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[Guest]

Is there anyone here who is a member of Adult Friend Finder or some other such service? If so please tell me of your experiences with the service and the people you've met. Specifically, does it work, is it real, do you feel safe, what are the people like, how badly do the people lie, would you recommend it, are there other services, etc?

 

[Guest]

Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't AFFs a pay site? I know Alt.com is. Have you checked out the personals here at Lit? The two moderators there are personal friends of mine, and great guys. They'll be able to help you out if you come across any problems or whatnot. Just a thought...

 

[DarlingBri]

Hi there

This isn't something I know anything about, but another board member, cymbidia, has posted extensively and educationally about this topic.

She wrote a quick "How To" which you can find here:

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=28211

But she also wrote a more extensive reply to someone seeking a third via adult personals. I would think the advice in there in terms of meeting first and being tested for STDs would apply and should be followed whether you're adding seconds, thirds, fourths...

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=28151

It's very sensible, practical advice. Please read it, for your own safety.