Question

[unusuallyconfused]

If you wanted to have phone sex with someone and you are very shy, how would you handle it?

 

[p_p_man]

Well...

...first of all I take the phone in my right hand gripping it firmly but not too hard, then with my first digit of my left hand I punch certain numbers onto the keypad, then I raise the phone to my right ear, then I....

 

[Morden]

Well it depends. If the other person was not so shy they could lead for a while. You could just listen and have some fun and moan a little when it gets good. If your both shy then that could be a bit of a problem. Otherwise just relax don't worry and just say what you want and let yourself get really into it. Forget your even on the phone.

 

[morninggirl5]

First, I wouldn't consider it unless I was really, really comfortable with the person, comfortable enough to discuss your shyness beforehand. You also need to be comfortable giving a lot of description, they obviously can't see what's happening so you have to give them the visual. Write down all the sexy words you can think of and practice saying them, yes out loud. Relax and be prepared to laugh at yourself, it takes practice like anything else you try.

 

[unusuallyconfused]

I guess I really screwed up this question. I'm not shy so much once I am on the phone, I'm embarassed to ask!!!

 

[Cheyenne]

Have never done phone sex, so can' t answer from experience.

What about bringing up the topic first, like asking if he/she has ever tried phone sex, just to see what answer you get?

 

[unusuallyconfused]

Have never done phone sex, so can' t answer from experience.

What about bringing up the topic first, like asking if he/she has ever tried phone sex, just to see what answer you get? [

Ok that is worth a shot, or perhaps the mystery man will ask me!

 

[batter]

re: phone sex

if this other person has voice mail, why not give them a message in your sexiest voice and see what the result is.

if it sounds favorable, then try a phone session.

there are ways of learning how to do phone sessions.
in fact i was just reading an article on it last night.

i will try and find it for you and i could post it here for you or i could e-mail it if you wish.

just finished working midnights and i am off to bed for now.
i will check up on this thread when i get up this evening.

 

[Ally C]

p_p_man

A source of invaluable information yet again ...

 

[unusuallyconfused]

Re: re: phone sex

if this other person has voice mail, why not give them a message in your sexiest voice and see what the result is.

if it sounds favorable, then try a phone session.

there are ways of learning how to do phone sessions.
in fact i was just reading an article on it last night.

i will try and find it for you and i could post it here for you or i could e-mail it if you wish.

just finished working midnights and i am off to bed for now.
i will check up on this thread when i get up this evening.

Boy I am sending the wrong message. I am pretty confident with my abilities to have adult conversations, just shy to ask the person that I would like to ask. I shouldn't of even started this thread.

 

[rambling man]

I think you have nothing to worry about. Just ask him, I am sure he would love to listen as you slid your fingers in and out of yourself and played with your own nipples, all the while cooing in his ear while he stroked himself and moaned in yours.

 

[Mortto56]

Hi U.C.!

If you would like to practice,call me at "Oh Oh,davenport 2 short!"

 

[indyweasel]

damn... I wish it was me.

But if you need to practice, let me know and I'll give you my phone number.

 

[april-wine]

hmmmmm interesting thread UC....hmmmmm i actually had this very same dilemma, i just kinda slipped it in during hot sessions, telling my love i would like to be able to hear her, talk to her, have her hear me....she was shy about it, and really we laughed alot during the first time, but it sure is hot...... damn hot....hope that helps

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

I dunno.

I'm too shy to have phone sex.

 

[batter]

Re: Re: re: phone sex

Boy I am sending the wrong message. I am pretty confident with my abilities to have adult conversations, just shy to ask the person that I would like to ask. I shouldn't of even started this thread.

Oops! sorry if i took the thread wrong.
why not just the person if they have ever tried phone sex and see what the answer is and go from there.

good luck!