Question about anal play for the ladies.

[djhindy]

I am interested in learning how many women actually enjoy anal sex where then man is receiving.

Essentially, Is it a turn on for you to watch a man toy his ass with his hand, a butt plug, dildo, ect? Or would you prefer to toy it yourself with your hands or a strap on?

If you do enjoy this, what is your favorite anal activity?

 

[BabbyGiiirl92]

Its a total turn off for me to see a man fucked in the ass ! and me doing it would be even more of a turn off

 

[HisWickedAngel]

I'm open to all kinds of things but I've never had a partner that wanted to be the receiver. As for myself, I love all things anal. Plugs, dildos, fingers, tongues and vibrators.

If a man has a more intense reaction to ass play that I do, why wouldn't they want it on the menu?

 

[LiathLis]

Hmmm

I have no problem with giving my man ass play, if he wanted it. But so far he doesn't seem comfortable with the idea. I'm pretty sure he does like a little anal stimulation, but if I go THERE, (for example a tiny insertion of finger while down in that general area) he trys to act like he's only doing it because I like it. I think it's a fear of liking it too much and what he thinks that might mean. See our minds fuck with us!! I'd strap on a huge dildo and ram him good, if he told me he wanted that. Sorry......what was the question lol.
Oh ok! - Yes playing with a man's anus is hot, cause it feels naughty!
- I would prefer to be involved in the giving, rather than just watching. That's my preference.
- Fav thing, pushing a finger gently into that tight, tight hole.

 

[touchofgrey910]

I have no problem with giving my man ass play, if he wanted it. But so far he doesn't seem comfortable with the idea. I'm pretty sure he does like a little anal stimulation, but if I go THERE, (for example a tiny insertion of finger while down in that general area) he trys to act like he's only doing it because I like it. I think it's a fear of liking it too much and what he thinks that might mean. See our minds fuck with us!! I'd strap on a huge dildo and ram him good, if he told me he wanted that. Sorry......what was the question lol.
Oh ok! - Yes playing with a man's anus is hot, cause it feels naughty!
- I would prefer to be involved in the giving, rather than just watching. That's my preference.
- Fav thing, pushing a finger gently into that tight, tight hole.

Marry me?

 

[LiathLis]

Marry me?

Haha! Sorry but I don't live in a place where bigamy is allowed

 

[touchofgrey910]

Haha! Sorry but I don't live in a place where bigamy is allowed

Okay, so let me join you two! lol

 

[spyhooked]

I love being stretched wide by my man's cock, and when he lets me finger my sore clit while he fucks my ass... oh lordy. I haven't plucked up the courage to ask him, but it would be a huge turn on if I watched him finger his ass. We both share a fantasy involving him getting fucked by another man, sounds like we will start there first.

 

[eojinoh10]

very very hot comment

 

[djhindy]

Thanks for the insight. Despite being a strait male, I've found i sincerely enjoy ass play. I suppose it is a rather kinky/taboo thing. doesn't look like it will be easy to find a girl who is into it as well. If you are one such female, however, I'd love to chat with you about it.

 

[Ex Princess]

My man wants to be the giver, and has no interest in receiving so I don't push it.

I have never done it, but definitely have been intrigued by fucking a guy with a strap-on, rimming him and I have always wanted to try fingering his ass while he has his cock deep inside my pussy.

 

[strapon_tales]

My man wants to be the giver, and has no interest in receiving so I don't push it.

I have never done it, but definitely have been intrigued by fucking a guy with a strap-on, rimming him and I have always wanted to try fingering his ass while he has his cock deep inside my pussy.

That's how it started for me; I plucked up the courage to ask my girl one day to finger me while stroking my cock, and then, it kinda went on from there. I would suggest that, if you are interested in trying it, you at least try to gently broach the subject somehow.

 

[Ex Princess]

That's how it started for me; I plucked up the courage to ask my girl one day to finger me while stroking my cock, and then, it kinda went on from there. I would suggest that, if you are interested in trying it, you at least try to gently broach the subject somehow.

