Question

[littleone77]

I would imagine almost every female in lit has had at least a dozen cyber PM's from guys. A guy once told me for every girl he PM'd his success rate was about 1 in 50!!! Seems like a lot of effort to me. I really can't be bothered with the opportunistic only here for cyber guys, if they can't make an effort neither will I.

Now that is just pathetic! 1 out of 50? That might explain why it happens so often and why the offers just keep getting cornier and lamer (is that a word? *shrugs*, it is now). I totally agree. You reap what you sow. So if a guy puts out an half assed attempt, all he is going to get back...is well nothing.

 

[VirtuallyYours]

Now that is just pathetic! 1 out of 50? That might explain why it happens so often and why the offers just keep getting cornier and lamer (is that a word? *shrugs*, it is now). I totally agree. You reap what you sow. So if a guy puts out an half assed attempt, all he is going to get back...is well nothing.

its also amazing how many guys will risk everything they have with a girl they care about for the sake of a quick shuffle with a girl they barely know, complete madness if you ask me. If only guys had as much integrity as the majority of females. There are always exceptions to the rule of course

 

[littleone77]

its also amazing how many guys will risk everything they have with a girl they care about for the sake of a quick shuffle with a girl they barely know, complete madness if you ask me. If only guys had as much integrity as the majority of females. There are always exceptions to the rule of course

LOL, def exceptions to every rule VY . Not to go too much into it but sometimes a risk is what it takes to make you realize just how lucky you are. Seeing someone's inadequacies causes you to become all to grateful for what you have ( to Daddy). On the other hand some guys are just typical males who think only of their dicks or lack there of.

And there are good men out there, even on Lit. Just got to weed through the masses and find the right ones. And when you do...*sighs* life becomes oh so sweeter and hotter

 

[Dark1ord6669]

I send out PMs, I'm a pretty private guy... But I keep it short and simple and if they are interested in talking, great. If not then I keep on reading the boards.

I'm generally considered a nice guy. And I'm not pming for cyber... but hey that's just me.

I don't get PMs though... partialy because I don't post offten. But I've been changing that as of late.

 

[El_Cazador999]

Welcome

I would imagine almost every female in lit has had at least a dozen cyber PM's from guys. A guy once told me for every girl he PM'd his success rate was about 1 in 50!!! Seems like a lot of effort to me. I really can't be bothered with the opportunistic only here for cyber guys, if they can't make an effort neither will I.

Welcome, Virtually Yours. I noticed that you just joined yesterday. Also, welcome to "Question" string. We gentlemen are always excited to have ladies join in. Maybe you'll be the first to PM me. <grin> If you have read the most recent couple of pages of the string, you'll get the joke.

 

[El_Cazador999]

Now that is just pathetic! 1 out of 50? That might explain why it happens so often and why the offers just keep getting cornier and lamer (is that a word? *shrugs*, it is now). I totally agree. You reap what you sow. So if a guy puts out an half assed attempt, all he is going to get back...is well nothing.

I can't even imagine sending out 50 PM's, let alone a success rate of only 2%. Although, as I've said before, I don't cyber anyway. Seems kind of silly to me. My priorities would be as follows:

1. Chat with like minded people
2. Build an online friendship
3. If lucky, build a real-life friendship
4. Experience, with a friend, the real thing. Much, much better than cyber in case some of these cretins haven't figured out that one.

Most important, however, is to keep LittleOne laughing and smiling. I keep hoping she'll tell all the women she know's that I'm here. LOL

 

[littleone77]

I send out PMs, I'm a pretty private guy... But I keep it short and simple and if they are interested in talking, great. If not then I keep on reading the boards.

I'm generally considered a nice guy. And I'm not pming for cyber... but hey that's just me.

I don't get PMs though... partialy because I don't post offten. But I've been changing that as of late.

*Smiles* Obviously you have since you are now considered Really Experienced, heh

Yes you are nice, and you are one of the many here on Lit who behave themselves.

Let me know what happens to your pm box

 

[keiffers]

Thanks!! It just annoys me that certain people think they are above common courtesy and common sense. It takes all kinds to make the world go 'round I suppose.

Anyone else?

damn and here I thought you were a pervert like the rest of us LOL

 

[littleone77]

I can't even imagine sending out 50 PM's, let alone a success rate of only 2%. Although, as I've said before, I don't cyber anyway. Seems kind of silly to me. My priorities would be as follows:

1. Chat with like minded people
2. Build an online friendship
3. If lucky, build a real-life friendship
4. Experience, with a friend, the real thing. Much, much better than cyber in case some of these cretins haven't figured out that one.

