Question about me

[Richie185]

Hey everyone. This is my first post and all that but Ive been lurking a while now. and kinda need some advice.

Im a 19 year old guy, Harry Potter lookalike and still a virgin. Me and my ex did pretty much everything but sex but I was really nervous about it, because of my penis. Size wise im fine, 6.5"+ but my penis has a fairly strong curve. The one time we did try sex I had trouble getting it in (The both of us were pretty drunk at the time though) and I made some excuse and we didnt do it.

Im just wondering what kind of a curve is normal and what is too much? Is it better to have a curve for female stimulation or does it not matter?

Sorry if this is the wrong board

 

[EJFan]

welcome to lit.

bottom line here really is that there is no "normal." penises come in all shapes, sizes and structures. you have what you have and experience will lead you to using it wisely.... which is really the most important thing (along with using your mind and the rest of your body).

there's no shape or size that's going to be categorically better for one thing or another. there's reason to believe that a curved penis can more easily stimulate the g-spot but, again, the most important thing to remember is to be a responsible, caring lover and all of the particulars will fall into place.

 

[DrHappy]

I agree with the last guy. I only have hands-on experience with my own, but I've seen quite a variety in erotic videos: curve up, curve down, curve sideways. I've even seen one that was twisted like a cork screw. I've also heard that a curve can be advantage for g-spot stimulation. Girls have their own variety in their plumbing as well.

 

[Carnevil9]

I knew a guy whose cock was so curved he could pee around a corner.

No, seriously, youngsters (like yourself) tend to think that everything needs to be just perfect. Old farts (like myself) have learned that EVERYBODY is flawed, but there is always a way to make it work.

A slight curve upward is definitely in the "normal" range, but curves in any direction are still perfectly usable. I'm sure you'll do fine. Play the hand you've been dealt and find a way to make it a wiener, er, that is, a winner.......Carney

 

[M's girl]

Curve is good. Nothing wrong with it. The reason you did not get it in at the time is most likely a combination of being drunk (not a good time to have sex, let alone first time sex!) and inexperience. Probably as well you did not manage ....

Someone came up with this site where you can see how different penises can be. You will most likely see that yours is simply different from any next guy, which is normal.

Oh, and welcome to Lit!

 

[wang_pulse]

If you're really worried and not too embarrassed to go, it may be a good idea to get it checked out by a doctor. Although all penises are different and most have some curvature, a serious curvature can make sex difficult if not impossible for some.

There is a condition called Peyronies disease which causes curvature, and hardened scarring inside the penis. There are procedures that can correct this, so my advice would always be see someone about it... Good luck mate

 

[HeavenCanWait]

I used to have concerns about my penis being inferior. Then I started sleeping with guys, and realised just how strange real (non porn) penises are! Like it's been said before, learn to use the hand you've been dealt hon.

Good luck.

 

[Richie185]

Cheers guys you've made me feel alot better. And thanks for all the welcome messages.

 

[fgarvb1]

My young friend you are not a freak don't worry!

And that Harry Potter dude is going to star naked on stage in some kind of play or something.

Your dating life may pick up somewhat! LOL!

 

[Darla_Darling]

Hey everyone. This is my first post and all that but Ive been lurking a while now. and kinda need some advice.

Im a 19 year old guy, Harry Potter lookalike and still a virgin. Me and my ex did pretty much everything but sex but I was really nervous about it, because of my penis. Size wise im fine, 6.5"+ but my penis has a fairly strong curve. The one time we did try sex I had trouble getting it in (The both of us were pretty drunk at the time though) and I made some excuse and we didnt do it.

Im just wondering what kind of a curve is normal and what is too much? Is it better to have a curve for female stimulation or does it not matter?

Sorry if this is the wrong board

Damn it. There are just not enough cute, nerdy 19-year-old virgin boys left in this world. Can I have you? Please?

Anyway, I wouldn't worry about the curve thing. As a matter of fact, that can be a real advantage when it comes to stimulation. I mean, if your curve helps you hit the g-spot, it can really help her have amazing orgasms. As for getting it in, that's just a matter of practice. Don't be discouraged by your first time. Keep on trying! I'm sure you'll get there.

Peace!

Darla

 

[Emaline]

Im a 19 year old guy, Harry Potter lookalike and still a virgin.

If you're a Harry Potter lookalike, a woman would have to be out of her mind to care about the curve of your penis!! Lol

But seriously, most of the guys I've been with have had some sort of curve... and it really hasn't made a difference, good or bad. Perfectly normal. And like the previous poster said--if it is a major curvature, it might even be a plus! If you're feeling like it's so curved it's just not going to fit, I think you can rest easy--as hard as the thing gets it is always a fleshy extension and with any luck you'll get it in there and working normally. Maybe try it sober next time and you'll have an easier time. Lol!

(And if you feel at all bad about being a virgin [which nobody should feel bad about--virginity is a personal thing to give when you choose], please don't. My boyfriend was a virgin until he was 21--just this year with me.)

 

[CrazyBitch5]

hey, as a girl ur age (i'm 19 as well) i've gotta say i have no problem if the guy's penis isn't "perfect". my boyfriend's curves a bit now that i think about it. i mean, what is perfect anyway? i'm sure my vagina isn't perfect either or whatever.

btw, if u seriously look like Harry Potter, i'd jump u regardless of what ur penis looked like