question about dressing sexy

[conniebug]

Hi. I've made an agreement with my husband that when he gets home I will try to dress sexier for him not just at home, but in public when we are away from home ( we go on weekend trips alot). While I have alot of sexy clothes that I wear for him around the house, I'm very nervous about wearing them out. Now, most of these clothes are actually probably tame by some standards, but I'm nervous because I'm a BBW.

So my question is this: If you saw a fat girl with big thighs and a belly, but great calves and huge tits wearing strapless, low cut, lace up tops, and really short skirts or skirts with high slits that show stockings and garters, or tight mini halter dresses---would you think she's hot or would you just be disgusted that some fat cow is trying to fool herself into thinking she's sexy and you have to see it?

 

[Jonny G]

i would think you were hot connie, many men love the female form whatever they wear, or whatever the size....dressing sexy and showing just shows that you like to show what you have and have men admire your feminie self.

pm me if you would like more on this subject my darling

 

[dareuk]

i,d think you,de look fantastic and be a huge turn on?i,m sure ,i,d love to fuck you long and hard?

 

[sun_shyne]

Connie, i am a BBW too and as long as you are comfortable wearing it, then strut your stuff...It will make you feel sexier too. Good luck.

 

[conniebug]

ok

thanks everyone... that helps alot. I don't mind showing myself as long as it's taken in the spirit I mean it, lol. Now I just have to wait until Jan for him to come home!!

 

[curiousinmich]

sexy isnt a particular outfit, it is how you feel in that outfit.

fuck what others think...if you feel sexy thats all that matters.

 

[rcfstl]

yep sexy is more of a state of mind

 

[styxitnu]

I would try and look up your dress.

 

[SkulkinKittikin]

Sweetie --

Just make sure you're comfortable in it -- and if you want more admiring looks, make sure whatever you wear FITS your personality and your body. From one larger lady to another, we all look better (even the slimmest among us) when our clothing is neither too small nor too large. There's nothing worse than looking uncomfortable by picking at one's too tight blouse or by constantly adjusting the too-loose clothing that's sliding (not provocatively) off one's body.

Have fun.

SKitt

 

[bodine91]

go for it

i saw a beautiful bbw in the grocery store yesterday, wearing a very sexy outfit, i wanted to say something but was afraid of getting slapped

 

[conniebug]

LOL, what were you going to say?

 

[bodine91]

innocent

i was just going to say how sexy she looked and leave it at that. the fact i remember a day later shows the impression she had in a green top and jeans

 

[Dangerous Nymph]

I think you should be tasteful when you go out at least. I think thought that as long as stuff isnt hanging out then you are fine. Remember that it is for him so don't worry too much about what others will think b/c those same people are not going home with you. Just be prepared for what you might hear and the looks you might get.

 

[Dangerous Vixen]

I would say don't wear anything that makes you feel some sort of discomfort. If you are out and every other minute you are checking to see if your shirt raised up to much or looking to see if you have too much showing then you shouldn't wear it.

There has to be a compromise somewhere between the two of you ...