Most important, however, is to keep LittleOne laughing and smiling. I keep hoping she'll tell all the women she know's that I'm here. LOL

Yet again you have me laughing and smiling.

Yes at times cyber can be pretty silly but I will admit to having done so when I am single and in one of those wild, lets try something new periods. *shrugs* (And just so any confused members are clear on that...No, I Do Not Cyber!!!)

We are similiar creatures I think but honestly I only know less than a handfull of women here on Lit. Most of my friends are male...Go figure!

 

[littleone77]

damn and here I thought you were a pervert like the rest of us LOL

LOL, define pervert please

Surprised that you popped in, welcome and just so we are clear I am a pervert but a well behaved, respectful one.

Wait is that an oxymoron?

 

[Dark1ord6669]

*Smiles* Obviously you have since you are now considered Really Experienced, heh

Yes you are nice, and you are one of the many here on Lit who behave themselves.

Let me know what happens to your pm box

It tends to stay pretty empty, a few choice people I talk to... Since I'm not really *looking* for anything, I really don't get hits.

Hell I even put a headshot up for 24 hours.... took it down though, no interest

But I'm not going to hold my breath.

 

[littleone77]

Welcome, Virtually Yours. I noticed that you just joined yesterday. Also, welcome to "Question" string. We gentlemen are always excited to have ladies join in. Maybe you'll be the first to PM me. <grin> If you have read the most recent couple of pages of the string, you'll get the joke.

So this is a string huh?

Until you mentioned it I didn't notice that most here were men, intereting....

Yes, VirtuallyYours pm El Cazador! He's dying for a message to pop up...heh, I would help with that but well...I just can't

 

[keiffers]

LOL, define pervert please

Surprised that you popped in, welcome and just so we are clear I am a pervert but a well behaved, respectful one.

Wait is that an oxymoron?

you shouldn't call yourself a moron ya know LOL

hmm i thought pervert always meant dirty and wicked lol guess not hahah

 

[littleone77]

It tends to stay pretty empty, a few choice people I talk to... Since I'm not really *looking* for anything, I really don't get hits.

Hell I even put a headshot up for 24 hours.... took it down though, no interest

But I'm not going to hold my breath.

Yes, I know you took it down...and before I got to view it *sighs dramatically*

And all the intrusive pms I received were after I had taken myself out of the running.

(No, please don't hold your breath, you would turn purple, heh)

 

[littleone77]

you shouldn't call yourself a moron ya know LOL

hmm i thought pervert always meant dirty and wicked lol guess not hahah

An oxymoron silly...not a moron, jeesh

A pervert is def. wicked and perhaps dirty minded, or at least seems to find a sexual meaning in virtually every thing said. Some days I am not sure how I survive with all the dirty little thoughts that pop into my mind. LOL

 

[keiffers]

An oxymoron silly...not a moron, jeesh

A pervert is def. wicked and perhaps dirty minded, or at least seems to find a sexual meaning in virtually every thing said. Some days I am not sure how I survive with all the dirty little thoughts that pop into my mind. LOL

oh sorry bout that, i'll get dressed so you won't have anymore impure thoughts LOL

 

[Dark1ord6669]

Yes, I know you took it down...and before I got to view it *sighs dramatically*

And all the intrusive pms I received were after I had taken myself out of the running.

(No, please don't hold your breath, you would turn purple, heh)

I think thats one of the biggest things here. Women "in the running" and "out of the running" and men who can't tell the difference. Lots of women are here just to talk, and have a good time. Happily involved with someone. Others are looking for some sort of connection.... not sure if those looking would just happen to be the 1 in 50. But that's something to look into I"d think

In any case, I can't hold my breath that long anyways :/

And yes the thread is all but closed, but I'm not opposed to sending it to those who actually want to see it.

 

[littleone77]

oh sorry bout that, i'll get dressed so you won't have anymore impure thoughts LOL

Who said those thoughts were about you? hmm?

Great now I have a mental picture of a nude Keiffers floating about in my head...how will I ever cope?

 

[littleone77]

I think thats one of the biggest things here. Women "in the running" and "out of the running" and men who can't tell the difference. Lots of women are here just to talk, and have a good time. Happily involved with someone. Others are looking for some sort of connection.... not sure if those looking would just happen to be the 1 in 50. But that's something to look into I"d think

In any case, I can't hold my breath that long anyways :/

And yes the thread is all but closed, but I'm not opposed to sending it to those who actually want to see it.

