Why do women like anal sex?

[SueTeri]

It's both. Sort of like your diaphragm. You know how breathing is "involuntary" yet you can control it? It's like that.

So true!

 

[Pabiporffor]

I'm not convinced we can entirely control our sphincter with the power of thought as we can with our breathing. If anything, we've mastered keeping it tightly closed to avoid embarrassing accidents. Sure, we can 'push out' to aid penetration, but it doesn't exactly fully open up.

I see the sphincter more as a muscle bound bouncer who's easily confused about which direction he's controlling. With a little lubrication and gentle persuasion, it lets down its guard and goes for a coffee break.

Just as a good chef can take tough sinewy meat and hard dried inedible beans and turn it into a sumptuous feast, a good lover can take that tight dry unyielding cheerio and turn it into a cream filled doughnut.

 

[Britva415]

I'm not convinced we can entirely control our sphincter with the power of thought as we can with our breathing. If anything, we've mastered keeping it tightly closed to avoid embarrassing accidents. Sure, we can 'push out' to aid penetration, but it doesn't exactly fully open up

It's not supposed to open, like your mouth. That's not what anyone is talking about. Of course it's going to take an object to fully open it up.

We absolutely can (learn to) control whether it's clamping shut tightly though, and stop fighting against the object until it practically gets sucked in. "Pushing" doesn't even come close to the sphincter control that's possible.

 

[LMWM321]

Thats true. But sodomy is best enjoyed with pain and force by thre recipient girl to submit to force and boosts ego of the guy and increases his libido to deliver.

oh, you mean like rape? ..Gross, dude. Fucking gross.

 

[jimmyhedo]

It's both. Sort of like your diaphragm. You know how breathing is "involuntary" yet you can control it? It's like that.

Yes, and when you learn how to control it you'll have hours of intense pleasure!