Question for the Girls, please help

[BransonS13222]

I'll try and keep it short. Single again after 20 years. have to admit alittle nervous getting back out there. I'm a decent guy mid 40's looking for decent gal. Would love to find and email buddy just to start somewhere and thought an email friend would be a fun way to meet new friends, Probably totaly wrong place and will be hammered to death but now it's out there.
Another question, this one sexual. Would you ever be with a man that has no semen? would it bother you or be a game changer. Of course speaking to those whom have or would want to adopt kids. And before anyone asks, due to bouts with agressive cancer, the treatment left my pencil still standing but just empty
Also, When I do start dating again when and how should the subject about having a working but empty pencil be brought up?
Thanks for your time in reading my post and if you reply!

 

[sereneone4u]

I'll try and keep it short. Single again after 20 years. have to admit alittle nervous getting back out there. I'm a decent guy mid 40's looking for decent gal. Would love to find and email buddy just to start somewhere and thought an email friend would be a fun way to meet new friends, Probably totaly wrong place and will be hammered to death but now it's out there.
Another question, this one sexual. Would you ever be with a man that has no semen? would it bother you or be a game changer. Of course speaking to those whom have or would want to adopt kids. And before anyone asks, due to bouts with agressive cancer, the treatment left my pencil still standing but just empty
Also, When I do start dating again when and how should the subject about having a working but empty pencil be brought up?
Thanks for your time in reading my post and if you reply!

Hello and welcome to Lit.

It would not bother me (if I was single) because I am done with the whole child-bearing thing. I think quite a few women in your age group would feel the same way. Now a woman with a biological clock ticking it would obviously be a dealbreaker.

When to bring it up? Hmmm...

I think when the chemistry is right and you want to pursue something further, it would be a good time to bring it up. Or if she mentions wanting children or more children.

 

[LadyVer]

Serene gave a great answer. Health issues are really personal so it's not something to bring up real early. Your kind of issue wouldn't bother me as I've dealt with cancer myself. Good luck!

 

[BransonS13222]

Thank you!

I'm sorry it took this long to reply but I havent felt that well. Thanks again for your help and advice!

 

[LadyVer]

I'm sorry it took this long to reply but I havent felt that well. Thanks again for your help and advice!

I hope you feel better soon!

 

[Novita76]

I'll try and keep it short. Single again after 20 years. have to admit alittle nervous getting back out there. I'm a decent guy mid 40's looking for decent gal. Would love to find and email buddy just to start somewhere and thought an email friend would be a fun way to meet new friends, Probably totaly wrong place and will be hammered to death but now it's out there.
Another question, this one sexual. Would you ever be with a man that has no semen? would it bother you or be a game changer. Of course speaking to those whom have or would want to adopt kids. And before anyone asks, due to bouts with agressive cancer, the treatment left my pencil still standing but just empty
Also, When I do start dating again when and how should the subject about having a working but empty pencil be brought up?
Thanks for your time in reading my post and if you reply!

just say what i do, the plumbing is there, but its just been disconnected. lol ive met guys that were awesome but wanted kids, so it just wasnt going to work sadly. hugs and good luck