I think its more along the lines of men who refuse to read and actually digest what the meaning is...obviously they can read but I doubt it sinks in. (EG)

Interesting thought...do "do u wanna cyber" pms actually mean "hey I wanna get to know u" or is it merely "i want in ur jeans babe"

Hmm...not sure if I want a pic of you...pics tend to frighten the heck out of me, (clash of realities don'tcha know)

 

[Dark1ord6669]

I think its more along the lines of men who refuse to read and actually digest what the meaning is...obviously they can read but I doubt it sinks in. (EG)

Interesting thought...do "do u wanna cyber" pms actually mean "hey I wanna get to know u" or is it merely "i want in ur jeans babe"

Hmm...not sure if I want a pic of you...pics tend to frighten the heck out of me, (clash of realities don'tcha know)

I dunt no if they r reading 4 sure.......

I think it's a toss up... Most of the time, they are probably going for the cyber, but will settle for getting to know you (with cyber in the back of their minds)

I was also told once about a nice PMer... who was plesent to talk to and all, but when he tried making advances and it didn't work out. He flipped. Even the nice ones bite I guess. Some harder than others.

As for clashing of realities... I am who I am, so I'd hope anyone that's ever seen me doesn't go "Oh, I wouldn't have ever imagined that"... actually I haven't had that happen yet (Except for the age thing..... :| But can't win em all, and if you're curious... I am "younger". 22)

 

[littleone77]

I dunt no if they r reading 4 sure.......

I think it's a toss up... Most of the time, they are probably going for the cyber, but will settle for getting to know you (with cyber in the back of their minds)

I was also told once about a nice PMer... who was plesent to talk to and all, but when he tried making advances and it didn't work out. He flipped. Even the nice ones bite I guess. Some harder than others.

As for clashing of realities... I am who I am, so I'd hope anyone that's ever seen me doesn't go "Oh, I wouldn't have ever imagined that"... actually I haven't had that happen yet (Except for the age thing..... :| But can't win em all, and if you're curious... I am "younger". 22)

LOL, stop playing a hick...it isn't nice to make fun of your relatives

Personally I lean more towards the pmer thinking merely of his own lil dick *shrugs* I maybe wrong but if you are a pmer cyberer who doesn't please correct me!

Ha! Knew you were a bite and I am well aware of your age thing...though I thought I asked for a rain check on it? Hmm? Is it raining yet? LOL

 

[Dark1ord6669]

LOL, stop playing a hick...it isn't nice to make fun of your relatives

Personally I lean more towards the pmer thinking merely of his own lil dick *shrugs* I maybe wrong but if you are a pmer cyberer who doesn't please correct me!

Ha! Knew you were a bite and I am well aware of your age thing...though I thought I asked for a rain check on it? Hmm? Is it raining yet? LOL

But it is funny, especially when you can do it right to their faces and they laugh along

But yeah, in a nut shell what I said. (And why do you have to point out my lil dick on the public forums )

Raincheck on what? I don't issue rain checks >.>

 

[littleone77]

But it is funny, especially when you can do it right to their faces and they laugh along

But yeah, in a nut shell what I said. (And why do you have to point out my lil dick on the public forums )

Raincheck on what? I don't issue rain checks >.>

We still need to play nice, even with those...who are less intelligent than us

And I wasn't pointing out anyone's dick, little or otherwise, ty...Great now I am going to be getting pics of dicks and if that happens I am forwarding them to you!

You do so! Ha, I remember...wasn't that far gone into comatose ty

 

[Dark1ord6669]

We still need to play nice, even with those...who are less intelligent than us

And I wasn't pointing out anyone's dick, little or otherwise, ty...Great now I am going to be getting pics of dicks and if that happens I am forwarding them to you!

You do so! Ha, I remember...wasn't that far gone into comatose ty

What they don't know won't hurt them.

No thanks, I think I'll pass. But you specifially said lil, and it made me a sad panda.

YW! Although I still don't know what you're on about

 

[littleone77]

What they don't know won't hurt them.

No thanks, I think I'll pass. But you specifially said lil, and it made me a sad panda.

YW! Although I still don't know what you're on about

A panda bear too? Wow, impressive

And about your er size issue good luck with that