Question

[drovkin]

Ok, so I know there are a million "how do I last longer" threads, so that's not the point of this. My question is, if you're a guy that usually fires within 5 minutes, but you want to keep going, where do you orgasm so that it doesn't take 5 minutes to clean it up? In a condom, toss it and wait a few minutes to get back into it, and then pop on another one? Do you just have a towel or something that you go in and then...I mean I don't know obviously, cause I made the thread I've just been so focused on trying to last longer when I'm with my girl that I haven't really thought of the possibility of just going near the beginning, going down on her or using my hand for a while to keep the mood going, and then just getting into it again when I need to.

Thanks for the help.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Don't cum!!!

Sometimes the best sex is like a drive through the country: You know you're getting somewhere, but you want to enjoy the trip getting there also.

Change positions often, or as often as needed to break the predictable pace that's going to bring you to orgasm.

DO NOT train your mind to think about unpleasant or non-sexual subjects, like Margaret Thatcher naked which is both unpleasant and non-sexual, in order to help yourself last longer.

Your penis will be as trainable as you'll let yourself be.

I know that certain male pornstars are capable of multiples of "pop shots" without going flaccid. Again, they trained themselves to get that way, and while its no easy task it can be a very worth while one.

 

[Eilan]

I'm not a guy, nor do I play one on TV, but over the past 11 years, I have been married to a couple of them (though not at the same time!).

My hubby tends to be a "ladies first" kinda guy, so I'm usually pretty satisfied by the time he's ready to shoot, but on those occasions that he cums and we're both still wanting more, he'll just stay inside, provided he doesn't go TOO soft, until he's hard again. I suppose that's a little messy, but we're usually not thinking about that at the time.

Of course, it really depends on your birth control situation. My hubby and I don't need to worry about BC. If you NEED the condoms, then you definitely want to pull out and discard condom #1.

 

[drovkin]

^^ See, I've tried that, but when I get going, I seem to stop every time it starts feeling really good for her, and no matter how many times I start and stop, it seems like I have to stop every time she starts getting close to an orgasm (I'm assuming it's cause she tightens up even more). The girl has never had a vaginal orgasm, and i would love to give her one, she always has to get one orally.

So I figured the only way I could ever do it was to orgasm myself once before because I just don't seem to have the endurance to pump her long/hard enough to get her there

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Masturbate before sex. Get that part of it out of your system, recoup for a short time, and then tap her for all you're worth. Maybe relieving that initial urge will start letting your body perform to your other expectations?

 

[drovkin]

I just feel like that stop and start crap is getting old for her, and I just want to somehow train myself to be able to pump her for as long as I want

I know it's gotta be frustrating for her that every time it starts feeling really good I have to stop

and i mean damn, how to those porn stars pump for so long, haha

 

[Lovernotkiller]

hmm

Okay, I usually keep going even when i cum. Or at least until she goes off, its hard sometimes, but if you can get to know how she likes it in, then you two should be going off right around the same time. If things still arent working though, you could always get a cock ring. I know that after an 8 hour shift of work, my GF went off 5 times and i still hadnt gone off. Just something to think about. Gud luck mate.

 

[M's girl]

I just feel like that stop and start crap is getting old for her, and I just want to somehow train myself to be able to pump her for as long as I want

I know it's gotta be frustrating for her that every time it starts feeling really good I have to stop

and i mean damn, how to those porn stars pump for so long, haha

I'm not a man but understand you can train yourself to have an erection after the orgasm or maintain one longer before. I'm not sure if you were serious asking that question but I will answer it anyway.... they do the moneyshots first... then if the male pornstar has his second erection he can last a long time.

 

[Lust Engine]

I'm not a man but understand you can train yourself to have an erection after the orgasm or maintain one longer before. I'm not sure if you were serious asking that question but I will answer it anyway.... they do the moneyshots first... then if the male pornstar has his second erection he can last a long time.

Not to mention, that's why those guys ARE pornstars. Call it a talent if you want, but that's their job.

And comparing yourself to them is more harmful than anything else. Porn is a fantasy world and shouldn't be confused for the real world.