Oh, I tried to finger him once and he stopped me, he said he is not interested at all. It's okay though, we have plenty of other kinky ideas to play with that he does enjoy...

 

[johnnyfm78]

My wife loves fingering (and using a dildo on) my ass... and I love it too!

 

[grannykat]

Since I mostly have sex with much older men, I sometimes have to resort to creative ways to get them off. For instance, when a blowjob seems to be going on forever and he almost gets there but just doesn't quite make it, a well-lubed finger up his ass and onto his prostate will usually initiate his orgasm, and it may well be the most intense he has felt in many years.

 

[jsmith678920]

Since I mostly have sex with much older men, I sometimes have to resort to creative ways to get them off. For instance, when a blowjob seems to be going on forever and he almost gets there but just doesn't quite make it, a well-lubed finger up his ass and onto his prostate will usually initiate his orgasm, and it may well be the most intense he has felt in many years.

She's right. It is such an intense orgasm. I love anal play - fingers, licking, dildos, (have yet to have a strap on used on me) - and consider it an essential part of sex now.

It's a shame that so many men think that if they admit to enjoying anal sex (receiving) that they might be perceived as gay. I am totally straight and would never consider having any sexual contact with another man. But when a gorgeous woman enlists for anal play, I know she's a keeper

 

[amylin456]

Oh, I tried to finger him once and he stopped me, he said he is not interested at all. It's okay though, we have plenty of other kinky ideas to play with that he does enjoy...

sounds very very erotic.. he should be more open to your 'advances'' perhaps

 

[nisha_in61]

Same here.
It didn't work out for us too.

 

[omgitselaine]

Oh, I tried to finger him once and he stopped me, he said he is not interested at all. It's okay though, we have plenty of other kinky ideas to play with that he does enjoy...

I've tried a few times with various ex-bfs and hubby now and nooone ..... not one was interested guess that's the homo phobic mentality of these " machismo " men i've always dated ??

 

[Ex Princess]

I've tried a few times with various ex-bfs and hubby now and nooone ..... not one was interested guess that's the homo phobic mentality of these " machismo " men i've always dated ??

Maybe... it's their loss, anyway!

 

[raffi_sandoval]

My man wants to be the giver, and has no interest in receiving so I don't push it.

I have never done it, but definitely have been intrigued by fucking a guy with a strap-on, rimming him and I have always wanted to try fingering his ass while he has his cock deep inside my pussy.

ive had a gf put a butt plug in my ass while I was fucking her. i didnt want it to stop.

 

[djhindy]

My man wants to be the giver, and has no interest in receiving so I don't push it.

I have never done it, but definitely have been intrigued by fucking a guy with a strap-on, rimming him and I have always wanted to try fingering his ass while he has his cock deep inside my pussy.

This has also interested me. I'll admit to fooling around with a butt plug and quite enjoying it. I think a girl with a strap on would certainly be even more fun.

 

[Hamnder20]

I enjoy receiving but my wife doesn't is the one our relationship that finds it dirty. Well for now. I'm going slow and introducing ideas so perhaps sometime anal play will take a more a more active role in our sex life.

 

[kinktastic]

I've had 2 girls finger my ass, both seemed like they were unprepared for me liking it, and I never could get either of them to do it again after the initial time. The way they acted made me feel embarrassed to ask for them to do it again. I've only had one girl that let me have anal sex with her, and she initiated it, but acted like she was doing it because I wanted it, and not because she was genuinely interested or liked it--therefore it wasn't as enjoyable as I had always fantasized it would be. I tend to have bad luck regarding this area

 

[hokiwiz]

I've had 2 girls finger my ass, both seemed like they were unprepared for me liking it, and I never could get either of them to do it again after the initial time. The way they acted made me feel embarrassed to ask for them to do it again. I've only had one girl that let me have anal sex with her, and she initiated it, but acted like she was doing it because I wanted it, and not because she was genuinely interested or liked it--therefore it wasn't as enjoyable as I had always fantasized it would be. I tend to have bad luck regarding this area

Thats a bummer, Given way more than I have received, love tipping the lady over the edge