work at home about a week out. Who shops, what needs to be cleaned and who needs to do it, what our maintenance items need to survive and florish. We eat dinner together about 4 nights a week and, as he gets home about 1 am, we sleep together and wake up together, many times entwined.

I know that it will be a couple of more years before we have the time to re-kindle the flame but the coals are hot and well banked and we always remember that ash doesn't burn.

I am readily awaiting the bonfire and am truly envious of the space you and your love inhabit. Cheers to you a both. A Toast!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Very nicley said Mrs Thoughts.


Now since you two get along so well, how about me operating the camera for ya to capture that magic

Put on your flippers and start swimming

 

[christophe]

Put on your flippers and start swimming

SPLASH....

 

[T.H. Oughts]

As for me.... I think I'll still keep the good stuff inside, until I find the right person.

When she finds you she will be one hell of a lucky lady that's for sure.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I know that it will be a couple of more years before we have the time to re-kindle the flame but the coals are hot and well banked and we always remember that ash doesn't burn.

Thanks I think that was it, the fire was not out that is for sure, just a little banked up from having fun with my art/writing and he his sports...... now we have it all

We might need a new lounge suite and our cars are not new because we put some much time in following our dreams. But now my art and writing is selling and he is about to represent New Zealand at a world cup with his sport, we have a fulfillment.

By allowing each other to follow our dreams a contentment was there for sure and we showed each other that... now we have stoked that fire back to life good and proper

 

[T.H. Oughts]

SPLASH....

You can referee the Tongue Fu when you get here, lol

 

[christophe]

one match where contact below the belt is welcome

 

[T.H. Oughts]

one match where contact below the belt is welcome

You betcha baby !!!!!!

 

[cherrylips_au]

I didn't mean to imply that you had problems in your marriage but rather that it's easy to go look elsewhere for excitement or whatever you think is missing from your relationship rather than asking each other what is wanted or needed now.
I can relate to being on auto pilot its too easy to get caught up in everyday life that you forget to spend time with, have fun with or just be with your partner.
Over the last few years my partner and I were just survivng from day to day now we have started living it together again. We didn't really have anything wrong just had gotten stuck in the day to day rut.

 

[christophe]

You betcha baby !!!!!!

Full contact ass licking

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Full contact ass licking

When his eyes go squinty and his cheeks turn blue from lack of blood he will know the meaning of life Grasshopper.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I didn't mean to imply that you had problems in your marriage

That's cool, I thought I would point that bit out to others.

 

[christophe]

When his eyes go squinty and his cheeks turn blue from lack of blood he will know the meaning of life Grasshopper.

I think it will be cause blood is flowing to a more vital organ!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I think it will be cause blood is flowing to a more vital organ!

You got it babe

*Mrs Christophe if you are reading this, I'll give you a race to see who can get their man squinty eyed first *