Question about gagging

[kinkycapitalcpl]

I have a problem without a solution ... I think.

My wife becomes quite loud when we have sex. She can get a little embarrassed about it and is worried about waking our pre-teen children.

She's mentioned getting a ball-gag but I've ruled that out because she has a problem with her jaw (TMJ).

I thought about using bondage tape but I've read that it don't stick to skin only to itself.

I'm looking for suggestions or confirmation that bondage tape would work.

 

[Stella_Omega]

You can roll a bandanna into a classic tie-around-the-face gag. Wet it before you put it in-- dry fabric isn't much fun unless that's your kink... If it's large enough, tie a loose knot in the thick part, for her to chew on. You know how much stretch she can handle, of course.

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

Years ago I had a GF who was quite loud when she came. She was worried about her neighbors. She bought a small pillow she kept by her head and grabbed it when she was close and hold it over her mouth when she came. It was pretty effective.

.Mike

 

[Noor]

Kiss her?

Yes, TMJ and a ball gag would be a concern.

 

[DVS]

I have a problem without a solution ... I think.

My wife becomes quite loud when we have sex. She can get a little embarrassed about it and is worried about waking our pre-teen children.

She's mentioned getting a ball-gag but I've ruled that out because she has a problem with her jaw (TMJ).

I thought about using bondage tape but I've read that it don't stick to skin only to itself.

I'm looking for suggestions or confirmation that bondage tape would work.

As another alternative, if you two are into bondage (you did talk about a ball gag and bondage tape) why not just press your hand over her mouth? She would have to let you know when, of course, but that might help some, at least. Of course, don't cover her nose, too.

Also, TMJ has limits. How about one of those inflatable gags that you put in the mouth and inflate? You can control the amount it's inflated and some have a plate in front of the mouth that would act as a sound suppressant, too. Plus it has its own sexy and kinky look.

These are just some of the various options. I'm not suggesting you purchase these, specifically, I just linked them as an idea. Because they are inflatable, there is no set amount that her mouth need be forced open. You decide that. The idea behind my thought is it's not really her jaw that would be forced open but the cavity of the mouth that is filled.

 

[DVS]

I have a problem without a solution ... I think.

My wife becomes quite loud when we have sex. She can get a little embarrassed about it and is worried about waking our pre-teen children.

She's mentioned getting a ball-gag but I've ruled that out because she has a problem with her jaw (TMJ).

I thought about using bondage tape but I've read that it don't stick to skin only to itself.

I'm looking for suggestions or confirmation that bondage tape would work.

I just thought of this, for using bondage tape. If you use enough, you can first wrap it around her head to cover her mouth like a regular gag and then wrap it below her chin/jaw, then up over her head to keep her mouth closed. No, it doesn't stick to her, so I think it might work that way. Using this much would give her a bit of a mummy look, but it would keep her mouth closed, and suppress most sounds from it, too. Again, don't cover her nose!

It's possible you could use duct tape over her mouth in some way, but that is sticky and sometimes very difficult to remove, leaving some raw and sore skin. There are other tapes available, but all of them have some amount of stickiness that would not only stick to skin, but to hair. Aside from her wearing some elaborate rubber hood first, I wouldn't advise any regular type of tape.

I'm very fond of Velcro. There is a type you can get at most Walmart or Home Depot that is two inches wide and about 15 feet long. It comes in white and black, from what I've seen. It has a sticky back that you remove the plastic cover and press the two parts together, back to back. That gives you a long section of the two sides that you can wrap around anything and secure it. If you use it to wrap around her head, keeping her jaw closed, it would work, somewhat. And be sure, if you do use it, that the soft loop part is against her skin. It's kind of like soft carpet. The hook part can feel pretty rough.

All of these options are just suggestions. You will have to decide if any of them will work, or come up with your own variations. Good luck.

Incidentally, women who are loud when cumming are quite sexy. You are one lucky man to have this problem.

 

[eastern sun]

This has been a problem for us. I really like Stella's suggestion, though I've found ways to make a lot of noise around ball gags and cloth gags. You have to really stuff someone's mouth to fully silence them. And stifled cries catch my kid's attention too, since it sounds like I'm in trouble.

For practical reasons - the pillows have been our best long-term solution. I have screamed into them without waking our kids. If you're not in a position where you can use pillows, hand over the mouth and even just "shut up" has also worked very effectively.

We've had to modify our sexual activity significantly while the kids are in the house. Though it can be frustrating, I don't think it's a bad thing to take their needs into consideration. There are still lots of opportunities to express yourself.

 

[eastern sun]

We've also used bondage tape. I really like it actually if my face is being wrapped, and it can silence me if my mouth is covered. In my experience, is has been mostly because I am "withdrawing" though - going more internal (if that makes sense) and making less noise, rather than because the material is blocking the sound.

The biggest problem with bondage tape is that it's expensive for a long-term solution. And it's relatively easy to break out of.

 

[EclipseNight]

If you put your thumb in the center of your palm, fold it. Then hold your whole fist around your thumb and you won't gag at all.


Edit: I should of read the full topic, excuse this post.

 

[NikiCole]

Also, TMJ has limits. How about one of those inflatable gags that you put in the mouth and inflate? You can control the amount it's inflated and some have a plate in front of the mouth that would act as a sound suppressant, too. Plus it has its own sexy and kinky look.

These are just some of the various options. I'm not suggesting you purchase these, specifically, I just linked them as an idea. Because they are inflatable, there is no set amount that her mouth need be forced open. You decide that. The idea behind my thought is it's not really her jaw that would be forced open but the cavity of the mouth that is filled.

Of course you can get a pacifier also. I made one years ago from a ring pop and rubber bouncy ball. I took the 'ring' part off just so it wouldn't look so much like an old fashioned 'passy'.
I have TMJ also, so the rubber ball was great because it was small enough that it didn't bother it.

 

[DVS]

If you put your thumb in the center of your palm, fold it. Then hold your whole fist around your thumb and you won't gag at all.


Edit: I should of read the full topic, excuse this post.

Is this a gag suppressing pressure point? I'll have to give that a try. See, all posts matter.

 

[Daxaeha]

I have kids and so my loudness is an issue. I can control it until doggy style and then my brain turns off so I just bury my face into the mattress.

We've had some good talks, that mattress and I.

 

[NikiCole]

I have kids and so my loudness is an issue. I can control it until doggy style and then my brain turns off so I just bury my face into the mattress.

We've had some good talks, that mattress and I.

So understandable about kids.....we have a basement.

 

[Micklesko]

I gave up on the standard gags; they were a hassle trying to use.
I now pick up the largest dildo that fits my slaves mouth and just shove it in.
It stays in place without having to deal with straps; hair getting tangled and making it difficult to get a good snug fit.
It works; she cannot do much of anything but grunt or moan.
The noise level is low even when I have her tweaked right up.

 

[Bors]

We use a heavy hank of hemp rope, which the loud-prone partner bites down on at the crucial moments. If they fail, the cat-o-nine on the other end of it encourages compliance

 

[Zeke_Lanistter]

My girlfriend screams into a pillow pet I bought her, or I cover her mouth. She can be pretty damn loud if I let her. I find pillows, covering more of the mouth, do better then the ball-gag I bought her. Though the most effective is the few times ive stuffed her panties in her mouth to keep her extra quiet.